6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[kelly1973]

smiler I too know lots of people that have had spotting all the way through try to not worry and I know this is so hard I would ring them on Monday and see if you can go in tell them you are spotting and they will do an early scan we are here for you no matter what

 

[Smiler79]

Hey ladies. Spotting was very brief so hopefully was worrying over nothing. Going too take it easy today and ring epu tomorrow just for reassurance. Will keep you posted if anything changes. Sorry for over reacting last night. I just want this to be a sticky bean soooooooooooooo badly xxxxxxxxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

don't be silly we would be exactly the same when you have had miscarriages anything that is a threat is going to make you worry hope you are ok today x

 

[Mrs W 11]

We would all have reacted the same way Hun. It could have just been some irritation on your cervix or late implant bleeding. Finger crossed its gone for good. X

 

[Anniebobs]

Smiler I had red bleeding at 6 weeks and 9 weeks this time and brown / pink spotting on and off during that time. Had a scan each time I bled and obviously baby is still doing fine. No cause was found for the bleeding or spotting, its just one of those things sometimes. It's completely natural given what we've been through to have a mini meltdown, I was sure it was over numerous times during those few weeks. Luckily since the last bleed I've not had any more.

Try and stay positive but definitely call the epu for an earlier scan (though go in knowing that it may be too early to see anything)

 

[Nataliek]

well by my positive OPK last week I am cycle day 22 but in actuality I am more like cycle day 23-24. I am off a couple of days, longer cycle. I think because the last cycle was shortened by 3 days.

Glad to hear you are feeling good, Mrskitty. I am hoping you have 1 or even 2 good follies!!!

Smiler, I had bright red bleeding with a couple of clots around 6-7 weeks pregnant with my son. Pink spotting, no matter how scary, is totally normal. Take it easy and rest up. xo

 

[Smiler79]

Well ladies I am currently recovering from a full blown panic attack. About 2.5 hrs ago I went to the toilet and discovered fresh bright red blood. Not massive amounts but enough to send me into a panic atack. Only a tiny bit since but this is exactly how bleeding started with last two losses so not getting hopes up. Still no pain though. Will ring epu on morning regardless of whether I have any more bleeding or pain.

I am a nervous wreck now. Hubby has finally fallen asleep, think i really scared him by how crazy I was. I know I should go to bed as nearly half past nmkdnight but I am still shakey and light headedxxxx

Will keep you all posted but not expecting good news xxxx

 

[Anniebobs]

Smiler is it completely normal to be nervous. I had 3 losses and then bleeding so I get it, but it can work out. Praying that's the case for you. Are you on aspirin or anything this time?

 

[Smiler79]

Yes I am of aspirin but took that last time too. Still bleeding. Not really heavy but definitely fresh red blood. Very mild tummy ache too. Just waiting fir epu to open so I can ring them but I know there isn't really anything they can do.

I know I said this last time but if this is another miscarriage then this is it I am not putting us throught this anymore. I am desperate group baby number two and I know the one thing Imogen wants is to be a big sister but I can't keep putting us all through this heartache x xxx

 

[Anniebobs]

Praying for you smiler. Let us know when you get in touch with the epu

 

[Smiler79]

Epu was a waste of time. They have told me to take a pregnancy test today and then take another one in a week and let them know either way. Other than that they have just said go to a&e if bleeding gets really heavy or I become unwell.

I know they don't like to scan too early as can't see much and can cause more worry but thought they might have offered a hcg blood test.

I am seeing the other epu midwife tomorrow anyway for my miscarriage counselling so may ask her for the blood test.

Still not bleeding heavily but got dull tummy ache and I think I know my body well enough by now to know this isn't going to havea good outcome xxxxx

 

[Nataliek]

Oh Smiler I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you are wrong and its not another loss, just take it easy today if possible.

 

[kelly1973]

smiler so sorry you are going through this its so unfair I really hope and prey its its all going to be ok. I would go to your doctors and they can see how stressed and upset you are xxxx
cd1 for me at last come on you swimmers come get me lol

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

when I was pregnant with Daniel I was so distressed and had the same thing I went to the docs and burst into tears they then sent me for a scan xx

 

[Smiler79]

During my last loss I went to drs and they just told me to ring epu.

Well I did pregnancy rest like midwife suggested and it is still a really strong positive. I am not surprised though as would probably still be too early to have turned negative even if I am definitely miscarrying. Trying to relax but it is soooooo hard. Still only lighting bleeding but still bright red so don't know what to think. Just hate being in limbo. Xxx

 

[kelly1973]

can you get busy with something its horrid it really is thinking of you xx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Hey ladies, sorry I have been MIA... Again I am not so active on bnb I pop in every now and then but this week I have been feeling more worried and anxious than ever before... I am almost 15 weeks and I swear I am not pregnant at all... No symptoms (disappeared overnight) I don't look pregnant and I haven't felt a single movement yet... While everyone else in second tri seems to have felt the baby at like 8/9 weeks (rolls eyes as I doubt that very much) I don't have anything making me feel better at all. I feel dumb even complaining right now...

Anyways on to way more important things:

Smiler please try not to stress although I know how hard that is. Worrying and stressing won't help you any. Get lots of rest and think positive as best as you can. Distract yourself with some home projects or work or plan something fantastic for the upcoming weekend. Anything that will take your mind off of it. I went through my entire first trimester living like I had already lost the baby and that I would probably just get my hopes up for nothing. Now I regret it. Enjoy your pregnancy as long as it lasts. Mrskitty told me this many many weeks ago and as much as I tried it was very difficult to do some days but the advice is good. I know how badly you want this baby, and I am right there with you hun. Just keep going!!

Much love to you all! I need to stop being so fearful myself and worrying about making anyone sad on this forum. I want to be more active in here for you ladies.