6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[amanda111308]

I am not sure I have had faint lines (neg opks yesterday and today so far) so we are bd every second day up until I get a positive opk at which time we will bd every day for 4 days straight and back to every second day until AF shows or I get a bfp!

 

[Anniebobs]

Oh god you have more stamina than I do! We're doing every other day now then I should get a positive this weekend and I'll attempt 3 days in a row then skip a day and another bd (smep) but after that we'll probably give it a rest At least fora few days!

 

[krulci]

I am currently laying in bed with my legs in the air hahaha swim soldiers SWIM!!

"Hold, brothers, hold! Everybody! STRIKE! NOW!"

 

[Smiler79]

HI ladies. Sorry to see more ladies who are suffering like us but good to have more people to chat to and gain support from. I am really down at moment as hubby going away for 12 days on sat and my predicted ovulation window is slap bang in middle of when he is away.

I was hoping to get some bd'ing in before he goes just in case as know those little swimmers can survive for a few days. However hubby has ben laid up since Tuesday woth a nasty throat infection.

I hate the fact that this could e a whole month wasted

 

[amanda111308]

I am currently laying in bed with my legs in the air hahaha swim soldiers SWIM!!

"Hold, brothers, hold! Everybody! STRIKE! NOW!"

Haha this made my day!

 

[amanda111308]

HI ladies. Sorry to see more ladies who are suffering like us but good to have more people to chat to and gain support from. I am really down at moment as hubby going away for 12 days on sat and my predicted ovulation window is slap bang in middle of when he is away.

I was hoping to get some bd'ing in before he goes just in case as know those little swimmers can survive for a few days. However hubby has ben laid up since Tuesday woth a nasty throat infection.

I hate the fact that this could e a whole month wasted

I have had a few cycles like this when my husband is away on conference. It's sucks soo bad hopefully you o late and can get some bd in once he returns?! Never know right?

Do you o typically on the same day every cycle it does it vary for you?

 

[amanda111308]

Oh god you have more stamina than I do! We're doing every other day now then I should get a positive this weekend and I'll attempt 3 days in a row then skip a day and another bd (smep) but after that we'll probably give it a rest At least fora few days!

We took a more relaxed approach the last couple of cycles and I was almost totally convinced I was pregnant last cycle and when it turned out that I wasn't I kept beating myself up for missing my window of opportunity. This month if we are impossibly not pregnant with all of our efforts I will be visiting my doctor to talk about options and maybe get into some clomid or something... Been ttc #2 since last May and I am desperate to be pregnant before my original due date of April 25th which leaves me with this cycle and next... Running out of time!!!

 

[Anniebobs]

Oh god you have more stamina than I do! We're doing every other day now then I should get a positive this weekend and I'll attempt 3 days in a row then skip a day and another bd (smep) but after that we'll probably give it a rest At least fora few days!

We took a more relaxed approach the last couple of cycles and I was almost totally convinced I was pregnant last cycle and when it turned out that I wasn't I kept beating myself up for missing my window of opportunity. This month if we are impossibly not pregnant with all of our efforts I will be visiting my doctor to talk about options and maybe get into some clomid or something... Been ttc #2 since last May and I am desperate to be pregnant before my original due date of April 25th which leaves me with this cycle and next... Running out of time!!!

It's so depressing isn't it. I've hit my first due date and have been ttc for a year now. We were a bit more relaxed after my last mc (November) so are trying to go at it all guns blazing now. I can get pregnant easily enough but it's not been sticking the last few times, my blood tests all came back clear though so looks like it's just bad luck.

 

[amanda111308]

Yeah I am the same, I seem to fall pregnant easily enough it's just staying pregnant that is the hard part. I am really trying to be on the ball this cycle. I am testing using opk in the morning and night so I don't miss my surge. I am also temping and observing cm. The signs of my fertile period are happening so now it's gonna be full on go time soon... Really hoping my extra efforts without stress and obsessing help us conceive successfully this month. Otherwise I just don't know what else I can do to help it along... Fingers crossed!!

 

[LPF]

I'm in the same boat too - I've got pregnant 3 times in under 3 months each try but since having my son, I can't seem to keep them

 

[Nini Lopez]

Can I join? I had a mc last year in early July. We have been trying ever since. My due date came and went and still nothing. 9 months and still no bfp. I'm praying that 2014 is the year!

 

[amanda111308]

Well it's cd12 and here I lay with my legs in the air again haha.. Excited for today! Taking my little guy to a huge indoor water park in Edmonton!! We are having a nice weekend away from home at My MIL and FIL's house. We are all going to the water park today for several hours so I have put in a soft cup and plan to leave it in for most of the day. Just because I am not sure what the rules are with swimming whilst ttc... So I will cover my bases and still partake in the fun. Every cycle up to now I have completely cut out caffeine of every form and declined having fun feeling like it would hurt my ttc efforts but shag that! I am not going to sacrifice fun in my boy's childhood. So today we will ride waves and play on the water slides until our bodies are tired and sore!! Haha I can't wait until we go haha!! What is everyone else up to today?! Is anyone close to o? Any positive opks to report?

 

[Anniebobs]

Positive opk here!! I'll do another tomorrow just to compare but hopefully today is I day

 

[amanda111308]

Aww lucky!! I am still only getting faint lines (neg) arrrg hopefully in the next day or so for me!!

 

[Anniebobs]

What cd are you on? When do you normally o? Mine is right on schedule

 

[amanda111308]

Well in the past I O on cd19 but since I started soy, it has been sooner but this is only my second cycle on soy so there's no pattern yet. Either way today is cd12 for me. What cd are you on?

 

[Anniebobs]

I'm on cd13/14, AF was slow to start this month so not really sure which day to use. Well at least you're into the interesting part of the cycle now, won't be long before you join me in the tww!

 

[rtebbe89]

Hi may I join. I have been trying for 4 years and was able to get my bfp in June and miscarried in July. I just really want to talk to people who uunderstand. Today was supposed to be my edd so I have cried most of the day. It took 5+ weeks for my miscarriage to pass naturally, and have tried ever since then. I have been told I have pcos but until it has been a year since a pregnancy the doctors won't do anything. I am still waiting for an appointment to the fertility clinic in calgary, three month wait my butt it has been 5months. Anyways sorry for the vent. Im currently 9dpo and I feel out this month

 

[LeahLou]

Hey Amanda!!
I'm joining in!
I've had 6 losses now: 5 weeks, 4 weeks, 6 weeks, 12 weeks, 5 weeks, and 4 weeks. All explained except for this months chemical. But I have a doctors appt on Tuesday to start the conversation about where to go from here. CD 2 and the wait for O begins we're going to NTNP until June, but we basically TTC. I tell DH I'm in my fertile window and he pins me down!

 

[amanda111308]

Hi may I join. I have been trying for 4 years and was able to get my bfp in June and miscarried in July. I just really want to talk to people who uunderstand. Today was supposed to be my edd so I have cried most of the day. It took 5+ weeks for my miscarriage to pass naturally, and have tried ever since then. I have been told I have pcos but until it has been a year since a pregnancy the doctors won't do anything. I am still waiting for an appointment to the fertility clinic in calgary, three month wait my butt it has been 5months. Anyways sorry for the vent. Im currently 9dpo and I feel out this month

Hi there rtebbe! You are very welcome here darling! Sounds like you are in Alberta, CA!! Me too!! Haha