4 days until testing, but getting a little down:(

[jenniferttc1]

As most people are anxious to test, I'm dreading it, I'm so sick of seeing those stupid BFN!!!!! I feel like this month is already done, and have no chance. Anyone else feel this way? I have been having pregnancy dreams the past 3 days, 2 nights was positive test, and one night I gave birth to a baby with a head the size of a cantelope. MIL called today to talk to my husband (we only see or talk to her every now and then) And she's been having dreams I was pregnant, and even my brother in law (who we never talk to) had a dream he found out we were pregnant. Its just putting huge pressure on me, and if this month is out, im gonna feel like I disappointed them. Everytime he talks to his dad, mom, grandma they are always asking "is she pregnant yet" Im just feeling depressed. :sigh:

 

[Mocha_Baby XD]

I'm in the same boat as you hun

af was due today and hasn't shown but i don't wanna get my hopes up high and prematurely test lol (my cycles can be all over the place and we did recently move maybe it could of caused me to o late)

Let's keep postive and believe we will get two lines instead of one this month

I've been having some pretty crazy dreams too let's hope they come true

 

[fallon.nicole]

The worst mistake we made was telling ANYONE we were TTC. Everyone always asks how it is going and any luck yet. I am tired of hearing it from everyone.





Do you see my new siggy addition?

 

[Lisa40]

It's really awful that people put so much pressure on you. Maybe you could get oh to have a quiet word and ease up a bit. Alternatively, you could tell them that you are planning a big holiday next year & so have decided to hold off until after then... Could give you some breathing space.

Good luck to all of us though
xx

 

[mummyvikki]

I have 8days till testing 7 im just as scared
I spent alot of money last month as my body played massive tricks on me
4days late & every symptom
close people who know wouldnt give in till i showed them a BFN
Not 1 of the nicest things you want to do
Good luck 2 alll of us
xx

 

[Nat0619]

Hi Ladies

I personally think it's pretty insensitive for people to even ask how things are going and ask 'when are you going to have a baby then?' I would never dream of asking anyone this, but maybe that's because I now have personal experience of how hard ttc can be. I guess people who have had no trouble conceiving just can't understand.

I have made the mistake of telling several people we are trying and I really wish I hadn't told anyone. A couple of my friends who know have been very good and haven't asked me once, which I really appreciate. But another couple who know ask me how it's going every time I see them now! I almost find myself wanting to avoid seeing them as it gets on my nerves so much Incidentally, both of these friends have children and conceived all of them within a month or two! Hence, they have no idea how hard it is when it doesn't happen straightaway x

 

[Hays :)]

i feel exactly the same right now, af due sat/sun and im already feeling her arrival

 

[MoonLove]

close people who know wouldnt give in till i showed them a BFN
Not 1 of the nicest things you want to do

This is our first month TTC and i recently told my mom, i am only 8dpo and she is always asking me if i'm pregnant, i say no, its not possible to know this early, and she doesn't believe me! I told her in private that i'd only recently ovulated and was expecting a period around the 21st Nov - but she just kept saying 'yeah right' and everytime i see her she says "Isn't that the face of a pregnant woman!"

All well and good if it turns out positive, but for now, its frustrating, and makes me a little sad, because i want to just be able to say "I'm pregnant!"

 

[jenniferttc1]

I'm in the same boat as you hun

af was due today and hasn't shown but i don't wanna get my hopes up high and prematurely test lol (my cycles can be all over the place and we did recently move maybe it could of caused me to o late)

Let's keep postive and believe we will get two lines instead of one this month

I've been having some pretty crazy dreams too let's hope they come true

I always get excited when I'm late, even though i know in the back of my head I sometimes have 30 day cycle, but never more unless im convienced im pregnant I try not to test until the day after Im due, that way I'm only heartbroken once, and usually after I test i'll start my period that day. I had the worst dream ever, that my best friend and her boyfriend told me they were pregnant (in real life, she would flip out if she was) and i remember them saying sorry cause they knew I would be so upset. So glad it was just a dream!!! Good luck to you this month)

 

[jenniferttc1]

The worst mistake we made was telling ANYONE we were TTC. Everyone always asks how it is going and any luck yet. I am tired of hearing it from everyone.





Do you see my new siggy addition?

I know! But luckly my side of the family don't ask questions like that, maybe cause my mom knows what it feels like when everyone asked her as she tried for a year with me and my sister. Thankfully we only talk to them every now and then, even though they live close, my husband isn't close to them (bad childhood) still gets annoying. P.s I LOVEEEE you new siggy
How do you do that?

 

[jenniferttc1]

I have 8days till testing 7 im just as scared
I spent alot of money last month as my body played massive tricks on me
4days late & every symptom
close people who know wouldnt give in till i showed them a BFN
Not 1 of the nicest things you want to do
Good luck 2 alll of us
xx

I use to spend so much money, I would buy atleast 3 boxes of first response with 2-3 test in each and use them all (if i have a stick i'll pee on it)
and thats alot of money to see a BFN! Finally I just use a cheap brand from the dollar store, so I can test without my husband getting mad from how much money I spent. Last month AF was kind and atleast came right on time, A few months ago I was a week late, sore breast, couldnt even wear a bra. and sickness. But she finally showed
Good luck to all us at BNB for a positive this month, or atleast by christmas!!!!

