spoke to the doc he said opks are super sensitive he said to ignore any positives you get after the initial positive as the hormones go up and down and you will get other positives, so once you get a positive he said there is no point in doing any more opks, he also said nhs doctors dont do pregnancy tests until 7dpo as thats the earliest it will work when the progesteron (i know cant spell it lol) kicks in and starts increasing so he said dont worry and ignore other surges, so from what he said dont worry you have o'd and you're still in with a chance.... phew i can stop stressing too now lol