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Btw, if it makes you feel any better, my SILs mum fell pregnant just after having a baby, there's 13months exactly between them and they are best of friends (19 and 18 now). She was also using protection, she is a midwife and husband is a GP, so can happen to anyone! ;) She laughs now and just says that her youngest was just determine to be here obviously! :hugs:
 
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I know how you feel about just wanting to get used to your new LO - but you will be a great mommy to 3 I'm sure! There is a lot of support on here. Just think of how good of friends they will be! Like someone else said, back to back maternity leave would be wonderful, too!
 
I think I felt like that til my first came lol and felt like that with Ellie til we found out she wasnt doing to well and we needed weekly scanning amnios and fetal monitoring then i realised I should feel lucky to still have her growing inside me, your only 15 weeks, how long have you known for im sure in a few weeks - a months time you will be thinking diff xxx
 
I think I felt like that til my first came lol and felt like that with Ellie til we found out she wasnt doing to well and we needed weekly scanning amnios and fetal monitoring then i realised I should feel lucky to still have her growing inside me, your only 15 weeks, how long have you known for im sure in a few weeks - a months time you will be thinking diff xxx

Thank you i know i should be grateful as some people really do struggle and i dont want to seem horrible iykwim? My lo is only 15 weeks i think im about 4 weeks pregnant. :hugs: xxx
 
Thank you everyone for your kind words its really nice to have people to talk to as i dont really feel like i could talk to family/friends. I feel like such a nugget xxxx
 
I think I felt like that til my first came lol and felt like that with Ellie til we found out she wasnt doing to well and we needed weekly scanning amnios and fetal monitoring then i realised I should feel lucky to still have her growing inside me, your only 15 weeks, how long have you known for im sure in a few weeks - a months time you will be thinking diff xxx

Thank you i know i should be grateful as some people really do struggle and i dont want to seem horrible iykwim? My lo is only 15 weeks i think im about 4 weeks pregnant. :hugs: xxx

sorry just on from work i thought you said you were 15 weeks lol tired tired tired so i am. Aw your hormones will be all over the place, honestly if I wasnt getting married in june we would be trying or even pregnant by now lol I would love a close age gap rather than the 5 between mia and ellie, but have a think and a chat to oh and we are all here to talk xx
 
Hugs to you! You will surprise yourself with what you can cope with! A difficult 9 months pregnancy is not a long time in the grand scheme of things (although I has spd with my last pregnancy and I understand it feels like a lifetime when you are going through it) and you will cope and love this baby the way you love your 2 los :)

We are all here for you! Stay strong and I'm sending you lots of love and prayers for you to make the decision that is right for your family and personal circumstance :) xxxxx
 
Hugs to you! You will surprise yourself with what you can cope with! A difficult 9 months pregnancy is not a long time in the grand scheme of things (although I has spd with my last pregnancy and I understand it feels like a lifetime when you are going through it) and you will cope and love this baby the way you love your 2 los :)

We are all here for you! Stay strong and I'm sending you lots of love and prayers for you to make the decision that is right for your family and personal circumstance :) xxxxx

Thank you, im just in no-mans land at min i really need to put my head on straight. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Congratulations :hugs:

I know it won't be easy in the beginning but they'll have so much fun growing up together ^^ there are quite a few mummies on here with 2 under 2 and 3 under 3, so I'm sure you'd have lots of support :]

Chin up hun; you'll be fine! X
 
Congratulations :hugs:

I know it won't be easy in the beginning but they'll have so much fun growing up together ^^ there are quite a few mummies on here with 2 under 2 and 3 under 3, so I'm sure you'd have lots of support :]

Chin up hun; you'll be fine! X

Thank you hun, ill have two under ones for a while :wacko: xxxxx
 
Hugs hun. I hope the chat with your OH goes alright. I'm not surprised you are both in shock but I hope it works out ok for you all xx
 
Hugs to you hun.
With the close age gap they could be brought up like twins except with different birthdays. I think they would be best friends when they get older.

And i'm sure the decision you and DH make will be the right one for you. Nobody should judge you with that decision even if they don't agree. Its none of their business what you choose.

Here for support <3 xx
 
Hugs to you hun.
With the close age gap they could be brought up like twins except with different birthdays. I think they would be best friends when they get older.

And i'm sure the decision you and DH make will be the right one for you. Nobody should judge you with that decision even if they don't agree. Its none of their business what you choose.

Here for support <3 xx

Thank you so much hun , i keep switching between "we can do this" to "o god im not ready"

:hugs: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
congratulations hun. Ive got 3 under 2 theres 11 months between my daughter and my twins. You'll be fine xx
 
My friend did this and everyone was so shocked... She loved it so much that she's just done it again! She has Gaps between them, but two lots of 8 month gaps!
 
congratulations hun. Ive got 3 under 2 theres 11 months between my daughter and my twins. You'll be fine xx

Wow thank you thats really helpful hun, its early days only just found out thus morning. Thank you for your positive message xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 

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