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[andella95]

Is anyone here a member of babyfit???? I hope it's okay that I mentioned another site, but just opened a new account on there and would like some buddies.

I have feeling this isn't my month. Deep down, I just really don't think it will ever happen for me again. I feel like I can't do anything...can't lose weight, can't get my degree, can't get pregnant. Sorry to be all negative and a downer, but I just feel like I'm not "good enough" and that I'm destined to fail at everything.

Ugh, I hate this feeling sorry for myself. It's not normal for me.

Just had to get it out.

 

[sma1588]

hun it will all work itself out as long as we try. i know exactly how you feel. im in the same situation right now,cant get prego,cant get my mind togather to get back in school andcant loose weight, shit i cant even have a period on my own thats how much im failing in life.......but, when we do as much as we can to get things the way we want then they will slowly fall into place. i wish u the best hun and we will get through the struggles of life

 

[LittleSpy]

Andella -- I seem to recall joining babyfit but it hasn't interested me.

I use www.myfitnesspal.com to track my food & exercise.
I lost 80 pounds in 12 months before getting knocked up (Sept 2009 - Sept 2010).
If I can do it, anyone can! I know it seems so overwhelming but honestly all it takes is education and determination.
I used to weigh 275lbs and wear a US size 22. Now I weigh 195lbs and wear a US size 12.
I'm attempting to gain as little as possible with this pregnancy (while being healthy of course!!) so that I'm back to my pre-pregnancyweight or even a few pounds under it a couple days after delivery and then I'll be back at it in July to lose about 40 more pounds.

If you want to find me on MyFitnessPal, I'm LittleSpy there, too. There's FABULOUS group of women who have supported me from day 1 called the "Over 200 club." You're all very welcome to join us there! I was completely miserable before I changed my lifestyle. I seriously believe MFP saved my life!

Edit: Oh and MyFitnessPal is free.

 

[Butterfly24]

Andella -- I seem to recall joining babyfit but it hasn't interested me.

I use www.myfitnesspal.com to track my food & exercise.
I lost 80 pounds in 12 months before getting knocked up (Sept 2009 - Sept 2010).
If I can do it, anyone can! I know it seems so overwhelming but honestly all it takes is education and determination.
I used to weigh 275lbs and wear a US size 22. Now I weigh 195lbs and wear a US size 12.
I'm attempting to gain as little as possible with this pregnancy (while being healthy of course!!) so that I'm back to my pre-pregnancyweight or even a few pounds under it a couple days after delivery and then I'll be back at it in July to lose about 40 more pounds.

If you want to find me on MyFitnessPal, I'm LittleSpy there, too. There's FABULOUS group of women who have supported me from day 1 called the "Over 200 club." You're all very welcome to join us there! I was completely miserable before I changed my lifestyle. I seriously believe MFP saved my life!

Edit: Oh and MyFitnessPal is free.

well as i'm having to loose 46lbs before we get offered any kind of fertility help, i'm not ov'ing by my self so i feel abit of a failure not even beign able to try properly atm lol

i've been told to only have complex carbs if possible and do low fat too.

i've lost about 4 lbs but have much more to go lol i've singed up to see what it's all about

 

[sma1588]

i need to loose about 35 to get to my weight i want to be at. i know im not really big or anything but i guess the weight im at is considerd overweight and my body just isnt doing well with it.



p.s im babysitting my friends 3 month old little boy and it really really makes me want my own now..i mean more that before.............except this little boy is so spoiled he wont let u put him down or even sit down

 

[Butterfly24]

i need to loose about 35 to get to my weight i want to be at. i know im not really big or anything but i guess the weight im at is considerd overweight and my body just isnt doing well with it.



p.s im babysitting my friends 3 month old little boy and it really really makes me want my own now..i mean more that before.............except this little boy is so spoiled he wont let u put him down or even sit down

ahhhh cute bless

hope you enjoy yourself and it doesn't make you upset sounds silly i know but i recon i would be

 

[EmmyReece]

I'm having a weird cycle guys ... I've figured it out going from my opk and the lines that have been gradually getting lighter that I'm somewhere between 6 and 8 dpo I think.

And for the first time ever ... this cycle (sorry for tmi) I've been constipated, it's only been today, I've not ate anything different to normal

Oh and I've got really visible veins on my boobs

I still think we're out as we only dtd twice this cycle, but it's crazy how every little thing is hyper analyzed lol

 

[StarlitHome]

Pretty sure that I am out for this month as I was feeling so gross after AF and up till just after Ov that DTD was not on my mind at all
We've been every other night SINCE then, but unless I am totally wrong we completely missed Ov.

A bit upsetting, but oh well there's nothing I can do about it.

