29 ttc#1 14 months, wanting a buddy!

[waiting2c]

Yay muffin, I hope your drs appointment eases your mind! How cool that he delivered you, that is really cool. Of course you can stick around!

Pink - lol about staying in a room next door to parents! That would put a bit of an end to bding! GL for getting it all in now

Feb and Hena - how are you guys, are you still around?

 

[pinkflamingo]

Waiting, your testing day is getting closer! How are you feeling this cycle? I have a long way to go, am cd 12 of a 35 - 40 day cycle!! It was 35 before my mc but annoyingly has lengthened since.

Let's hope we all get our bfp this month and then we can change the thread to bump buddies!

Muffin you have to stick around to give us motivation! You are what we are hoping to be!!

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Pink - im not sure if my ticker is correct. At first I thought I had ovulated on Sat cos had lots of EWCM on Friday and had cramps overnight on friday. Then nothing till today when I have got some more EWCM so not really sure if I have ovulated or not now.

 

[pinkflamingo]

I don't really know my body well enough to know when I ov! I suppose I should by now but due to pcos I don't ovulate every month anyway on my own, so I guess I gave up trying to work it out!
Have decided that I need to go on a weight loss mission and plan to start tomorrow. Have put on loads since my mc but don't think I can use that as an excuse for the next ten years! Need to get back in control of things and get firm with myself! Am going to try a low gi diet which is supposed to work best for pcos. Now where did I put that willpower of mine.........????!!!!!

 

[Feb4th2011]

I'm still here ladies! Sorry for being so tardy. Loading this webb site on my phone is incredibly crappy. Couple more weeks until my aircard is back... BUT ill have internet acceess wed to sun, caause ill be in the city visiting for Canada Day Long weekend!
So I turned down the job that I spoke of last week... Its a bit risky... But I found another job that would give me better pay and more hours! Fingers crossed for me! I'm gonna go back and read what I've missed. Xo guys!

 

[Hena]

Hi everyone! We had a busy weekend, which I really needed, complete with some hiking in the alps. Yesterday was insane at work, over 30 degrees and we don't have AC, half of my students nearly fell asleep...I nearly fell asleep, lol. Today is even hotter, but I only have three classes so it shouldn't so exhausting.
I'm 9dpo, my temps are steadily high, but I know that can change any day so I'm not letting that get my hopes up too much. I felt some shooting pains on Sunday evening and again yesterday morning, but I feel funny things every month so anyway, I'm trying to be optimistic but not get my hopes up too high because I want to avoid the crushing disapointment we had last month.
btyw, It's been one whole week without coffee now, and I feel great!

 

[mmmuffin82]

Doctor was amazing! We was so excited. My husband was meeting him for the first time so it was a nice meet and greet. My doc really puts at ease he told me that my mom had easy, perfect pregnancies and I will likely be the same. Just what I needed for the anxiety!

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Guys! Nice to hear from you all! Feb, fingers are crossed for you to get the job you are after, better pay and hours sounds good!

Hena! Wow well done on the coffee... i have one a day, not sure what going a week without would be like. Ooooh 9dpo, when are you thinking of testing, are you waiting for af to be late?

Muffin - I am so so so pleased doctors was amazing and has put your mind at ease a bit, how super exciting. He sounds like an awesome doctor which is just what you needed.

I think I might be having another weird cycle like last month (wondering if these will become my new normal?), had cramping for past 4 days, Expected to Ovulate on Sat or Sun last week, had plenty of EWCM leading up to Sat, then nothing till Monday afternoon when had some more snot like (sorry TMI) stuff. Im just going to Bd every couple of days for the next two weeks to make sure lol. My OH has had no concerns with the frequency so far lol.

 

[pinkflamingo]

Hey ladies!

Just wondered whether any of you had thought of any special ways to tell your oh when you get that bfp! Some may have him there when you test, I can't always wait though! I just saw a maternity top with 'we've scored' on the front and it made me wonder what he would say if he came home and I was wearing it!!!

Have you had any thoughts? Or did you do something in the past?

