33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[happycupcake]

Lol bless your heart, that is amusing though as my husband would have been the same. Pregnancy is a funny thing, I found myself crying at all sorts of random things! Oh and immediately after birth too, for a few days. Hormones have a LOT to answer for.
I think one of the most random things I cried about was accidentally squishing a money spider...

That actually reminds me of a time we found a spider in the yard which we were certain was dead, I poked it with a stick and everything and it didn't move. I blew it, it moved like it was a stiff, there wasn't anything making it move. It was summer so I drew to the conclusion it had hid from our cats and kind of dehydrated to death or something (don't ask, my mind has weird logic) so spider whisperer here decides to drip a few drops of water on it. Nothing. Dripped some more, nothing. Tipped a cup of water on it and it sprung to life! Legged it up the wall and was fine! I'm hoping this makes up for me accidentally killing the spider before...

 

[ricschick]

Ahh bless you cupcake!!! I agree you are a lovely person! When I had my mmc you were always asking how I was! 💗💗 and what a lovely thing to do!!! Sending Kim the test!
So happy for you Kim!!!! 😄😄😄

 

[curiousowl]

Noooo, I can't with the spider talk! Ewwww!

 

[dustergrl]

Cupcake, that was so nice of you! Sorry it wasn't meant to be this month for you, though.

Meek, I totally know what you mean with the fluids- I was actually thinking that the other day!

So happy for all the bfp's. Still waiting to approach o here.

 

[happycupcake]

Noooo, I can't with the spider talk! Ewwww!

But it was a MIRACLE lol! I'm scared of them (love tarantulas, mind) but I had to help it

 

[Hopfl4bbynbr4]

Uh nope! I can't with spiders and snakes! That was nice of you to bring it back to life but I would have ran after it got up and started crawling up the wall haha! I cried watching a Lysol commercial today too lol these hormones have got to chill haha but if it takes me crying at everything and being a crazy person to have a healthy baby at the end then I'm OK with that too.

 

[curiousowl]

I would have made sure that spider stayed dead! Actually no, that's a lie, I would have run screaming and insisted DH make sure it was dead. Lol.

 

[curiousowl]

But I did cry at a Fast and the Furious movie while knocked up with DD, my friends still tease me.

 

[Hopfl4bbynbr4]

Which one, Curious?

 

[JessyG]

Girls i am really scared. My OH is away this week on training. I am feeling pretty bad but last night took the biscuit. I woke at midnight and i had cramps up my back down my legs and all over my tummy. I didnt sleep a wink and felt sick and faint. I called my mum in tears and she drove over. I had DD in the bed with me so i went into her bed s o not to wake her up.

It was horrible pain and i am terrified about whay it could mean. I havent had any bleeding yet but my tummy is still sooo sore abd crampy. So worried it may be ending.

 

[ricschick]

10dpo fmu, but I did have pink cm this morning so af could be on its way.

 

[citrusfruit]

Oh no rics, surely not AF? Can still see a line for what it's worth.

Jessy, how are you? I hope there is a simple explanation for the cramps. Could it be gas/bloating related? Trapped wind can give really searing painful cramps so I hope that's all it is. No bleeding is a good sign.

 

[JessyG]

It was more that it was going down my legs. I was hoping i was maybe lying down funny and trapped and nerve but it was soooo painful i was in tears and felt faint. I feel ok now. Bit of a gurgly tummy. Still very worried though.

 

[ricschick]

Been out and got some more frers buy one get one free in boots.
Pretty sure af has turned up but a slight faint line so maybe a chemical. I think my body is broken

 

[happycupcake]

I did shoot a spider once (with air), I didn't realise the force of it, the plan was to knock it off the wall so it could be put outside because it was HUGE. But instead, the force of the air being shot out obliterated the poor thing. I felt so guilty...

Jessy, I had awful pains with our second, they were due to a cyst and didn't ease until about 17 weeks.
Sounds a little like sciatic pain, did you suffer with this during your first? Could be where things are changing and your ligaments and stuff are softening to accommodate a growing uterus, that a nerve in your lower back is being pressed on and irritated, causing the pain. The cramps could be coincidence, as these are common early on without being harmful. When is your scan?

Rics, I think I see a faint line on the IC but I can't tell the FRER because when I try to zoom in it gets pixelated and too blurry. Is it a proper flow or still pink cm?

 

[curiousowl]

Jessy, early pregnancy is so full of weird aches and pains. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. Can you get into your dr for an early scan for reassurance? Without bleeding I wouldn't worry. I have my fingers crossed this is just normal stuff.

 

[curiousowl]

Which one, Curious?

Um, whichever one came out a couple years ago. The one before this current one I think. It was in theatres.

 

[curiousowl]

Pretty sure I'm 2dpo and will get my crosshairs tomorrow. Hopefully our timing (-1, O, +1) was enough! Also glad to be done with the BD marathon.

 

[JessyG]

Thanks girls. Have an early scan on sunday so lets just hope everything is ok at that. X

 

[happycupcake]

Curious, sounds like you timed things perfectly!

Jessy, I'm glad you are having a scan in a few days. Not long to go now, I'm sure you will see a beautiful little heartbeat there and all will be fine. Sometimes early on you get these random things happen which are scary but they aren't anything sinister