 

[Mzitalian25]

Well I had a really dark OPK yesterday and DTD last night and this afternoon (gotta love a day off lol) and then got the darkest OPK ever this evening! So we will continue BDing however this cycle is very long and has be very confused!
I hope this is it for you Brandy! And I pray the rest of you ladies start getting your answers for ovulation troubles.

I was wondering if because I was taking the Vitex the normal way not considering I only have one ovary if that messed me up? I was soo excited that last cycle was more normal, but now I am sooo confused. Today my lower abdominal area has been sore and runs up the back of me (like my anal area) sorry tmi...even when we BD it kinda hurts

 

[LittleSpy]

I was wondering if because I was taking the Vitex the normal way not considering I only have one ovary if that messed me up? I was soo excited that last cycle was more normal, but now I am sooo confused. Today my lower abdominal area has been sore and runs up the back of me (like my anal area) sorry tmi...even when we BD it kinda hurts

From what you describe, that kind of sounds like my usual ovulation pain. It hurts on one side of my abdomen (usualy left, so I guess that ovary works more than my right) and shoots all the way through my butt.

And speaking of constipation (tmi), OMG. Suffice it to say that pregnancy hormones royally suck. I'm so uncomfortable today and between that & the bloat I'm actually looking pretty pregnant with a very nice poop/bloat bump. I'm really hoping no one says anything to me about it. I have a hard time lying but I'd be so embarrassed to say I'm only 8 weeks.

 

[Mzitalian25]

I was wondering if because I was taking the Vitex the normal way not considering I only have one ovary if that messed me up? I was soo excited that last cycle was more normal, but now I am sooo confused. Today my lower abdominal area has been sore and runs up the back of me (like my anal area) sorry tmi...even when we BD it kinda hurts

From what you describe, that kind of sounds like my usual ovulation pain. It hurts on one side of my abdomen (usualy left, so I guess that ovary works more than my right) and shoots all the way through my butt.

And speaking of constipation (tmi), OMG. Suffice it to say that pregnancy hormones royally suck. I'm so uncomfortable today and between that & the bloat I'm actually looking pretty pregnant with a very nice poop/bloat bump. I'm really hoping no one says anything to me about it. I have a hard time lying but I'd be so embarrassed to say I'm only 8 weeks.

Never thought about that! Especially since I am finally getting a positive OPK! And it is on my right side where my only ovary is, ok I feel better and I don't feel it too much today but after bding like crazy the last 2 days I needed a break this morning, lol

Wear a sweater and then you dont have to worry about anyone asking you HAPPY 8 WEEKS!!!

 

[Mustang_Love]

Congrats on the +OPK MZitalian!! The month I finally got a strong OPK was the month I conceived, so lots of for you.

Oh and I love the new pic!

 

[LittleSpy]

Wear a sweater and then you dont have to worry about anyone asking you HAPPY 8 WEEKS!!!

I AM wearing a sweater.

 

[dinkykitten]

Hi!

Could you please add me too the list?

Me and OH are ttc number 1 but have only been trying for 5 days, lol.

Af came today so I will start ov tests in about 10 days.

I will keep you all updated as things progress!

Good luck, and babydust to all!

 

[StarlitHome]

Welcome dinkykitten!

I... am feeling very blah today. It's probably PMS.
Just blah... I'm going to have to really motivate myself to make dinner and be nice to dH. Gonna have to pep-talk myself.

 

[dinkykitten]

I'm feeling a bit blah as well, but I got this morning so I'm not particularly surprised.

I'm slowly making my way through all the posts, but I imagine it might take me a while, lol.

It's making me feel better already though, knowing that there are some other voluptuous ladies out there who have successfully ttc

to all who are trying!! xx

 

[andella95]

Hey all, I posted my tests from last night over the the test gallery. They are now dry, so they look like evaps, although I am wondering...because the lines really were there when wet. Just so faint.

Probably evaps.

 

[Mzitalian25]

Congrats on the +OPK MZitalian!! The month I finally got a strong OPK was the month I conceived, so lots of for you.

Oh and I love the new pic!

YAY very exciting, yes this time even though it is sooo far in the cycle was WAYYY darker than the positive last cycle at day 20
Thank you for the compliment

and HAPPY 12 WEEKS!!!! 2nd Trimester in full swing, seems like just last week you got your

 

[Mustang_Love]

Welcome dinkykitten!!! GL on your TTC journey. I hope it's not too long for you.

Andella & Starlit I'm still keeping fingers crossed for you both!!!

 

[BrandysBabies]

Well, I managed not to test todya! Woot! Lol! I kept busy putting up the Christmas tree and decorations. Zach LOVED it! This is the first year that he has really gotten into decorating the tree. I have a bunch of pics, but not sure how to get them loaded since I no longer have my laptop. I will try though. I will be 9 to 10dpo tomorrow. Do you think that is still too early to test? Or should I wait til Sunday? Or would you jsut wait for AF to show?