* I’m sorry if this is the wrong thread to post to! Wasn’t sure where to post!*
Long story short, I have full custody and dad is no longer in the picture. I allow one overnight a week with her dad’s mother (not court ordered, just a personal thing). My daughter told me that my ex MIL moved her bed into the room they have for my daughter over there so that she can cuddle and hold her whenever she wants. I didn’t think anything of it until my sister starting telling me how she would feel if that was her child.
Now I’m questioning, should I say something? Should I pause overnights for a little bit? It is kind of weird that she MOVED her bed into the room. It wouldn’t bother me so much if she respected me as a mother and didn’t try to take on the mother role when the ex and I were together and my daughter was a baby. But now I feel like it’s odd. It also bothers me because when she comes back from being there one night, she wants to sleep in my bed with me. I’m trying to teach her to be a big girl and sleep in her big girl bed. I feel like ex MIL is throwing that all away in that ONE night. Should I say something?
Long story short, I have full custody and dad is no longer in the picture. I allow one overnight a week with her dad’s mother (not court ordered, just a personal thing). My daughter told me that my ex MIL moved her bed into the room they have for my daughter over there so that she can cuddle and hold her whenever she wants. I didn’t think anything of it until my sister starting telling me how she would feel if that was her child.
Now I’m questioning, should I say something? Should I pause overnights for a little bit? It is kind of weird that she MOVED her bed into the room. It wouldn’t bother me so much if she respected me as a mother and didn’t try to take on the mother role when the ex and I were together and my daughter was a baby. But now I feel like it’s odd. It also bothers me because when she comes back from being there one night, she wants to sleep in my bed with me. I’m trying to teach her to be a big girl and sleep in her big girl bed. I feel like ex MIL is throwing that all away in that ONE night. Should I say something?