A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

Ntat have wrote in your journal but just saw this, if it is a chemical i would think you will start bleeding in the next few days, my cp was not too awful just lasted a bit longer then a normal period for me. And as nicki said a few of us got pregnant sooner afterwards. I had 1 in feb and got preg with this 1 in april. :hugs: x
 
NewToAllThis, I'm sorry you think it's a chemical, I agree with Nicki and Lexi, I also got pregnant soon after my cp. I had mine in March and got my BFP again in May. Hopefully the same will be for you. It's never easy though :hugs: as to bleeding, it wasn't too much different from my regular period, only difference was the tissue passing but it was a minimal amount. I bled for my regular 4 days but the first 2 days were very heavy.

AFM, I had a great holiday weekend, I went back to my home town; Houston and saw my family. I got some more guesses on the gender this weekend, 4 for boy and 2 for girl, so I am adding them to my journal... One more week till we find out for sure!!
Aghh it was so hard to leave yesterday my OH and I talked about it and have decided to move back once the baby is born, he actually wanted to move back asap but I made him realize no one is going to hire me at 5 months + pregnant... So we have to wait it out here. Not sure how I am going to approach the topic at work when the time comes though... Should I tell them prior to going on maternity leave, while on it or come back and tell them? It's going to be hard because I really would not want to leave my baby with someone other than family :nope: back in Texas my mom would care for the baby :thumbup:
 
Hi everyone hope everyone in US had good holiday weekend. Forgive me I don't really know if other places celebrated it if not hope everyone else had a good weekend .:flower:

Soop--About the blood test. It is a Chromosome test for him. They said it is only a 10% chance he has problems. I had mine and I am fine. He does not want to take it b/c he thinks it is a waste of money about $500 if he travels 2 hrs to take it or anywhere from $700 to $900 to stay here and take it. I don't think it is that necessary right now. I am using opks to and tempting started tempting this morning I should hopefully be back on my regular O date which would put me at this Fri on cd 14 but I o'd 2 days later last cycle but I think that was becuse of the early m/c that threw it off. I guess we will see lately the opk's usually give me a days notice when they use to be positive at least a day and a half or 2 days before O. I do ferning scope also but don't rely to heavily on that. However I am usually full ferning 5 days before O. Have u started opk's yet?

JFG--I know how that is my best friend had an oops. Here baby was ment to be cause she had a tilted uterus and she got pregnant because they had sex he came and then they had sex again so it was not pre cum but after sex cum :shrug:. IDK what you would call it. But she got pregnant and said that if she had not gotten pregnant she would probable not want a baby till she was in her late thirtys. So she always tells me how I really don't want one right now and how much trouble and responsiblity they are. My other best friend had an oops also. Then she had a m/c with her bf last year and they decided they wanted to have a baby after that so they tried the next month and she got pregnant and he broke up with her. When they first got pregnant my first friend was 20 and the other was 17. Neither had any problems. My SIL has 2 boys and she had a mmc 2 yrs ago and said she has been trying since so she kinda understands but not really. So I know exactly what you mean.

Beach-- OMG I did not know that progestrone can be fine the once pregnant it can go down. I think I will ask for progestorne test next time I get my bfp and blood work done. I did have blood work done last year with the triplets/twins and I finally got the progestrone done at 10 dpo and it was 51.83 and progestrone was 33.56 so it was good the but never had another progesterone test with that pregnancy. However I still believe if it was not for the septate then I would have had a healthy pregnancy. :cry:.

Nicki--OMG that is great congrats :happydance:. So excited I bet this one is your sticky baby. I believe the relaxation did the trick:thumbup: I nend to do some of that lol.

Emme--that was so sweet of your DH. My gets more protective and does stuff like that when I am pregnant too but its only when I am pregnant lol. Glad you are ok hope the power is back on now. :flower:

Newtoallthis--so sorry that you are going through this. I just went through it last month. Mine was at 5 wks 1 day and it was like a period actually this past period was more clotty and painful than the mc. My RE nuse said to treat it like a normal period. I was my first natural mc over 2 days late. I had a chem last yr in may which I was just 2 days late but this one I was a week late.

AFM--I started the :sex: last night. I should O on Fri or at least over the weekend so we will see. GL to everyone. :flower:
 
NTAT so sorry to hear what you're going through, I have had 2 very early losses, both at 5w2d, my bleeding was just like a normal period really perhaps a tiny bit heavier at the start. I have everything crossed that you get a nice surprise when your beta results come back though :hugs:
 
My first beta came back at 73.7 which she said is consistent with ny dates but....my tests have since gone virtually negative so I'm not feeling hopeful.
Got a telephone appointment with the Doc this morning so am asking for repeats asap. She didn't request repeats on my results which I find odd :shrug:

I've cone to terms with another loss, just want it over soon if its going to happen.

Thanks so so much for all your help, kind words and comments girls, it means a lot xxx

:hugs:
 
NTAT- Silly question but are you drinking alot before you poas or have you been able to hold it a while. I am so sorry you are going through this. :hugs:
But they do say you are more fertile the months after mc. Last month was my first month after and no bfp so I am hoping this month will be it.:flower:
FX for yo KUP
 
NTAT- Silly question but are you drinking alot before you poas or have you been able to hold it a while. I am so sorry you are going through this. :hugs:
But they do say you are more fertile the months after mc. Last month was my first month after and no bfp so I am hoping this month will be it.:flower:
FX for yo KUP

Nope :nope: its been fmu that's been held overnight and deliberately didn't drink much so was very dark.
Hoping I will be more fertile afterwards too :thumbup:
 
Hi girls,
Sorry I have been MIA. DH and I spent an almost technology free 4 day weekend on the boat and it was awesome. Then school started last night so I am just now trying to get caught up!

