6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[amanda111308]

Hey Amanda!!
I'm joining in!
I've had 6 losses now: 5 weeks, 4 weeks, 6 weeks, 12 weeks, 5 weeks, and 4 weeks. All explained except for this months chemical. But I have a doctors appt on Tuesday to start the conversation about where to go from here. CD 2 and the wait for O begins we're going to NTNP until June, but we basically TTC. I tell DH I'm in my fertile window and he pins me down!

Hey Leah!! Yes please join us!! I started a new thread because this one seemed to be more my situation and thought it would attract more ladies like us for the type of support we really need! Ttcal is so tough and so much worse when it takes this long.

Afm: Cd13 today and my opk is negative (just the slightest faint line) today is our day off from bd but tomorrow morning I'll have my feet behind my ears LOL... I am feeling some slight pain on my lower left side though so now I don't know what to do... I used a soft cup yesterday while swimming and it kept all the spermies safe and I had a friggin tonne of ewcm mixed in haha sorry eww

 

[rtebbe89]

Amanda I am actually just past the bc Alberta border on the bc side

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Hi Ladies can I join? I have just read through all the thread and it is good to hear some of the things I am feeling I am not alone. I mc at 11 weeks in December after ttc for 10 months. I had a d&c though nature had done its thing in the run up to the op. We ttc pretty much as soon as we could. We have not been trying as long as some of you have since mc but I am sure you know I am feeling it is never going to happen and if it does I will be terrified. We are ttc #1 and I am 40 (feel frantic now I have turned 40!).

So I am on cd 6, I have short cycles of 24-25 days. Started opks today but expect a positive at end of the week days 11 or twelve maybe. Trying to decide plan of action for bd lol. I was looking at what you were all saying and thinking I will aim to bd alternative days till positive then go for 3 days in a row. These plans sound so easy to follow through ha! Good luck to you all and look forward to reading this thread.

Hi Mrs Kitty welcome to our thread! You are very welcome here I am sorry about your loss we are all here to help one another so celebrate with us on the good days and rant judgement free on the bad days

 

[amanda111308]

Well it's cd14 and you guessed it!! Legs are in the air again hahaha! I haven't tested using opk yet for today so no idea as of yet if I am starting my surge. Hoping o happens earlier this cycle as opposed to the normal cd19 before I started soy. Where is everyone else in their cycles? How are you feeling Anniebobs? I guess you are officially in the tww by now! Lucky you!!

 

[amanda111308]

Amanda I am actually just past the bc Alberta border on the bc side

Aww! I am in the Red Deer area!

 

[Anniebobs]

Well it's cd14 and you guessed it!! Legs are in the air again hahaha! I haven't tested using opk yet for today so no idea as of yet if I am starting my surge. Hoping o happens earlier this cycle as opposed to the normal cd19 before I started soy. Where is everyone else in their cycles? How are you feeling Anniebobs? I guess you are officially in the tww by now! Lucky you!!

Had tender bbs yesterday which is a sure sign I've ovulated. I tested again with an opk this morning and it was completely negative so I'm classing myself as 1-2dpo I hope it's a quick tww! Fingers crossed you'll be joining me soon, then we wait

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Hallo ladies,

Can I join you?

We decided to ttc in sept and had our loss in december. It's not exactly six months since our loss, but will soon be 6 months since we started ttc. I just got my bfn today and know I am out.

I am sad because I so badly want my children to be close in age and now it will not be the case. Dd will have to go to school next year and I hoped for another baby before then, but clearly that will not be the case.

 

[rtebbe89]

Amanda I am actually just past the bc Alberta border on the bc side

Aww! I am in the Red Deer area!

Not to far apart

 

[amanda111308]

Hallo ladies,

Can I join you?

We decided to ttc in sept and had our loss in december. It's not exactly six months since our loss, but will soon be 6 months since we started ttc. I just got my bfn today and know I am out.

I am sad because I so badly want my children to be close in age and now it will not be the case. Dd will have to go to school next year and I hoped for another baby before then, but clearly that will not be the case.

