A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Ladyfog]

Beach - forgot to say hope you feel better soon - sounds like you've had such a horrible cold.

 

[lexi374]

Lady your bump looks really neat! Enjoy relaxing this weekend while you still can!

Emme fx for the job!

Ay sorry af showed

Nicki glad you are enjoying acupunture

Wookie fx for you, when will you test?

Beach wow you have been poorly for ages, hope you are getting to the end of it now!

Hope how are you?

Nsn

Patiently hun hope you are ok?

Soop i agree with emme no rest for oh, ill or not just gotta tell him to man up and get on with it lol! Dont know why ff has you ov cd8?? I doubt you have. Keep going with bd!

Anyone i missed sorry hope you are ok?

Afm i did a digi today and got a 3+!! So happy! That means 3 weeks since conception and its 3 weeks today since i ovulated, so spot on. I think i may stop testing now!

 

[Sooperhans]

Yay for your 3+ Lexi!! I know, it's a bit weird. If I have another raised temp tomorrow then maybe I'll believe it but for a few days later. Just worried about when I'm supposed to get back on the progesterone...? X

 

[lexi374]

Id hold fire on the prog for now.

Did you do opks? Did you have any ewcm or anything to make you think you ovd?

 

[Sooperhans]

I don't have any opks....I have had ewcm today and yday, wondering if I get another rise tomorrow will FF change the cross hairs? Bloody confused as ever!!

 

[Ladyfog]

That's great news Lexi - looks like this little bean is a sticky one I'd stop taking tests if you can - I scared myself silly (resulting in an emergency trip to the GP) at about 7 weeks as I suddently got a BFN on a test. I even convinced the Dr I was having another MC, but turns out my HGC had just gotten to a level that the test couldn't detect anymore! Digis are especially sensitive and return 'no result' after a while too. I just don't want you to have the same worry that I did for no good reason

Soop, I never temped but just relied on signs like the EWCM. That was always a pretty good indicator for me so hopefully it is for you too! Our first baby was nicknamed 'baby rapey' (obviously we didn't share our name with friends and family!) as DH said that I'd forced him to BD while he was really ill with a cold - which I suppose I did - but he wasn't complaining at the time !

 

[wookie130]

"Baby rapey" LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[lexi374]

Thanks lady, yeah im gonna stop testing now, i have heard of that i think its called the 'hook effect'.

Soop i dont think you have ovd keep at it girl!

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks for your ov advice girls! X I think as I've got ewcm that it must be around the corner, will see what the next couple of days shows...

Baby rapey, haha! Dh is being quite needy, deal is he gets some back massage and fussed over, as long as he puts out! I will be cashing in on many massages if I finally get preggers one day! Fx'd....xx

 

[patiently]

Beach hope you are feeling better!! xx

Wookie GL this 2ww hope this will be your sticky BFP month!

Nikki hope accupunture relaxes you...do you think it is beneficial? did you have an initial consultation? what made you go ahead with accupunture?

Soop i agree with the other gals to keep bd...i think cd8 is early, but still possible, but as you had a temp drop the day after i'd say maybe ovulation is near or you ovulated on cd 10. Check and see tomorrow what the temps are then i think it will shed more light to ovulation day. However i havent been charting long so i could be completely wrong lol..GL either way hun hope this is your month and a big salute to you for getting OH to participate.

Lexi whooooo hoooo this is so amazing!!!! im so happy for you. This one looks sticky to me! the tests are reflective of O day so things look right on schedule! Im wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months hun.

AFM i am having OH issues...too long to go into but basically he's not being supportive. I have decided to try accupunture and see what happens. I hope it help get our forever baby. Went baby clothes shopping yesterday for my younger sister and I absolutely adore boy baby clothes. So glad she is having a little one and have been surprised at my own strength throughout my ordeal. I havent cried and am starting to feel positive about the future again. I am still sceptical though because usually when i start feeling better something happens to bring back the sadness. FXed it doesnt happen. Hope all of you are doing well and I cant wait to join you again in 6 weeks....xxx

 

[lexi374]

Patiently sorry oh isnt being so supportive

Am hoping he bucks his ideas up!

