i love my hubby to bits and at the present time he seems to be the reason we cannot get our bfp.
I will stand by him no matter what.
We had a conversation the other day where i asked him if the shoe was on the other foot and i was the problem how would he feel. i was shocked at his response, he says he would find it hard not to blame me and as he has always wanted kids he would find it hard to stay with me,
I feel a bit heart broken by this i will stand by him through thick and thin but im not sure he would do the same for me.
Also we have had the donor sperm talk.
He would rather adopt than have me carry another mans child. i feel hes brushing the idea off too quickly and i feel hes being selfish by not letting me ever carry a child.
does anyone else have conversations/thoughts like this, myself and my hubby are very honest with one another hes my best friend and i love him. This ltttc puts strain on any marriage which is why we are so honest with one another, i hope we fulfil our dream one day.
I will stand by him no matter what.
We had a conversation the other day where i asked him if the shoe was on the other foot and i was the problem how would he feel. i was shocked at his response, he says he would find it hard not to blame me and as he has always wanted kids he would find it hard to stay with me,
I feel a bit heart broken by this i will stand by him through thick and thin but im not sure he would do the same for me.
Also we have had the donor sperm talk.
He would rather adopt than have me carry another mans child. i feel hes brushing the idea off too quickly and i feel hes being selfish by not letting me ever carry a child.
does anyone else have conversations/thoughts like this, myself and my hubby are very honest with one another hes my best friend and i love him. This ltttc puts strain on any marriage which is why we are so honest with one another, i hope we fulfil our dream one day.