A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Madeline]

hi wookie and lexi thks so much thats very helpful.

Since I posted I have had what may be a worrying development though, I have abdominal pain and its too far away from AF to b menstrual I am very concerned it is another mc. It is not normal I know that I am looking online now to c if it inevitably means mc hopefully thats not the case....sigh...

thks again

Madeline xxx

 

[Emmediva]

Madeline, have you tested to see if you're pregnant? Triphasic doesn't always mean pregnancy...

Lexi, yay! 13weeks you're a peach!!! I laughed when I saw you hadn't with your OH since Easter! LOL and here I am feeling bad cause my OH and I haven't since June 3rd, I thought that was a long time, but you beat me LOL. We haven't DTD because we're scared of messing with the pregnancy, I got spotting for 4 days 1 day after we DTD last time... Then was put on Pelvic Rest for a week which has lasted this long and probably until July 2, when we get our next Ultrasound.


How's everyone else doing? :wave:

I'm praying my appointment in July is positive and all is ok

 

[Madeline]

hi emmediva i haven't tested i am only 9DPO (CD21) i wasn't going to test till CD28 when AF is due. i haven't had any symptoms either till tonight w these abdominal pains...i thnk i should calm down its really unlikely to b a mc i don't have any other symptoms and its too early.

i am sure your appt will b all positive in july

Madeline xxx

 

[wookie130]

Madeline, is it possible that the abdominal pains are post-ovulation pains?

What does the pain feel like specifically? Have you ever had a cyst?

 

[patiently]

Lexi happy 13 weeks...Time is lying by so quickly. Glad all is ok after your session with OH. Im sure it must be worrying but all is ok.

Emme not long to wait now!! Happy 9 weeks hun glad all is ok.

Wookie sounds like you've covered your days so far. Gonna have a good shot this cycle. GL hun to you!!

Madeline i had a triphasic chart the month i didnt get my bfp so i dont know if its that reliable in predicting a bfp. Hope you are one of the lucky ladies like Lexi who does get a bfp with a triphasic chart! GL

Notoptmistic so sorry AF came hun. Hope next month is your month. xxx

Soop hope its implantation and AF stays away hun GL!!

Anyone else ive missed hi

So my sister had her scan today and i went with her...the baby was moving about so much we were in there for 30 mins...So my younger sister is having a boy...and my older sister is having...A BOY too!! lol...my mum was upset hahaha! I cant believe everyone in the family is having boys even my uncle is expecting a baby due in august and is having a boy too! I have also volunteered to be my sisters birthing partner...Thought if i want to have a baby one day why not see what im in for...LOL...loved the scan had a great day...still not BD huff! O well nothing much i can do there. Hope you all have a wonderful weekend. xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Hi everyone - flying visit as I'm meant to be asleep as have an early start tomorrow, but wanted to say happy weekend everyone and I'll catch up with all the goings on when I'm back Sunday night

 

[Madeline]

hi wookie

i didn't think of that could i ovulate twice in one cycle? I got a positive OPK on CD11. The pain is gone this morning but last night it was ongoing. It was like a heavy feeling, pressure some pinching sensations almost like before AF. Hopefully its nothing serious watever it is. I am just surprised because everything has gone so smoothly since the mc....

hi patiently thks so much, I hope your sister has a happy healthy 9 mths I think you are right some people get a BFP and others don't. Its good to know I remember feeling noticeably hotter when I got pregnant but i wasn't charting then so no idea if I had a triphasic shift.

Madeline xxx

 

[BeachChica]

Oh Wookie - I love camping, have fun!!! Your BD schedule sounds great!!! Oh, and I haven't heard the story behind your avatar so you must tell!!

Nikki - spotting at 7DPO sounds like a good sign of IB to me!!! FX for you!!!

Notopt - I hope its not AF for you!!! Keep us posted!


Soop - how are you feeling today? I hope the spotting is IB. Your other symptoms sound so promising!!! No, the sore boobs went away for me. It was really strange this month. I hope everything is OK.

Emme - those pains your feeling is your little one burying in tight!!!

Lexi - glad you had a fabulous time at the beach!!!

Madeline -I hope a triphastic chart = a BFP for you!!! FX!!! Can you post a link to your chart so we can see? You could be getting some cramping from implanation!!!

Patiently - Glad you had a great day with your sister and being her birth partner sounds like a great idea. How are things with your OH?

AFM - temps still up today so I started my progesterone. I week 'till testing, we'll see how it goes....

 

[Sooperhans]

Hello lovely ladies...will catch up properly later...just to say that I'm out, got another neg just now. I so wanted a bfp and it would've made my July DD all that more bearable. Can't think too much about it w/o getting upset. Speak soon xxx

 

[Madeline]

hi sooperhans sorry you are out

hi beachchica i hope the link to my chart will appear below. Only started properly recently so not alot of data yet, but i don't have any other symptoms either so I kind of thought it couldn't be implantation but then I am not sure what that should feel like? Looking forward to what you think

Madeline xxx

 

[Madeline]

oops the link didn't appear in the last post it is below now

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi everyone, just popping in to say hello and see how you all are.

