First time I wasn't even trying! Lol! We weren't trying but definately weren't preventing for years. I had just figured that it wasn't gonna happen... After 6 years you just kinda forget about it and move on... Since my periods are so irregular there was no red flag that I missed one.... Then I thought I had "the flu" cuz I felt like crap and was throwing up.... And I just couldn't seem to get any better. Then my mom came over to take care of me one day and while she was doing my dishes she suddenly turned and looked at me and said, "are you pregnant?!?".... I reassured her that I wasn't, but then it got me thinking.... A couple days later I took a test and sure enough! I was 7-8 weeks along at that point! LOL!!!!