X

 

[Coco14]

Hi ladies, hope you are all well. I haven't been able to get online for a while.
Glad to hear you are doing good Hena, I'm jealous of your trip to the alps!

 

[Hena]

Hi everyone! How are you all? Angel and KC, haven't seen you in ages, how are you doing? Angel how do you like the cbfm? I'm wondering if I should pick one up when I'm in the States this summer.

AFM, we are a test-together couple, and we were planning on testing this morning, but I woke up yesterday with heavy cramping, then a very light bleed in the afternoon, followed by some very watery looking brown-pink spots that only showed on the toilet paper. At about 11:30 last night there was some very dark brown gummy blood on the paper and it smelled like AF iykwim, so I was quite sure I was officially out. Then this morning I wiped before peeing, and only a tiny brown-pink watery spot again. So Nico and I desided to test just in case with fmu. Since then I've had a few dark brown spots but mostly clean paper. Still some cramping. I often have very light periods, but this is rediculous, could the pregnacare conception vitamins be causing this? Is there any chance it's late IB?

Anyway, I had a good cry with DH this morning who like the trooper he is lifted me up and renewed my can-do attitude. A team like us can't fail in the long run!

Okay, but at the same time I am DREADING going to the States and Canada in two weeks and having every member of my family and all of my friends asking when we're going to have kids and telling me not to wait too long even if we had our bfp before going it would be too early to announce to anyone but my mum and dad, but it would have been a lot easier to coyly say "that's for God to decide" or "We'll see" or "I dunno, the DINK like is really good!" as it is, I think I'm likely to slap someone and say "mind your own business"

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Hena, I was thinking of you yesterday actually and was wondering if you had tested yet. I really hope its late IB for you, unfortunately I have never had any experience with taking conception vitamins so not sure if this could cause it, have my fingers crossed things work out for you. I know what you mean about everyone asking, and that it would be nicer to have the secret.

Your DH sounds absolutely amazing Hena, he is right, a team like you cant fail in the long run. It is awesome to hear how great he is.

Im supposidly in the second week of two week wait, although not sure of anything really after last cycle. Will just wait and see. Dont feel like this month is it as have zero symptoms of anything, not even sure I od.

 

[Hena]

Fingers still crossed for you Waiting!!! Are you planning to test in 5 days like your ticker says?

 

[waiting2c]

Yup I think I will how are you doing today hena?

 

[Hena]

I'm okay...I've accepted that my bleeding was AF although I'm thinking of renaming it Aunt Drip Yesterday there was some red blood in the middle of the day, and before bed I suddenly had enough old blood to qualify as "flow" I think. Nothing today...blah. I guess I'll lay off booze this week anyway just to be safe, but I'm considering today CD2.

How are you feeling? I can't remember, do you temp?

 

[waiting2c]

Sorry to hear that Hena... at least it was not a super long and awful cycle though.

I dont temp, I have no idea if I ovulated or not, going off CM really with my predictions.

I did go to the doctors for soemthing else yesterday and then mentioned to him that we are trying and he has given me blood test forms for CD 2 adn CD 21 for next cycle to test that I did ovulate. Will be nice to get some reasurrance. I tested this morning (hopeless aye) and got a BFN, probably still way too early though as I think if I did O then it would have been about 4 or 5 days after my ticker thought I did, leaving me only 7 or 8 dpo now.

 

[pinkflamingo]

Hi ladies!

I got my first high on my cbfm so am excited! I haven't used it for a few months so its good to be back using it and seeing the change from low to high. Hope I get my peak in next couple of days.

Hope everyone is ok

Xx

 

[Coco14]

Hi Hena, sorry to hear darned AF arrived *hugs*

 

[Hena]

Hi ladies!

I got my first high on my cbfm so am excited! I haven't used it for a few months so its good to be back using it and seeing the change from low to high. Hope I get my peak in next couple of days.

Hope everyone is ok

Xx

yay for highs!!! Go catch that eggy!!!!

 

[pinkflamingo]

Thanks Hena. Sorry to hear that AF came and visited you. Had my 2 peak days now too so a bit more of bd tonight and then it looks like I am in the 2 ww.

Xx