Lexi - glad you've felt brave enough to do some BDing. I know different people feel differently about DTD in pregnancy, but me and DH have carried on as normal really (apart from in the early days when I felt too crap to want to!) and even now at 38 weeks it's not really an issue. I think it's kept us close and we might as well do it while we still have the time and the energy! We had a bit of spotting on holiday when I was about 24 weeks, but that was because we were doing it a bit too much and my cervix got a bit delicate

Madeline - hope your chart means good news but try not to focus too much on aches and pains in the 2ww . You will be super tuned in to everything that is going on with your body so will feel things so much more than someone who isn't TTC. You wouldn't really be having a MC at 9dpo as even if the egg had already been fertilised it wouldn't have really implanted yet - this would all just be a very normal part of TTC, even though it's frustrating FX'd for you.

Soop - sorry that this is not your month and ready for getting past your DD. These times are so hard, but once you get past that date you can focus on the future again. I'm a great believer in not symptom spotting as I was disappointed every time I was sure I was pregnant and completely surprised every time I've got a BFP - you will get there, and the timing will feel so right when you do .

Emme, glad your pregnancy is going well and all those symptoms seem to be a great sign! I had the bitter taste in my mouth until about 16 weeks but it does go away eventually and food will taste OK again! GL for your scan too.

Hi to everyone else and good luck to those n the 2WW. I have my fingers crossed for all of you!

AFM, I've enjoyed my first week of mat leave and just getting the last few bits done before baby comes. I probably need to take it easy at some point but I can't seem to sit still yet! The carseat is in the car and my hospital bag is ready so it's just a waiting game really now. Still feeling well, although it's getting harder to walk very far as I get a bit tired lugging my baby bump around, but trying to keep active as I'm hoping that will encourage the little lady to come out on time!

 

[BeachChica]

Oh Soop - I am so sorry The journey for our rainbow is such a tough one but I really feel we will appreciate things so much more in the end after everything we've been through to get there!!!

Madeline- its hard to tell on your chart this early. Like Lexi said i don't think you would be having a MC. Hopefully it's just implantation pain. A couple questions.... How long are your cycles usually? Do you know approx when you O? I saw you had some dizziness today.... I had that a couple months ago around O. When was your last MC and how many have you had? Regarding your chart, you can add a link in your signature and others can stalk you along the way. I always find it helpful to have other people look at mine and let me know what they think.

Lady- it is always so good to hear from you. Glad you are enjoying your leave and getting things ready! You sound so organized, you baby room must be all ready to go! You should post a pic!

 

[Madeline]

hi Beachchica

I only started charting after I O'd this month so temps for the first half of my cycle this month are missing but I O'd on day 12 got positive OPK on CD11. So today is, well day just turned over here so its 12DPO. My cycles are 28 days. I have had one mc and it happened in my last cycle at 5.5wks. thks I will add a link in my signature

I guess the abdominal pain yesterday and less so today could have been implantation pain but I don't have any other symptoms like sore boobs so I am guessing its just a random thing, I am going to keep charting and hopefully get better at it

babydust to everyone

Madeline xxx

 

[BeachChica]

Madeline- sorry I missed your + OPK. I think your temps look good. I will be interested to see what happens over the next few days. Don't worry about the sore boobs. A lot of times that does not happen until after AF is due. FX for you this cycle!!!

 

[Madeline]

Oh thats ok thks for your advice oh ok,i thought if you didn't have sore boobs by now that was a bit of deal breaker. I have read that symptoms can change from one pregnancy to the next for the same person so maybe i shouldn't focus too much on wat I remember front the first one i guess.

I wish I could say something sensible about your chart but I don't really know enough yet but I am a quick study so I will read more

Madeline xxx

 

[ayclobes]

symptoms can change from pregnancy to pregnancy, but the way i figured i was pregnant before i started testing was my boobs--they were so sore and hard! and i never have symptoms of af before she shows..so i knew i was pregnant then. I tested a couple days later...and BAM! i was right..

 

[lexi374]

Soop sorry about the bfn i really wanted you to get that bfp this month too. Just take a few days, then dust yourself down and try again, its all you can do.... you will get there! x

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you everyone, thanks Lexi. I can't stop crying this weekend and when i'm not crying I'm in a mood I tried to talk to my mil but it was a quick brush off...I don't feel like anyone really understands. AF started yday, I've been really crampy. And then passed another large clot yday...I'm going to the docs next week, something isn't right. I feel like I'm in such a downer mood x

 

[Madeline]

hi Sooperhans I am so sorry you got a BFN and that you are feeling depressed. Talking helps me too I think its a healthy way to cope, if you feel like talking then just go right ahead.

Madeline xxx