Hey guys, can I join in? I'm in the exact same boat...
My DH and I have been ttc since November of last year. I'm 37, so time is relatively short. We had wonderful news in March which quickly ended w/ a chemical pregnancy at 5w. Then we had great news again in May. My first ultrasound was at 7 weeks. I am always very regular and was using a CB easy fertility monitor so I was certain of my dates. My u/s showed an empty sac measuring 5w6d. I was told to come back 10 days later to see if there were any changes.
My second u/s was Monday. I had terrible news. My gestational sac was completely empty. No yolk sac or fetal pole. It only measured at 6w1d (10 days earlier it measured 5w6d), so only 2d growth in 10 days. I was officially diagnosed with a blighted ovum.
My doctor recommended that I terminate early because if I waited naturally it would likely be another 4-6 weeks before my body figured it out. Higher risks, more difficult termination, etc. I agreed. She gave me the option of medical or a d&c. In order to avoid surgery, I elected misoprostil.
Misoprostil was HORRIBLE!!!!! Major pain. Vomiting. Yuck. I'm wearing Depends. My doc prescribed vicodin and two tablets barely touched it. I think if I had it to do over again, I would do a d&c. I was supposed to "gather the products" and submit them and they would evaluate them. So far all I have found was blood. They are going to measure my HCG levels in one week to ensure they are going down. If they aren't, that means that there is likely still tissue in there and I will have to have a d&c anyway.
As soon as my HCG levels are back to normal, we can technically start trying again. Ideally, my doc would like me to have a "normal" period again so they can accurately date my next pregnancy. They can't tell me when the "average" time for your next AF after a medically induced miscarriage.
Today I'm day 3 post miscarriage. I felt pretty much normal yesterday, but today at work I started what could only be described as SEVERE cramping (contractions?? I wouldn't know, I've never had one). I'm still bleeding pretty heavily, but no major passage of tissue...
My goal is to try to lose a bit of weight, FertilAid, and Maca going into the next go round. My doctor took 8 tubes of blood to test me for chromosome abnormalities, genetic probs, metabolic probs, and autoimmune issues. So far no issues, but not all of the tests are back.
Does anyone know when things go back to "normal?" When can you start using OPK's again?
Kare