Hi Angelbaby, yes come on in and by all means join us!

Afm: today is cd15 and still no positive opk... Starting to wonder if I will O earlier with soy this cycle or not... Hmmm oh well I am just going to keep on keeping on lol. My little boy is home sick with momma today. One of the children in his day home got a very sudden fever and had a seizure at her home last night and because my son has a low grade fever at the moment, I am watching him closely. I know seizures themselves aren't contagious but if there is an illness being spread with high fevers I am taking all of the precautions that I can. I brought him in to bed with me and DH last night until he fell asleep and then moved him back to his bed where he is still fast asleep. He has been sleeping for a little over 12hours now. Every now and then I hear little coughs. My poor little bunny

 

[amanda111308]

Amanda I am actually just past the bc Alberta border on the bc side

Aww! I am in the Red Deer area!

Not to far apart

It's so amazing how all the ladies in this support forum can be so close and some clear across the world!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Hallo ladies,

Can I join you?

We decided to ttc in sept and had our loss in december. It's not exactly six months since our loss, but will soon be 6 months since we started ttc. I just got my bfn today and know I am out.

I am sad because I so badly want my children to be close in age and now it will not be the case. Dd will have to go to school next year and I hoped for another baby before then, but clearly that will not be the case.

Hi Angelbaby, yes come on in and by all means join us!

Afm: today is cd15 and still no positive opk... Starting to wonder if I will O earlier with soy this cycle or not... Hmmm oh well I am just going to keep on keeping on lol. My little boy is home sick with momma today. One of the children in his day home got a very sudden fever and had a seizure at her home last night and because my son has a low grade fever at the moment, I am watching him closely. I know seizures themselves aren't contagious but if there is an illness being spread with high fevers I am taking all of the precautions that I can. I brought him in to bed with me and DH last night until he fell asleep and then moved him back to his bed where he is still fast asleep. He has been sleeping for a little over 12hours now. Every now and then I hear little coughs. My poor little bunny

I hope your little boy is feeling better soon.

My poor little boy just can't catch a break... Yesterday I stayed home with him and he was having a burst of energy so we were playing together. He was running towards me excitedly with a toy to show me and tripped and fell on his face and ended up busting his lip on his own teeth. My poor baby

Although I must say he is starting to get better as of this morning. today marks cd16 and still no positive opk... Hoping this isn't an annovulatory cycle... All of our acrobatic bd will have been in vain...

 

[amanda111308]

Ok so today is cd 17 and no positive opk yet... Feeling discouraged about that but I have had a temp shift and ff seems to think I ovulated on cd14... I don't know if I believe it though. I am going to keep testing until cd20 because in the past several cycles I o'd on cd19 so I am either 3dpo or still waiting to ovulate. Fingers are crossed in hopes this cycle isn't a total bust. Ff said if I conceived this cycle my due date would be December 1st. How lovely!!

How is everyone else holding up? Are there any joiners to mrs kitty in the tww?

 

[Anniebobs]

Oh that's annoying, hopefully you get an answer soon. If you did already o then at least you have less time to wait till you test.

I'm getting impatient now. Trying to keep myself super busy to stop myself thinking about it. But in the back of my mind I keep thinking this time next week I could be pregnant!

 

[amanda111308]

This was my opk this morning with smu. Hopefully I have a positive this afternoon!! I would love that!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

Mrs kitty how long are your cycles? I used to have cycles of 24-25 days and o always came round so quick. Now they seem to have lengthened to 27 days which is so annoying! Is only 2 or 3 extra days but I hate the waiting! I think it's because I've started running, I read somewhere that can delay o.

Amanda fingers crossed you'll be in the tww in the next few days. Get bding!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

I feel pregnant! I've got tender bbs, am extra tired and have been having twinges in my stomach. I've been recording symptoms and haven't been like this since my chemical in nov so my hopes are up a bit. Will be testing on Sunday because I can't wait any longer!