3 failed IUIs. How do you cope?

Thanks bma :) I actually don't know yet how many I had, the nurse didn't give me a # but from the screen it appeared to be 3-4 on each side (to my untrained eyes!). They were all 6mm or under. I will keep you posted and appreciate the feedback. From what I've seen by searching online, this US is pretty early and a lot can change in a week.
 
Mav, small follies are totally normal at this stage. My first ultrasound I remember being so disappointed because I had 3 measurable follies and I ended up with 36 eggs. Part of the reason they do so many ultrasound/bloodwork appts is so they can change your dose if needed. So if your response is less than what your doctor wants at this stage, they can up your dose. Mine ended up being dropped down a couple times.

Well, I caved and took a hpt this morning. :bfp:, but chances are its still the hcg shot. I'm 9dp5dt but I took a 2500iu Novarel shot 2dp5dt (last Wed) and my 5000iu trigger shot was Monday, July 8. So I'm not getting my hopes up yet.
 
Thanks Stay! I will try to take it a day at a time and not worry about all the what-ifs.

I will try not to get too excited about your bfp, but man I hope it's really it!!
 
Stayhopeful, OMG I really pray that the BCP sticks!!:dust:

Maverick keep us posted

Thanks Strawberry, how are you doing?
 
Stay hopeful- yay! Is it very faint or not? Can you upload a pic? I'm thinking it is a bfp!!! And I'm so excited! My friend had a micro dose of the ovidrel so kind of the same thing as you and she kept testing and it never got lighter so for her she knew it was her bfp!
 
Well I am breathing a little easier, the nurse called me back and said estrogen level is 328 which she was very happy with so she said even though the follies are small, that number tells her they are growing well, so I will have another scan Friday a.m. to see what is happening. Also she said they are not changing my dose right now.
 
For all of you that have got your BFP's on IVF cycles did you change your lifestyle and diet? Any suggestions?

Did any of you take extra supplements while on BCP? I'm currently taking Prenatals, and COQ10. Someone mentioned Royal Jelly for egg quality. Anything else??

Did you get off caffeine? No alchohol after stims??

Thanks for all the help

Hey baby.wish-- I got pretty serious with diet and health during my stims! I felt I wanted to do everything in my power to make IVF work and that way if it was a BFN I couldn't blame myself. ( this is a pretty long post but I had a lot of details to share and always appreciated info like this when I was going through IVF )

I don't actually know how much of this ACTUALLY helped me but I felt like I was controlling what I could control at least! When I asked my nurse about drinking/ caffeine etc they were pretty laid back about the whole thing so what I did was based on research and my own knowledge of health/wellness.

During BCP I cut to half decaf/ half reg coffee. I used to drink 2-3 cups of reg coffee per day, but during BCP I did 1-2 cups of half caf. It slowly weaned me off coffee as I knew I was going to totally cut it out during stims. During stims, no coffee at ALL! My nurse said a cup or two was okay but I had read conflicting reports that caffeine can cut down on chances of implantation so I QUIT!

Also during BCP I weaned down a LOT on alcohol ( specifically wine! ). I allowed myself a glass here or there ( weekends ONLY ) and specifically remember my last HURRAH the final day of BCP where I had three glasses of wine.

All during stims I had no alcohol AT ALL. I then had egg retrieval on a Monday and went out to dinner with DH that Thursday ( two nights before my transfer! ) and had two glasses of wine! I was so stressed and we both figured--there weren't anymore eggs actually "in" there so go for it. I actually think it relaxed me!! Plus I hadnt had wine in a while so it was a nice treat before transfer. AND, I got my BFP so I guess it worked for us!

During BCP and throughout stims I made super healthy fruit smoothies every morning....they were packed with yogurt, fresh berries, oatmeal, and flax seed and delivered all the nutrients I read that you should eat during that time. Once I totally cut out coffee during stims I drank these smoothies in their place and honestly didn't miss it too much. These smoothies made me feel really, really good!

I also ate super balanced meals and tried to up my protein intake( from BCP through the 2ww ). I ate a healthy, vitamin packed salad almost everyday with spinach, tons of veggies, and two hardboiled eggs. I heard eggs help increase egg quality--not sure if it was true but ALL mine retrieved were viable! I also tried to limit sugar ( no real basis for that, just thought it was healthier ) and drank at least one glass of milk every day.

