littlemisscie
Carrying #3â¤
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I'm 13 weeks with baby #3 (2nd bio + step son). Our whole family is boys and everyone is desperately wanting a girl. DH even called himself a failure with the last one because it wasn't a girl. I love my sons to death but I'm feeling worried.
We went in for a scan at 12.6 and I thought I saw girl but everyone's saying boy I've been looking at "3 brothers" things in Pinterest trying to get excited for 3 boys but I can't help feeling ripped off. I know it's early and nothing's set but I'm trying to set myself up for the disappointment on the 7th of April (our gender scan at 15 weeks). I 'feel' like it's a girl but I'm scared it's wishful thinking.
I think IM okay with another boy but I'm scared my family won't love him as much as they would be a girl and I don't know how to handle that...DH and I are just under so much pressure for a girl it's kind of ruining the fun. We're not even doing a big "gender reveal" out of fear of people's reactions. Anyone else is this situation? How do you handle disappointed family?
We went in for a scan at 12.6 and I thought I saw girl but everyone's saying boy I've been looking at "3 brothers" things in Pinterest trying to get excited for 3 boys but I can't help feeling ripped off. I know it's early and nothing's set but I'm trying to set myself up for the disappointment on the 7th of April (our gender scan at 15 weeks). I 'feel' like it's a girl but I'm scared it's wishful thinking.
I think IM okay with another boy but I'm scared my family won't love him as much as they would be a girl and I don't know how to handle that...DH and I are just under so much pressure for a girl it's kind of ruining the fun. We're not even doing a big "gender reveal" out of fear of people's reactions. Anyone else is this situation? How do you handle disappointed family?