6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Ok so ff thinks I o'd on cd14 like I said before which I am not so sure about now. Despite I have never gotten the true positive opk my temps went from 97.48 yesterday to a whopping 98.85 this morning! WOW!!

So I am either 1dpo or 4dpo... I am so confused...

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Yeah we have bd enough to cover both dates I think. Just hoping we have caught the egg!! I think I got crappy opks I got a near positive opk around when ff thought I ovulated but it wasn't quite as dark as the control line so I dunno anymore. I am going to keep on bd just in case because I usually o around cd19 without use of soy so just in case I am going to keep on bd.

How is everyone else feeling today?

 

[Anniebobs]

Well either way it sounds like you're in the tww Amanda! Your temps will probably give you a good idea of which one it was in a few days.

Mrskitty it looks like you'll be in the tww soon too. Happy bding!

AFM, I had to pee on something so I wasted an opk this morning I'm definitely not ovulating!

 

[amanda111308]

Well either way it sounds like you're in the tww Amanda! Your temps will probably give you a good idea of which one it was in a few days.

Mrskitty it looks like you'll be in the tww soon too. Happy bding!

AFM, I had to pee on something so I wasted an opk this morning I'm definitely not ovulating!

Haha I love that!! "I had to pee on something!" Hehe oh the ttc does funny things to us doesn't it!? Lol

I hope I did enough for a pregnancy that's for sure. Both temp rises occur above the same cover line (original cover line created on day 14) I had one dip on cd 17 (yesterday) and then a huge spike today. So I am wondering if yesterday was true ovulation or if Monday was... Ugh this is so hard...

 

[Anniebobs]

Post your chart we'll have a guess for you

 

[amanda111308]

How do I even do that with ff? Can I post it using the mobile app?

 

[Smiler79]

Hi ladies sorry I haven't been on here much. Trying to cope with a very sad toddler who is really missing her daddy. He went away on sat and is back on Tuesday.

ALso I have not been on here much as I am completely out this cycle due to hubby being away. It is really hard as this is month 6 so really hoped I would be pregnant by now as that is how long it took me to conceive my daughter after my first loss. I would have been 7 months pregnant today so getting nearer and nearer my due date.

Hubby and I did bd a few times before he went away, inc the night before and will cary on when he gets back but pretty sure we missed ovulation this month.

 

[amanda111308]

Here is a link to my chart.

https://fertilityfriend.com/home/274556/

Let me know if it works and if it does what do you think?

 

[MrsKitty]

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[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

I think you ovulated yesterday. Your temps were irregular before and today's temp rise is massive. If your temps go back down though then today's might just be a random one and you must have oved on cd14. Either way it looks like you're in the tww!

 

[amanda111308]

I sure hope it's happened already. I took an opk just now and it still has a faint line. I am just going to relax and wait now. If it's in the cards for this month great, if not then roll on next cycle I suppose. I just wish our bodies were more predictable than all this uncertainty noise... I hope I am pregnant...

 

[LPF]

Well AF came this morning....3 days early. Not sure what's going on there.

Feeling really sad today. Next month it'll be a year we've been TTC no2 and we've had 2 MCs in that time. We've started having the odd 'maybe it's just not meant to be - at least we've got ds' type conversations which is breaking my heart.

I think it's worse this month because I'm 34 on Monday and feeling really old with time ticking rapidly and even if I conceive next month, ds will be over 4 at least which is never what we planned.

Took ds to his football lesson this morning (which was a disaster - I was on the verge of tears all the way through) and every other child's parents had a pushchair or other child with them.....life is so unfair sometimes.

 

[amanda111308]

Aww love, this was me last month completely, AF arrived 3 days early for me too it is truly heartbreaking when all you want for every birthday and Christmas present for the rest of your life is another little one to love and nurture. It will happen I know it!

Me and my husband have had the same conversations about how glad we are to at least have our son. I feel like my body knows how to fail me so well sometimes, but we just gotta stay strong!

We have been ttc #2 for a year in May and have had the one mc in September. Hoping it won't be much longer for a sticky bfp. I have prayed so much lately and it is relaxing me much easier.

I think we both just have shy rainbows

 

[Smiler79]

Hi LPF

I know where you are coming from. I was 34 in December and even if I fall pregnant this month(very unlikely as hubby been away) my dd will be over 4 by time number 2 arrives

Lets hope our rainbows know how much they are longed for and all make an appearance really soon xxxxxx

 

[Anniebobs]

LPF I know exactly where you're coming from. I've now been trying for a year and have had 3 mcs in that time. I think it's worse that I fell so easily with dd and with my first angel (2-3 months) so when it's not happening you start questioning if there's something wrong. I've had a load of blood tests done after my third mc and they all came back negative so looks like it is just bad luck. Really hope we get our bfps soon

 

[LPF]

Thanks ladies. Having a real pity party today. Not sure which is worse, seeing AF arrive, or having to tell dh and see his face fall