AND when I woke up every morning I gulped 2 huge glasses of room temp water and then kept my h20 intake very high throughout the day. I read a lot of research that advocated for high volumes of water and read a few things for water first thing in the morning. I will never know if all of this was what helped me get my BCP but it gave my something to focus on through the process and to be honest I felt SUPER fit and healthy.

Also, after each stim shot every night I went into the would-be-baby room and did some light yoga and meditation for about 15 minutes. It was very calming and the stretching made me feel good as you have to cut down on cardio when going through stims.

If you have any other questions please let me know!!! I will never put money on the fact that this all helped me get my BFP but it certainly didn't hurt and it got me ready to begin my pregnancy in a healthy way because I was already eating how I should!
 
Hi ladies, Its been awhile since I posted. Here is my history:
TTC: #1 for 18 months
Feb 2013: Clomid 50mg days 4-8, no trigger, one IUI -BFN
March 2013:Clomid days 4-8, HCG trigger, 2 B2B IUIs -BFN
April 2013: Clomid days 4-8, HCG trigger, one IUI -BFN
May 2013: Follitism days 3-10 (tapered dose), , HCG trigger, and 2 B2B IUIs-BFN
June 2013: Follitism days 3-10 (tapered dose), HCG tigger, and 2 B2B IUIs-BFN
My husband and I were supposed to do one last IUI the month of July. We just couldn't put ourselves through that again. We contacted our RE and said we'd like to take July-Sept off and come back for IVF in October.
Well today I took a preg test because I was supposed to start my period today. I got a BFP!!! No meds, no IUI!! I cannot believe it! Keep hope ladies! Miracles do happen.
 
Congrats breanne! Great news :)

Sunshine thanks for all that info, I've been thinking lately I should start making changes now if there is anything I can do to prepare in advance.

Stay- I really really hope this is a sticky bfp! I agree that you should keep testing to see if it gets darker... I've never tested out the trigger before so ihave no clue how long it takes...

Maverick glad you got some positive news about your follicles, you're probably about halfway there now, right? So close!
 
I'm attaching a picture of my test from this morning, I have no idea why it's upside down so sorry about that... It was pretty dark and popped up right away. It's a Target Up & Up Brand test. When I was googling the sensitivity of the test this morning (I know, I know, Google is my enemy :dohh:) I did see several reviews about false positives with that test, though, which makes me nervous. It sounds like their lines were fairly thin though, and mine seems a little thicker. I'm so hopeful that this is my real bfp!

Mav, glad to hear that your E2 level looked good and those follies are growing. My doctor always explained it to me as that it's more important that they're growing around the same rate than that they're growing quickly. If they're closer to the same size, they'll get there eventually and then you'll have lots of follies at ER.

Congrats on your BFP, Breanne!!!
 

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Thanks ladies! Strawberry, I assume I'm getting close to the halfway point but you never know I guess. It was day 5 of stims today. Hope you are doing well now early in your 2ww...you are smart to get started thinking about this stuff well before your potential ivf (hoping you beat the odds still!!) I really waited too long and didn't prepare but it's too late to sweat it now.

Stay, that looks like a strong bfp to me!!! Let us know if you continue to test...
 
That's a pretty strong positive stay... Let us know if you test again but I have a very good feeling this is it!
 
Sending you good vibes Stay! That's a nice looking +. Are you feeling any different these days?

Good luck with your stims Mav!!
 
Thanks, ladies! I'm going to test again in the morning with a frer. The past few days I've just been really tired, not much else feels different though.
 
A frer (a brand I trust a whole lot more) from this morning! Since it's a different brand than yesterday's test I can't compare the two, but I'll test again tomorrow morning with another frer and then I can see if it's getting darker or lighter.
 

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Omg! That's definitely your bfp! That's not the hcg! Way too dark! :happydance: :yipee:
 
me too! i cannot imagine it being that dark from the hcg 8 days ago!!
 
That is blazing!! The only time I checked if the hcg was gone was once when I was 9 days past trigger and it was completely white. I think you got this. :thumbup:
 

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