33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[ricschick]

Managed to get one in tonight too! 😉

 

[ladders]

Hi ladies hope you are all ok. Sorry af got you again cupcake I saw you had some more of those horrible lines so I hope your ok, must be so frustrating/upsetting for you.

I'm still getting a really strong positive and it's starting to get me down. I just want to be able to move on, not necessarily try again yet but know we could if we choose. Still getting lines darker than control line just feels like another slap in the face. With my first misscarriage I had a negative hpt 8 days after starting bleeding. I'm 10 days with this one and no sign of it lightening

 

[ricschick]

Ladders I no how frustrating it can be to still see a positive, but give it time it will turn negative, you can be amazed how quickly it can drop. Just take this time to concentrate on you! Xxx

 

[happycupcake]

Thanks Ladders. I'm ok, I take it as a positive that I know we can conceive, I just need to figure out why they don't stick.

I hope you're doing ok. It must be frustrating still seeing those positives. I hope they fade soon for you, so you can move on from this more so and can move onto ttc once you're both ready to

 

[SadakoS]

Proper really owie cramps today but no positive opk yesterday. I've not tested today as been at work since 7am!

 

[curiousowl]

I'm sorry ladders. That must be really hard. Did they say how long it might be?

 

[curiousowl]

FF confirmed O this morning so I will be starting progesterone tonight. Fingers crossed it helps!

 

[Daisies11]

Sorry to hear af got you cupcake, like you say though, there's definite positivity to take from this month and hopefully next cycle will bring you a sticky one!

Ladders so sorry to hear you're still getting positives, it must be so frustrating and hard. I agree with Rics though, bodies are complicated things and I'm sure the levels could just drop all of a sudden. Like you say, once you get a negative you have the ability to decide when you're ready to try again rather than the limbo of still getting the positive tests.

Sounds like you bd plenty at the right time Rics. Is it tww now?

Fingers crossed if you get to test later sadako it might be a positive if you're getting cramps and then let the bd begin!

Hope everyone is well x

 

[SadakoS]

Yeah I'll test asap. Actually BD last night because I was desperate for it so maybe that was mother nature helping out

 

[SadakoS]

Still no positive opk. In fact weaker than the last couple of days??

 

[curiousowl]

Still no positive opk. In fact weaker than the last couple of days??

It is normal for them to up and down.

 

[ricschick]

Yes daisies in the tww!! Finally lol. X

 

[SadakoS]

Still no positive opk. In fact weaker than the last couple of days??

It is normal for them to up and down.

No not really tbh, and it's much much earlier than I usually O. I took soy this month though so it could just be that causing chaos. Cramps were just like before O last month though. I'm temping anyway so all will become clear soon I suppose

 

[curiousowl]

Still no positive opk. In fact weaker than the last couple of days??

It is normal for them to up and down.

No not really tbh, and it's much much earlier than I usually O. I took soy this month though so it could just be that causing chaos. Cramps were just like before O last month though. I'm temping anyway so all will become clear soon I suppose

Sorry, what I meant was, I've definitely had OPKs get darker and then lighter before they actually turn positive so it might still be coming! Yeah, temping should clear it up.

 

[SadakoS]

They've been quite odd the last few days, my opks. About half way dark in the afternoon then lighter in the evening.
Ah well, I'm not supposed to be ttc this month anyway so I'll just see what happens

 

[Sander]

Question for the more experienced charters - my temps have been flat the entire post-O, save for a dip 2DPO and a 0.1 rise yesterday. It's been 98.0 pretty much every single day for the whole week. Is this a good or bad thing? I know it's not a BBT thermometer, (and it's working correctly), but I'm not concerned about tiny variations since other charts show rises and dips of much more than 0.1F

I've heard it can mean steady hormones and be a good thing, but does anyone have experience with this?

 

[Daisies11]

Yes daisies in the tww!! Finally lol. X

Yey! Hope it goes by quickly and ends in a bfp!

 

[curiousowl]

Question for the more experienced charters - my temps have been flat the entire post-O, save for a dip 2DPO and a 0.1 rise yesterday. It's been 98.0 pretty much every single day for the whole week. Is this a good or bad thing? I know it's not a BBT thermometer, (and it's working correctly), but I'm not concerned about tiny variations since other charts show rises and dips of much more than 0.1F

I've heard it can mean steady hormones and be a good thing, but does anyone have experience with this?

I think it looks just fine! Steady can totally be good.

 

[dustergrl]

Ladders, sorry things are taking so long to get back to normal for you. Take the time you need; it was good to hear from you.


Yay ladies in the tww- I'm right there with you! Pos opk yesterday, dtd last night. Perfect timing for our 5 year wedding anniversary!

 

[ricschick]

Woohoo duster! Me too! X