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33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

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Curious I'm so sorry. It hurts so much when other people announce. I have 2 at my work at the moment, both who have children younger than me and I'm so jealous. Can't help it.
 
Curious I know how you feel. For me it's not just the horrible jealousy when other people announce it, I even feel anxiety about close friends getting pregnant before I do. Just feels so unfair sometimes.
 
I no how you feel curious! I just wish it would happen for us all now!!'

Still no af so I'm assuming I ovulated later. 🤔
 
I'm sorry you're feeling crap curious I totally know how you feel. I have friends I made when my dd was born and 3 of the 6 have their #2 and remarked how easy it was that time 2 of them on first month trying other on 2nd! Here I am 6 months on with nothing to show for it other than a mc! Life doesn't seem fair when ttc. Really hope you feel better soon but we are here for you to rant anytime you need to of not :hugs:
 
Curious I'm sorry :hugs: I understand though. When I mc my friend was pregnant, further along than I had been and the first time she visited me right after my mc she grabbed my hand for me to feel her baby moving and as much as I was happy for her I also just didn't want to know. And then my rather childish sister said "I bet I get pregnant before you do again" and it all felt like a huge kick in the teeth, more my sister than the friend of course as that was incredibly insensitive to say, but then she is an insensitive bitch so...
And now, after early loss after early loss it feels like we get stuck at conception, that happens fine but keeping them hasn't happened thus far and each time I have felt like giving up, more so after each time it happens. You try to put on a smile for the world because that's what you do, but then there's an announcement or you're by yourself for a while and it starts to drag you down.
The only thing you can do, that any of us can do, is to keep trying and keep smiling even if you have to fake it at first because it will happen at some point, just like it did for those who announce their happy news, you will be announcing your own happy news too
 
I'm so sorry, Curious. I know so many of us know how you feel. I was supposed to be due in February and people have started announcing their February babies on FB and it's just so hard to see. That was supposed to be me :( Hugs to you, we'll get our rainbows soon I just know it.
 
Thank you ladies so much. Big hugs to you all. I'm sorry you all feel this way too. It's so hard.

Yet another friend posted her pee stick today (in a group I'm in from DD). She already has a second in between the 2 so this is #3. Life just feels so unfair sometimes. As happy as I am for all the ladies in my life, the fact that the vast majority who have kids my DD's age are pregnant or have newborns just kills me daily. I maybe need a Facebook break.
 
For those who haven't seen my testing thread I think we caught the egg this month. I have a lot of pricking twinges tonight which is worrying me though :(
I don't think I'll feel OK until I get past Fri which is the latest AF should show, and I see it in words on a digi!

I also have no tests in the house so can't test in the morning!
 
Hi ladies, have needed some time away as my schedule has changed up some and the ttc can get discouraging. Still nothing new here.

Welcome to any new ladies, and congrats Sadako!
 
I got pregnant with DD 2 cycles after my CP. So maybe that means this will be my month.
 
Fx this is your lucky cycle Curious x

Thanks everyone. I'm still reluctant to believe it. I feel like I need a decent pink dye treat to confirm! Will get one today and hope for the best.
 
Congrats sadako hoping you get a nice dark line today.

Nice to hear from you duster! Are you still actively ttc? Where are you in your cycle?

Keeping fingers crossed for you curious!

I'm only 5dpo here and feeling the itch to test already lol
 
Curious, if it's of any comfort I reckon I will be heading into another cycle soon because despite having positive tests for the fifth cycle in a row, I don't think this is going anywhere. It's rubbish. Complete rubbish.
My MIL is meant to be visiting the weekend or Monday I can't remember, but I'm meant to be all happy and polite and smiley which I won't be, because this is too hard. Plus I don't like her anyway, which doesn't help, because she doesn't like me. I know she will criticise and make comments and I won't have the patience for her this time. I can't deal with any of this
 
CD8 here. Still actively ttc but seems like a wrench gets thrown in every time I hit O; last month DH had irritation on his penis and was told to abstain until it healed. Unfortunately that was only all of my fertile window.

Good luck curious!
 
Do any of you get ovulation type discharge when you arent ovulating? I seem to get that randomly. Today I had a lot though, which confused me since I am on cycle day 11 only and my cycle are normally 30-34 days..I took an opk just to check and it was negative. But maybe the surge would be over by now? I know it might be nothing.
 
That's such bad luck Duster. Hoping you actually get to bd this cycle!

Ladders, just test! I always do, it makes me feel better even though I know at 6dpo I'm not going to see anything!
 
Ladders test away ! Lol

Duster sorry dh little man was out of action! Hopefully he's stored up some goodens for this cycle!!

Cupcake sorry your having a hard time I really hope your tests progress!! And just ignore your mil! If you can! X

Ashley I get ewcm a few days to a week before ovulation so maybe your getting ready to ovulate?!

7dpo posted a new test in the gallery think I see something vvvvvvvf but will see! Had very bad backache yesterday so hoping that was a good sign!
 
Ashley I get ewcm for a good week before o boy sure if it's because hormones changed or just much better at checking for it!

Cupcake i hope you survive mil and I'm keeping every single thing crossed for you

Started a testing thread but really starting to believe this is never going to happen for me. Not sure why but feeling very down about achieving #2
 
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