Re acupunture i did it for a while, actually had 1 session maybe 2 and got bfp, sadly that was 2nd mc, so had a break for a while and went back again for a few session no bfp that time though. I did really like it though it really chills you out! Give it a go, can get expensive though! x

 

[BeachChica]

Soop - I don't think you O'd yet but I do think it's near so keep the whip on your OH. I def would not start that progesterone yet until you know for sure you did. I really don't think that a few days will make that much of a difference. Some docs don't even believe that progesterone provides any benefits. I will keep stalking your chart but keep every other day.

Lady - baby rapey!!!!

Patiently- sorry OH is not being supportive. He seems to go through phases with this so maybe don't pressure him about anything and keep your baby "agenda" to yourself. I think he'll come around!!!

Lexi- no more tests girl!!! You are prego!!! Think postive thoughts!!!!

AFM - I am feeling much better today. I finally got a decent night of sleep last night and my cough has started to not be as frequent. We are out on our boat for the weekend and I think the fresh air and sunshine is exactly what I need! Tonight we are spending a nice calm night on the anchor! Waiting for AF to arrive now, I hope she comes soon and my sicknesss did not delay things as I am really to start my TTC cycle this month!!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Hi Patiently! I admire your strength and I'm pleased you have been able to shop with your sister. I hope you get there yourself very soon xxx I agree with Beach, when you didn't mention it for a while to your oh before, didn't he respond better? Keep counting down those days to ttc yourself...

Beach, I'm pleased you are feeling better and hope AF comes soon for you, to start your ttc month! You have been so patient and have approached everything in a carefully considered way with your doc, I hope you don't have to wait too much longer for your bfp

Well I got a rise this morning and FF has moved the crosshairs to a more sensible and credible looking ov date. It's 10 days earlier than last month, hope this means a return to my more normal cycle length, and less time to wait and see if I get a bfp or not! Dh came up trumps with a double bd day yesterday, result! Will continue for a few more days and hope the 2ww speeds by...xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Beach I'm glad you're feeling better, sounds like you had sthg nasty.

Lexi...hope you're feeling well and as relaxed as poss.

Patiently... Have started stalking your journal, notice we'll both be TTC again in about 6 weeks so I'm going to follow your progress. hope things perk up for you soon I can't really say if acu has worked for me yet but I have written loads about it, what it involves and the effects I've noticed so far in my journal if you want to take a look. Have also spoken to lots of people who swear by it. Ladyfog, I'm not totally sure I'm convinced of how it works either! but my theory is if it helps people just by giving them sthg positive to focus on, or relaxing them, and putting their head in a better place, then that in itself has to be a good thing! It can get expensive but the lady I see does buy five sessions get one free, and also after the first few she starts to spread them out a bit more so it's the initial hit in the pocket that's the worst. Sooper the needles in the tummy did look odd (esp the one above each ovary) but mostly I don't look, I just lie there with my eyes closed and chill! My AF started on Friday, a few hours after the acu, dead on day 28 of my cycle which is v unusual for me. Who knows if it's acu related but yay to a 28 day cycle!

 

[Sooperhans]

I agree, if it's clearing your head then that's a great place to start. How spooky that AF cropped up immediately! I hope that it continues to work well for you and yeah best not to look! Xx

 

[wookie130]

Patiently, I'm sure there are times when it feels like an eternity, but 6 weeks isn't really that far off...be good to yourself in the meantime.

 

[patiently]

Nikki thank you I will be stalking and hopefully we can keep in touch on our ttc journey soon as it commences!

Soop i thought you ovulated on cd 10! FXed that this is your month hun, and so glad OH is overperforming! lol...Well done you! May will possibly be your BFP month! Baby dust to you! Hope the 2ww isnt too long and you get your sticky bfp early!

Beach hope AF comes soon so you can ttc again! You have been so patient and sensible i admire your strength and determination. Good luck hun, hope your ttc journey will be a short one and you get your bfp real soon!

 

[Nicki123]

Yay patiently, here's to the next 6 weeks flying by

 

[Sooperhans]

Hehe, thank you psychic Patiently! I am hoping for a bfp this time...thank you for the luck and yes, think hb must be on the mend, as he has more energy. Without me saying he said earlier "am I booked in for later too?" - he knows the drill, hehe x

 

[patiently]

LMAO HAHAHAHAHA! you actually make me laugh soop! "am i booked in for later?" hahaha thats so funny! Have fun!!! I cant remember the last time i had ..it was sometime in feb! wow its been a while.

Nikki cheers to that!