hello
ok so heres my story...
my boyfriend and i had been together for 5 years and last year i went for tests at a hospital to check that i was ovulating as i hadnt fallen pregnant. we are both young and werent TTC however we both agreed that we would be happy should i fall pregnant.
whilst waiting for my results i found out that i was pregnant, however sadly i lost the baby just two days later. am still struggling to cope with the loss. my results came back normal however it has been 14 months since that happened and i havent fallen pregnant again, and am now going back to the hospital for more tests.
my boyfriend has chrones disease, which can affect fertility and i was underweight last year, so we put down the long time in falling pregnant to that - however my boyfriend hasnt suffered from his chrones for over 8 years and i am now at a much healthier weight, but still nothing.
i was 19 when i lost our baby and am soon to be 21, and had hoped to fall pregnant again before my 21st - however thats now just two months away so im not too hopefull.
ive always wanted children, and luckily my family and boyfriend are very supportive - im taking a degree at uni and am not one of these young girls just wanting a flat or something like that! due to health problems it is unlikely that i will be able to have children in my thirties (hence wanting them so young) so its very distressing not to be falling pregnant.
my boyfriend and i agreed that we wouldnt do home ovulation tests etc, as we didnt want to put that kind of pressure on ourselves - we both agreed that letting it happen on its own was the best way forward - and i still believe that.
am nervous for my day 21 test as not sure what to expect, my periods are regular and "normal" (for me anyway!) which leads me to believe that i am ovulating, however i was told that 90% of couples who experience m/c will go on to concieve within 12months - so im in the 10% who dont - which is upsetting.
however i am trying to keep positive and am hopeful that the hosp will be able to help get to the bottom of whats going on
JaiJaiS
xxx My Angel 3.5.10 xxx
ok so heres my story...
my boyfriend and i had been together for 5 years and last year i went for tests at a hospital to check that i was ovulating as i hadnt fallen pregnant. we are both young and werent TTC however we both agreed that we would be happy should i fall pregnant.
whilst waiting for my results i found out that i was pregnant, however sadly i lost the baby just two days later. am still struggling to cope with the loss. my results came back normal however it has been 14 months since that happened and i havent fallen pregnant again, and am now going back to the hospital for more tests.
my boyfriend has chrones disease, which can affect fertility and i was underweight last year, so we put down the long time in falling pregnant to that - however my boyfriend hasnt suffered from his chrones for over 8 years and i am now at a much healthier weight, but still nothing.
i was 19 when i lost our baby and am soon to be 21, and had hoped to fall pregnant again before my 21st - however thats now just two months away so im not too hopefull.
ive always wanted children, and luckily my family and boyfriend are very supportive - im taking a degree at uni and am not one of these young girls just wanting a flat or something like that! due to health problems it is unlikely that i will be able to have children in my thirties (hence wanting them so young) so its very distressing not to be falling pregnant.
my boyfriend and i agreed that we wouldnt do home ovulation tests etc, as we didnt want to put that kind of pressure on ourselves - we both agreed that letting it happen on its own was the best way forward - and i still believe that.
am nervous for my day 21 test as not sure what to expect, my periods are regular and "normal" (for me anyway!) which leads me to believe that i am ovulating, however i was told that 90% of couples who experience m/c will go on to concieve within 12months - so im in the 10% who dont - which is upsetting.
however i am trying to keep positive and am hopeful that the hosp will be able to help get to the bottom of whats going on
JaiJaiS
xxx My Angel 3.5.10 xxx