NTAL – Oh no, I hope its not a chemical for you. When will your next set of betas come back? :hugs:

Soop – have a fabulous vacation!!! Sending lots of :dust: your way!!!!

Emme – glad you made it through the storm Ok. I would be worried about sleeping with the generator on too. We have one on our boat and at night we just suffer through the heat and pray for a breeze! I would not tell your work until you get back from maternity leave so you can get all the benefits. Plus something could change. Just tell them that you thought about it over your leave and decided to move closer to family.

Nicki – I think a relaxed approach is a good one!!! I am trying not to think too much about this pregnancy either and hope it works out for me. Yeah for the new ticker!!! How was your appt today?

Wookie – you made it to the 12 week mark!! :yipee:

Welcome Ambi and so sorry for your losses. I had all normal testing too and here I am. I hope one of these work out for all of us!!!

Monro – when your pregnant your progesterone levels should be higher. You might be Ok, Yours seem high. Mine was only a 10, but it wouldn’t hurt to get it checked. Hope you caught that egg this month!!!

Thurl – I wonder if you O’d on CD 19 or 20…? It will be interesting to see what happens with your chart the next couple days.

AFM – I have my 10 week appointment in the morning. Scan at 8:45am and appt with RE at 9:15am. Hopefully everything will be fine. I am not really feeling any different, just really tired (which is making my class until 10pm really tough). I will try to post an update tomorrow.
 
Beach, thank you for the suggestion, that's a great idea. I'm just going to worry a little about someone caring for the baby. But that way I'll get the benefits :thumbup:
I'll be praying for a positive appt tomorrow for you :hugs: I can't wait to see a picture!!! So exciting!
 
Beach, just had my 2nd beta taken this morning but todays IC was negative so I think I know what the results will tell me. Just hoping the bleeding will start soon as I just want this over.

Good luck for your scan :hugs:
 
NTAT, I'm so sorry, once again. :hugs:

AFM, my 12 week appointment was yesterday, and all was well. I didn't get a scan, but I heard the heartbeat right away, which was amazing! 155 bpm!
 
NTAT--I am so sorry:hugs:. I had blood taken the same day I started bleeding and it was 12.56 so usually once it gets under 20 it won't be long. Hope this next cycle you get your sticky baby.

Beach--Can't wait for scan pics.:happydance:

Wookie--aww that is great you got to here the hb:happydance:. I know when I get to the 12 wk or earlier actually lol I will get me one of those baby heart monitors and listen every day.

Thurl --looks like maybe O took place yesterday u done any opk and got some good :sex: in. :winkwink:
 
NTAT, I'm sorry your IC came back negative :hugs:

Wooks, congrats! 155bmp is great, baby is nice & strong!

Monro, I got my fetal doppler at 11 weeks 3 days and have been listening to the baby ever since. Even now that I feel the movements, I still listen, it just puts my mind at ease.

AFM, I made 20 weeks today!!! :happydance: halfway to the finish line and ever so closer to 7 months, when baby is viable if born early. Baby has been really active today, not sure if it's a growth spurt or because I DTD last night, which was awkward because bump got in the way :haha:
Oh and now when OH kisses me goodbye in the morning he also kisses my bump, so sweet :cloud9: I wasn't really expecting that when he started doing it :)
 
Emme--thats what I was trying to think of fetal doppler. I know I would be the exact same way. DH always said he could tell I was pregnant when we dtd b/c it felt different I think he said hotter which makes sense b/c your body temp rises. Can your DH tell a difference?
 
Hi ladies

NTAT I'm so sorry my lovely. Massive :hugs: coming your way
Wookie so glad you heard a heart beat :cloud9:
Emme yay for 20 weeks :)
Hi everyone else

Beach, the doc gave me progesterone :) and after lots of to-ing and fro-ing have decided to take it.

I'm off on holiday to Italy at the weekend so prob won't be checking in til I'm back in a week and a half so Spk soon peeps x
 
Monro, he's told me I feel hotter than normal, my body temp has risen ever since I got my BFP. I guess everything gets hotter :haha: it's just awkward to have sex with the big bump in the way LOL.
 
Hi girls, well I am afraid I have bad news :cry: Went in for my appt this morning... no HB and measuring a week behind. My doc wanted me to come back for another U/S in the afternoon and it was the same so looks like MMC #5 for me. DH and I are crushed, we really thought this was going to be the one for us. :cry: I am scheduled for a D&C in the morning. Hopefully my tissue will provide some answers.

Does anyone have any articles about the high NK cells. I told my doctor I want to be tested for this but they really don't seem to know a lot about this in the US.
 
Beach...just stopping in to say I am so so sorry :hugs:

Love really is just too cruel at times. Lots of :hugs: and will be thinking of you

XxX
 
Oh no Beach :cry: I'm so, so sorry! Life is so unfair sometimes! My heart goes out to you and your husband. :hugs: :hugs: These are some articles that I found. Sending you tons of :hugs:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC534451/
https://www.hfea.gov.uk/fertility-treatment-options-reproductive-immunology.html
https://miscarriage.about.com/od/twoormoremiscarriages/i/NKcells.htm
https://www.miscarriageclinic.co.uk/natural-killer-cells/
 

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