32 ttc for 10 months now - anyone in the same boat?

[whiskey]

Hi Tnkerbell15. Thanks for sharing your story and so sorry for you losses. I really hope all is going well this cycle for you.

How is everyone else doing?

 

[cooch]

well, I should get my appointment for lap and dye for end of September. Had an internal today and it seems to have brought on AF. Yuck. End Sep is great for us as we're not allowed to try again til I ovulate mid Oct. So good timing.

What about everyone else?

 

[lizzywiz]

DPO 7 and no symptoms that I haven't had a million times. However, I do think it is weird that science says we can't have any TTW symptoms because it is too early but millions of women insist that there was something different about their body- I tend to trust the women.
What do you guys think about TWW symptoms?

 

[knoxydd]

Hi Everyone..

I read through all the stories on this thread and decided to post since I'm in the same unfortunate situation. I'm 35 and 10 months TTC. My clock is seriously ticking. I have run the gamunt of tests early on (3rd month) and SA, blood and HSG were clear. I did about 3 months of acupuncture since I heard many great success stories but it didn't give me my BFP so I stopped. It did however help me relax a but more. I have read alot about evening primrose oil and decided to start that this cycle. Has anyone tried this? It actually did increase my CM. I'm on day 14 today and got my on the OPK this morning. We've been at it on days 10, 12, 13, 14 so we'll see. Crossing my fingers for all of you ladies.. Good luck!

 

[cooch]

Good luck knoxydd. Evening primrose oil gave me crazier periods- sent me nuts!!! Anyway Im going for lap and dye pretty soon. Have had two internals and neither gave me pain so Im hoping lap and dye will only be a case of clearing the cob webs. I have been doing acupuncture too although I only styarted it at the start of Aug and so far have had 3 or 4 appointments. Im quite enjoying it.

 

[mrshanna]

Hello Ladies! I am 35, DH 37, and we are ttc number one, and have been for officially 12 months this month. Like everyone else, I never would have guessed it would be like this. DH used to joke that once we got started "trying" all he would have to do is sneeze on me and I would be pregnant. Ive always had regular cycles. Our tests are all fine. So...I guess Im waiting for God to say now is the time.

 

[knoxydd]

Thanks Cooch! How did the EPO give you crazier periods? In what way? I've read some threads where ladies say it made them lighter and shorter but a little on the clotting side. best of luck with your lap and dye. A friend of mine has been through all of this (2 year TTC) and swears by that test. She got her BFP like 2 months after. Good luck!

 

[knoxydd]

mrshanna - i feel your pain. I never in a million years thought this would be my reality. I'm 35, TTC #1 too and thought it would happen pretty quickly. Crazy thing is I work with a guy who had a vascectomy and just annocuned that he and his wife are expecting. apparently it's extremely rare but can happen... Imagine that.

have you tried anything to increase your chances? We've been contemplating starting clomid but wanted to wait until we got to the 12 month mark 1st. I this point, I dont care how it happens - just let it happen! best of luck!

 

[lizzywiz]

Knox- I take EPO from CD 1- O day and it did increase my EWCM. Like I said in another post, could be placebo effect but either way it works for me! I take Omega Women from Nordic Naturals.

Thinking fertile thoughts for everyone!

 

[mrshanna]

Knox...I did use clomid for two cycles, about 6 months ago, but I wasnt being monitored at all and I was afraid it may be doing more harm than good. My periods were EXREMELY light while I was on it, which made me suspect it was thinning the lining of my uterus. I would love to see a FS, but my insurance doesnt pay for any of it and it is EXPENSIVE!!!

 

[Natashaa1]

Hey ladies,

Well whilst in Rome my OH proposed I didnt take my themometer to Rome and haven't tracked this month so no idea if i ovulated or if we BD'd at the right time hoping fate will take its course and if not i'm going to start wedding planning

Hope everyone is ok?

 

[Gregsprincess]

Hey ladies,

Well whilst in Rome my OH proposed I didnt take my themometer to Rome and haven't tracked this month so no idea if i ovulated or if we BD'd at the right time hoping fate will take its course and if not i'm going to start wedding planning

Hope everyone is ok?

Ah congratulations, how romantic in Rome

 

[mrshanna]

Hey ladies,

Well whilst in Rome my OH proposed I didnt take my themometer to Rome and haven't tracked this month so no idea if i ovulated or if we BD'd at the right time hoping fate will take its course and if not i'm going to start wedding planning

Hope everyone is ok?

Awe Congratulations! Whens the big day going to be?

 

[NewToAllThis]

Back here with you. We lost our baby...
Another missed miscarriage

 

[Natashaa1]

Newtoallthis so so sorry for your bad news big huges xx

 

[whiskey]

NewToAllThis – I’m so, so sorry you’re going through this. My thoughts are with you

 

[whiskey]

Natashaa1 - congratulations! That is wonderful news and what a beautiful place to be proposed to! Any ideas on when the big day will be?

Well AF got me today again!!!! Not happy - attempting to come up with ANOTHER plan of action for the coming - any suggestions?

 

[Natashaa1]

Hoping to get married next summer, assuming i dont get my BFP before hand wasn't my month this months either AF got me too. I have pcos and have been taking AC for the last to months and this month my cycle was a 'normal' 29 days but AF is very very heavy. Was hoping as this was my first month after my hsg i might have a bit of luck but oh no not to be

 

[cooch]

Natasha what will prob happen is. You will arrange the perfect wedding and find out your due round about the same time. Just go with the flow. Looking back, if I had found out I was preg at a time round about my wedding I would have been shocked. But if you really think about it the baby is the one thing you cannot plan. You would re arrange it or make adjustments and just be over the moon about everything working out. Best wishes

 

[whiskey]

Hi Ladies - had to share - another friend announced she was pregnant yesterday and get this - her and her hubby looked after our apartment when we were on holiday in July - and she said to me "This is probably too much information but it happened the week we stayed at you." I just smiled inanely. Seriously though! It's like baby karma is being taken away from me!!!! How can my bed be lucky for one couple and not luck fopr us??!!
I've started seeing fertility acupuncturist this week - has ayone else tried this or reflexology? x