 

[jenniferttc1]

Hi Ladies

I personally think it's pretty insensitive for people to even ask how things are going and ask 'when are you going to have a baby then?' I would never dream of asking anyone this, but maybe that's because I now have personal experience of how hard ttc can be. I guess people who have had no trouble conceiving just can't understand.

I have made the mistake of telling several people we are trying and I really wish I hadn't told anyone. A couple of my friends who know have been very good and haven't asked me once, which I really appreciate. But another couple who know ask me how it's going every time I see them now! I almost find myself wanting to avoid seeing them as it gets on my nerves so much Incidentally, both of these friends have children and conceived all of them within a month or two! Hence, they have no idea how hard it is when it doesn't happen straightaway x

I don't know why people even ask, I'm just like, if i was I would TELL YOU! Everyone asked if you pregnant yet sucks, but what sucks more is telling everyone your pregnant and miscarry at 5 week, and everyone still coming up to ask you. This time I'll tell my husband and maybe my mom, but my mouth is shut till 12 weeks!

 

[jenniferttc1]

i feel exactly the same right now, af due sat/sun and im already feeling her arrival

aww me too, i had a little bit of cramping last night, but finally went away! Even though she might feel like she's coming, and you lose hope, I heard that PMS symptoms are just the same as pregnancy. So your not out yet hunny

 

[jenniferttc1]

close people who know wouldnt give in till i showed them a BFN
Not 1 of the nicest things you want to do

This is our first month TTC and i recently told my mom, i am only 8dpo and she is always asking me if i'm pregnant, i say no, its not possible to know this early, and she doesn't believe me! I told her in private that i'd only recently ovulated and was expecting a period around the 21st Nov - but she just kept saying 'yeah right' and everytime i see her she says "Isn't that the face of a pregnant woman!"

All well and good if it turns out positive, but for now, its frustrating, and makes me a little sad, because i want to just be able to say "I'm pregnant!"

I know that feeling all to well. Just wish people would leave us all be! But atleast you know she'll be happy! ha ha I just remind myself that, that when I do announce everyone will be over the moon, just praying it doesnt take years to concieve a little one. I'm terrified of my sister accidently getting pregnant first lol. She already told me if she gets pregnant she's keeping it a secret from me.

 

[stitch]

I agree...don't tell anyone you're TTC or that you're pg until 12 weeks!

Good luck!

 

[fallon.nicole]

I know! But luckly my side of the family don't ask questions like that, maybe cause my mom knows what it feels like when everyone asked her as she tried for a year with me and my sister. Thankfully we only talk to them every now and then, even though they live close, my husband isn't close to them (bad childhood) still gets annoying. P.s I LOVEEEE you new siggy
How do you do that?

Yeah, my mom never asks but SIL does about once a week. So annoying!

I copied the fingers from another forum I am on the code is: https://thehomefrontlife.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/xfingers.gif inside the [img ] [/img ] brackets.

 

[addie25]

I have the same experience. Every time I leave my moms house she rubs my stomach and says take care of my grand baby. I m feeling like I let her down when I get a bfn. My aunt who I didn't even tell I was ttc calls me and says to give her sister a grandbaby and how i should go to c a specialist if I have been trying over 6 months. Im like wtf I have only been trying a couple months and I didn't even tell her I was trying. They mean well and are excited .I keep thinking that and I do not get as upset.

 

[jenniferttc1]

I know! But luckly my side of the family don't ask questions like that, maybe cause my mom knows what it feels like when everyone asked her as she tried for a year with me and my sister. Thankfully we only talk to them every now and then, even though they live close, my husband isn't close to them (bad childhood) still gets annoying. P.s I LOVEEEE you new siggy
How do you do that?

Yeah, my mom never asks but SIL does about once a week. So annoying!

I copied the fingers from another forum I am on the code is: https://thehomefrontlife.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/xfingers.gif inside the [img ] [/img ] brackets.

I still couldnt figure it out lol so I just made a different one

 

[jenniferttc1]

I have the same experience. Every time I leave my moms house she rubs my stomach and says take care of my grand baby. I m feeling like I let her down when I get a bfn. My aunt who I didn't even tell I was ttc calls me and says to give her sister a grandbaby and how i should go to c a specialist if I have been trying over 6 months. Im like wtf I have only been trying a couple months and I didn't even tell her I was trying. They mean well and are excited .I keep thinking that and I do not get as upset.

Yeah thank god my side of the family isnt like that, they get excited, but even when your pregnant they don't want to always see your belly. lol

 

[fallon.nicole]

I still couldnt figure it out lol so I just made a different one

I like yours too!