Linzalora
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I need to vent. First of all, I know so many of you ladies have to wait until 12 weeks to get a scan. I want you to know that I am grateful for my opportunity to have an early scan to look at my bean, even if it's causing me heartache right now.
I'm 8w4d min- 9w max and had a scan today. The doc says I'm measuring at 7w3d, and since that's not possible, my little bean must not be growing fast enough. We saw and heard the heartbeat, but the doc didn't tell me what the rate was. I can't calculate my miscarriage chances at this point.
I'm all upset because I was 1-2 weeks behind on my last scan that ended in a miscarriage, but DH is just so thrilled there was a heartbeat. He's certain that everything is great, but he's ever the optimist. Being the realist, I know that a heartbeat doesn't guarantee anything. When I was crying to hubby, DH was really irritated with me for being negative and told me that my attitude was important and if this was going to be a successful pregnant, it's imperative that I think positively and be happy.
I'm living in a foreign country by myself, and I don't want to tell people here about this pregnancy until I'm fairly confident that it's a keeper. But it is so darn hard to go through this without any support.
I included the picture, although it looks like nothing. I put a heart on the bean so it's kinda easier to see. I just want to crawl into bed, cry my eyes out, and sleep for the next two weeks.
End rant. Maybe I'll feel better tomorrow.
I'm 8w4d min- 9w max and had a scan today. The doc says I'm measuring at 7w3d, and since that's not possible, my little bean must not be growing fast enough. We saw and heard the heartbeat, but the doc didn't tell me what the rate was. I can't calculate my miscarriage chances at this point.
I'm all upset because I was 1-2 weeks behind on my last scan that ended in a miscarriage, but DH is just so thrilled there was a heartbeat. He's certain that everything is great, but he's ever the optimist. Being the realist, I know that a heartbeat doesn't guarantee anything. When I was crying to hubby, DH was really irritated with me for being negative and told me that my attitude was important and if this was going to be a successful pregnant, it's imperative that I think positively and be happy.
I'm living in a foreign country by myself, and I don't want to tell people here about this pregnancy until I'm fairly confident that it's a keeper. But it is so darn hard to go through this without any support.
I included the picture, although it looks like nothing. I put a heart on the bean so it's kinda easier to see. I just want to crawl into bed, cry my eyes out, and sleep for the next two weeks.
End rant. Maybe I'll feel better tomorrow.