6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

it gives you such horrid feelings as all we want it to be is us too, dh son has just announced that they are pregnant really hate seeing them now

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

We are long overdue for a bfp on here! At least we have each other to get us through all of this. So thankful for you ladies xoxo

 

[Bug222]

sorry she got you mrskitty

Thanks Bug, I was more worried she had left for good! Fingers crossed for us ladies for the next few cycles. How are you doing Bug?

in all honesty not good First MC due date is coming up quick

cd 11 today- been doing SMEP (again)- opks are getting darker- I got a pos CD 12 last time.

ugh Natalie- im sorry- I just found out an old friend is pregnant again by accident.. for the 3rd time.. seriously?!?!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Kelly, I usually ov around cd19 so we will see if soy has any effect either way. Hoping it makes me ov earlier or stays the same! How about you, when are you due to ov?

Natalie.... That's so hard. Every pregnancy announcement is getting harder and harder for me too now. My baby should be 8 weeks old by now and instead I'm not even pregnant yet. I try not to think of it or I'd never stop crying!!

 

[Nataliek]

bug, hang in there, we all know how hard this is. seems like everything is a constant reminder.

Mrs W something that has helped me deal with the pain is to just embrace it. Let it all go and face the grief. That's what this whole process is, grief. No matter how you look at it.

I wish this would just end already. I have a bad attitude today and I am cycle day 3, still sick and I just want someone to hand me a baby and say, here you go it's all over.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

Kelly, I usually ov around cd19 so we will see if soy has any effect either way. Hoping it makes me ov earlier or stays the same! How about you, when are you due to ov?

Natalie.... That's so hard. Every pregnancy announcement is getting harder and harder for me too now. My baby should be 8 weeks old by now and instead I'm not even pregnant yet. I try not to think of it or I'd never stop crying!!

I am 10dpo but bedding was crap this month as oh was ill so not even guna test well just once so I know to come off the progesterone it makes me feel so poo I hate it when I take it it really makes me sad yuk!!!!! I have tons of baby stuff and just going to sell it all but not sure where to start ive tried facebook but it doesn't seem to sell on there I just feel it needs to go and as my friend said if you get pregnant you can buy new lol

 

[gebkel9]

This may sound awful, but I'm glad that I'm not the only person who hates other people that are pregnant or the only person that has trouble with past due dates. I just got af today and I'm bummed again...in tears to be exact. I just passed one of my due dates and have one more coming up in November. They say not to be stressed because that doesn't help. But how do people escape from the pain that they have experienced. And now all the salt in the wound from other peoples announcements and deliveries? I thought I was a fairly balanced person and tough when need be. But I'm finding out quickly that it's not the case. That it hurts each day that I don't have a bfp. And yet talking to friends or family is not an option. I don't want them to think that I'm nuts. Many haven't experienced one, much less two losses, and I don't think they understand.
Ughhhh...sorry for venting. Thanks to anyone listening.

Ps. Has anyone tried accupuncture??

 

[Bug222]

MrsKitty- we start on cd8.. but I have short cycles and usually ov between cd12 and 14

*hugs* to you gebkel

 

[kelly1973]

hi gebkel so so sorry for your losses its so bloody hard at times and no matter what you do its always there in the back of your mind I really hope we all get our bfp soon xxxxxxxxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Hey ladies how is everyone doing? Where is everyone in their cycles? Anyone testing soon?

Miss you!!

 

[kelly1973]

hey Amanda hope you are well cd3 here starting to get down now about ttc my dh son has just bombarded me with scan pics don't get me wrong im so pleased for them but just wish it was me too sorry for the down post ladies

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

mrs kitty have you a chart i can follow

 

[amanda111308]

I'm doing ok, getting a little nervous tbh though. I have a biophysical ultrasound on Oct 17th to see if my complete placenta previa has moved enough for a natural birth. If it hasn't moved at all or enough I will be booked for a scheduled csection for Dec. 8th at exactly 36 weeks. Csections freak me out so bad... I'm seriously sick to my stomach at just the thought of it. I'm having horrible nightmares about it and lately it seems that every woman that has ever had a csection is coming out of the woodwork just to share their negative feedback on the subject and how awful their experiences were... I feel so down about it all really... Does anyone have any positive feedback? Or advice on how to calm down about it? Ugh I'm so embarrassed to be admitting my fears like this...

 

[Bug222]

I'm doing ok, getting a little nervous tbh though. I have a biophysical ultrasound on Oct 17th to see if my complete placenta previa has moved enough for a natural birth. If it hasn't moved at all or enough I will be booked for a scheduled csection for Dec. 8th at exactly 36 weeks. Csections freak me out so bad... I'm seriously sick to my stomach at just the thought of it. I'm having horrible nightmares about it and lately it seems that every woman that has ever had a csection is coming out of the woodwork just to share their negative feedback on the subject and how awful their experiences were... I feel so down about it all really... Does anyone have any positive feedback? Or advice on how to calm down about it? Ugh I'm so embarrassed to be admitting my fears like this...

oh hun - big hugs xxx I had a booked c-section for my son due to a spinal fusion that caused twisting of my spine and he grew. it was a very positive experience. If it wasn't for my blood pressure issues (which had nothing to do with the section) it would have been very uneventful! I had minimal pain post-op and a pretty easy recovery. I was very nervous going into it- but just pictured the end result- a beautiful baby - and kept my focus on that. The staff were wonderful- very calming- they walked me through everything.

Kelly- this journey is so hard. I find myself getting upset over every bfp announcement. Hopefully we will all have our own soon!

MrsKitty- fx'd you ovulate asap! Good luck this cycle!

Im CD20- either 7 or 8 dpo.. positive OPK on cd12.. so just counting down the days. Took a IC today (i know crazy early... and of course bfn)

 

[MrsKitty]

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