27 TTC #1 looking for a buddy

[lol2811]

So far we have BD'd on cd8, 10, 12, 13 and 14. It says on ff analysis still good so I guess even if ov does stay at that date there is still that. Guess the thing to do is still BD tonight as planned and just see what tomorrow brings. Just finding that the smallest of things are stressing me.

 

[DrGomps]

I think your bases are covered. now its time for the to swim and for the fertilized egg to implant!! come on egg you can do it!! Charlotte wants a baby!!

 

[DrGomps]

ladyzara, what do you do for work? yeah...temping can be hard if your hours are unpredictable. This your first time with preseed? Do you elevate your hips after bd? You are going to get pregnant!!!

Thanks for the well wishes for my bump. I thought the stress would end after we finally conceived but now I am terrified that it won't stick. Before AF was late everytime I went to the bathroom I was terrified I would see her (especially because of all the cm). But she is officially a week late (I am 21 DPO). SO if there ever is bleeding its a mc. SO afraid...but I have never had one so there is no reason except for the fact that I am already so attached. I already got a bunch of maternity clothes (a lot on ebay) and some onesies and geeky maternity shirts. See below...Even got a book for DH for fathers day.

 

[Ladyzara]

ladyzara, what do you do for work? yeah...temping can be hard if your hours are unpredictable. This your first time with preseed? Do you elevate your hips after bd? You are going to get pregnant!!!

i'm a mental health nurse so can be stressfull and very active! yes rthis will be the first month of using preseed i tri and elevate hips but never to sure how long for? wow the cloths are lush!! i bet it is stressful but so exciting at the same time! x

 

[lol2811]

The baby clothes are so sweet Andrea.

I elevate my hips, I try and do it for at least half an hour.

 

[Ladyzara]

half an hour! gosh i'll have to make sure something goods on TV after

 

[lol2811]

Lol I always make sure something good is on. I think 15-20 mins is enough though, and of course many women get pregnant without doing it at all so wouldn't stress about it. I'm the worst person to say that though, I stress about everything.

 

[DrGomps]

I make DH bring me my laptop after so I can go onto bnb during the 30 minute wait...teeheeehee.

Ladyzara, mental health nurse...that must be very interesting and rewarding...But I can see how it can be stressful. Mental health is an issue close to my heart...a cousin of mine died because of an overdose four years ago and a friend of mine last month who was severely depressed jumped off a bridge and died (both we 25). I work in neuroscience and don't actually deal with psychiatric issues ( I work on mental ******ation/autism) but have a great deal of respect for those working in mental health. Its important work.

 

[lol2811]

I completely agree!

 

[Ladyzara]

thank you i already feel alot better why have i only just joined bnb!! what lovely support.

 

[Ladyzara]

Dr Gomps your work must be interesting! i'm so sorry to hear about your friend and cousin it can be such an awful illness and so misunderstood by others.

lol2811 i always stress but it has got easier as time has gone by

 

[lol2811]

I am very up and down through the month which obviously doesn't help but I'm trying my best to relax about things but it's easier said than done.

 

[DrGomps]

Charlotte, I know how you feel. Its hard not to stress about things. I am feeling so stressed today...the boss dropped a load of work on me today and I have a deadline for this freelance gig I do (I write scientific questions for exams and textbooks). Then I stress that the stress will cause me to mc. Stick bean stick!!

Ladyzara, I can't believe you have been ttc without bnb for so long!!

 

[lol2811]

It will be a sticky bean Andrea!!!!

Bit gutted today, didnt get to BD last night, DH didnt get home till 11.30ish and I felt awful, pounding headache absolutely shattered so DTD was the last thing on my mind. Feel the same thismorning, head is throbing and I could just fall asleep on my desk!

Hopefully I'll feel a little better laster for the journey away and then we can get some BD'ing in tonight just to cover all bases.

 

[DrGomps]

Sorry you aren't feeling well Charlotte. you definitely already o'ed so I would say you are covered and its not necessary to BD (if you don't want to). 2WW here we come!!! Do you leave today for your break? Time for egg to implant.

 

[lol2811]

Yes just finishing a few bits at work (being naughty on BnB) then will be heading off.

I feel a little better now but still got a headache.

Come on eggy hook on!!!!!

 

[Ladyzara]

Have a great time away!
Andrea I hope work dosen''t stress you out too much and I'm sure bean will stick! Bnb is great I may start a journal

 

[DrGomps]

YOu should start a journal ladyzara! So cathartic..wish I would've started one when I was ttc...well I had one I wrote notes in (hard copy) but not a digital one. Lots of time they were notes reassuring myself.

 

[Ladyzara]

Andrea you have a great blog! Love all the photos so cute the clothes you've bought, hope ur feeling well and enjoying the weekend x

 

[DrGomps]

thanks ladyzara! I tried to look at your journal but the link is broken...