I'm brand new here by the way. I'm 27 years old and within the past year I've had these insanely strong baby urges which really surprised me. The only thing is, my brain is torn between wanting a baby and wanting to do all these other things first, like travel and plus I just got out of school so I'm at the first job I've ever had in my field and really want to further my career and pay off student debts. But then these irrational baby thoughts pop in and say, "Screw everything else, have a baby!!". One day I feel like all I want to do is settle down and have a family, the next day I think that's the last thing I want to do, I don't want to settle down for several years yet. It's really confusing and a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Anyone else feel conflicted??