prettybirdy27
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My husband and I recently decided we will start TTC in October. I really have a lot of questions that I want to talk to people about and my husband can't answer, but I don't feel like I really have anyone to talk to. My mom is passed on and my dad gets really squirmy about things like this. I am very close with my inlaws, particularly my mother in law, but I don't really want to tell her because I don't want her to get excited in case something goes wrong. Also I feel it would be awkward that I would start a conversation that implies "Hey, your son and I are going to have piles of sex now, we'll keep you updated on if it works or not." I have a best friend that I opened up to about it, but she is extremely busy in her own life and I can't reasonably expect her to listen to every question and detail, especially since she doesn't have kids so she doesn't know the answers either. So...I have a few questions for you.
1. How did you personally know you were ready to start having children?
2. How do you know you're financially ready? How much money should I have put aside?
3. I am really not looking forward to going off birth control. I've been on it for almost eight years now. I started with ortho tri-cyclin, moved to a generic called Reclipsen, and started the nuvaring about three years ago. I am on three-month cycles, and am really not excited about having monthly cycles again. If you were on birth control, how terrible was it to go off?
4. Did you ever second-guess your decision to start TTC or look back? Some mornings I wake up and I'm like "I AM READY FOR THIS" and other mornings I wake up and I'm like "But having a baby means my whole life is going to change and that makes me nervous."
I think that's all I have for now.
1. How did you personally know you were ready to start having children?
2. How do you know you're financially ready? How much money should I have put aside?
3. I am really not looking forward to going off birth control. I've been on it for almost eight years now. I started with ortho tri-cyclin, moved to a generic called Reclipsen, and started the nuvaring about three years ago. I am on three-month cycles, and am really not excited about having monthly cycles again. If you were on birth control, how terrible was it to go off?
4. Did you ever second-guess your decision to start TTC or look back? Some mornings I wake up and I'm like "I AM READY FOR THIS" and other mornings I wake up and I'm like "But having a baby means my whole life is going to change and that makes me nervous."
I think that's all I have for now.