A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Nicki123]

Hi Honey. Gosh I'm so sorry to hear that . I do have friends on here who had bleeding (one had 'gushes of blood') and everything was fine. But as Never says, you know your own body and me telling you positive stories will not stop you worrying. I hope you can get it checked out ASAP, we are here for you


Hi Never, lovely to hear from you as always

 

[honeyprayer]

Thx ladies

Been to my clinic for blood work and they'll do an ultrasound in a week to ensure its all cleared.

I got given a sterile container for any tissue. As much as I want it tested, it's heartbreaking to have to catch tissue

 

[wookie130]

Oh, honey...I have no words, other than I'm so very sorry you have to endure this yet again. to the moon and back for you. Please rest and take care of yourself.

 

[Bibliophile]

So sorry, Honey. Lots of hugs.

 

[BeachChica]

I got given a sterile container for any tissue. As much as I want it tested, it's heartbreaking to have to catch tissue

Honey - catching the tissue is tough, I have done it myself. But there is some comfort into getting some answers as to why something so terrible happened.

 

[mommylov]

Honey, Im so so so deeply sorry but I too have heard of women having bleeding and everything turing out to be fine with that pregnnacy. Please keep us posted on what the dr says and take it easy babe. We are here for you..

Monro, Im thinking you are enjoying your little fella now Hope all is well and cant wait to see pics!

Beach, cant wait to hear what the next beta is!!!

Neversaynever, How are you doing/feeling?

Nicki, Soop, NTAT :wave: How are you all doing?

:wave: to anyone I have missed and massive hugs to you all!

AFM~ nothing new to report here.... still no af, no sign of O and still blue

 

[mommylov]

Oh honey I just saw that you had things confirmed... I am SO SO SO sorry sweety

I just went through having to catch the POC with this last MC. Like the others have mentioned, I too was given a sterile container to catch the baby in. I cried and sobbed when I just thought about it. Truthfully, when it actually happened, I was more relieved as wierd as that sounds. I was still sad but not as much as I thought I would be at that moment. I knew that I was one step closer to finding out the issue and one step closer to my rainbow. I actually just got the call a few days ago that I didnt get any results from doing that so after going through all of that, I got nothing BUT I still feel like Im getting the best care now that I have gone through 3 losses.

I pray that peace finds you and we are here if you need anything at all.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Honey - I am so so so sorry. Life is so cruel sometimes. I hope this is over relatively quickly for you. I can understand your mixed feelings over collecting tissue but try to think of it as a way of finding out why this keeps happening. It may give you some answers

Mommy - I'm good thanks - how are you doing?

Beach - hope you got your betas done and are doing ok

Wookie, Nicki, Soop, Biblio, anyone else I forgot

AFM - very strange day for me. My last day in work. Emotional but I held it in check and didn't cry. I got lots of lovely gifts and even some off people I didn't know that well, I am truly touched. Glad to be out if the sweat box though (air con hasn't worked for past two weeks) and my feet are soooo swollen.
I am on hols now til 22nd August when my mat leave kicks in. Weird surreal feeling knowing I don't have to go back for a whole year

I am very much looking forward to a rest as not sleeping that well so a lie in tomorrow will be amazing!

 

[mommylov]

awww how exciting to be on leave now!! You guys get a whole year for maternity leave?!?!?! Here in the US we only get 12 weeks max and all of that isnt paid

 

[Bibliophile]

I think just about everyone has longer maternity leaves than we do, Mommy.

 

[Nicki123]

Yeah we are allowed to take off a whole year in the UK but how much you get paid depends on your company. Everyone gets at least statutory payment but my company tops that up to make it more bearable!!

New-well done for holding it together today!! So pleased you got lovely gifts. Now enjoy some YOU time while you can. X

Thinking of you Honey so sorry you a are going through this x

 

[mommylov]

Thats awesome! In the US, the government gives you NOTHING. What you get paid is strictly up to the company and they usually only pay you for 6 weeks and thats not even 100% pay. Then the government makes companies give you an additional 6 weeks with job security so youll have your job or somethign equal to what you were doing when you get back but you dont get paid anything for that 6 weeks. So most of the time, people will use thier vacation pay in addition to maternity leave to be able to stay home for a little longer and get paid. Sucks!

 

[Bibliophile]

And then you hope that you don't get sick or have to go on leave early.... I'm so grateful that I work for me!

 

[NewToAllThis]

We are really lucky in that department. I could not contemplate going back to work so soon especially with nursery costs over here, they are extortionate.

My company's package is not too bad but not amazing. I get 6 wks full pay, 20 wks half pay and then 13 wks statutory government paid maternity pay which is £136 per wk. Then the last 13 weeks are unpaid.

I'll be a lot worse off but still able to 'manage'. I'm taking the full year as its taken me so long on this journey that I'm not missing any of it. We have been saving for a while now so will have some money to fall back on if things get tight. No expensive foreign holidays for us for a while, but do you know what - I wouldn't swap this for the world, money or no money.

Just want all you ladies to join me on this journey - 4 years in the making!

 

[Bibliophile]

It's sad. I remember working at a daycare & this girl came in once with her 4 week old baby. She had to go back to work so she could eat, but daycares here won't take babies that young. I don't know what she ended up doing. But what an awful spot to be in.

 

[Sooperhans]

Ntat - really excited for you! Lovely send off and hope you are having a gorgeous lie in today! You've had such a long time to wait, I'm so excited it is happening for you, lovely lady xxx

Honey....argh so sorry to hear your sad news. Hope you are bearing up well with lots of rest. I'm so sorry about tissue collecting but hope you get answers. Mommy, I'm sorry yours weren't able to provide you with any...so hard xxx

 

[cruise]

Well ladies, bright red bleeding this morning

MC #3 for me. Heartbroken

Wow. That just isn't right. I'm so sorry.

To echo the others, please take care of yourself and rest.

 

[mommylov]

Good Morning/afternoon ladies! How is everyone doing??

Honeyprayer, how are you holding up babe?? xoxox

 

[Bibliophile]

Not bad here. Didn't sleep well at all and I can tell a migraine is trying to come on, so I'm deciding what to do to prevent that. Normally I sleep so much better when hubby's gone but this week has been horrible!

Are you feeling better today?

 

[mommylov]

Oh No!!! Im so sorry to hear you arent sleeping well and migraines...yuck!! I hope you are able to catch up on some ZZZ and feel better soon! Are you icing in hopes that the migraine doesnt fully come into effect?

Still a little blue. I dont know what the deal is and why I cant shake this funk. I just want to be back to "happy Amy" already!