A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Bibliophile]

Sticky blobs. I love it.

Yeah... I love how everything was extremely consistent until we actually started trying. Lovely.

 

[honeyprayer]

Biblio - when my opk is positive, it doesn't take 10mins. Normally the test line starts to get dark before the dye even hits the control line! Maybe you are 1-2 days away from your true positive? Opks are different for everyone though -- do your true positives normally take a few mins?

 

[honeyprayer]

LOL thx wookie Can't wait until bean passes blob stage. Like NTAT said, it's been very reassuring seeing it go from speck, to blob, to bigger blob (LOL!) week after week. I feel very lucky to have been getting weekly scans. My RE can only see me up until 10 weeks and then he 'graduates' me to an actual OB. I don't know what I'm going to do without him! I'm scared to actually stop getting scans but ill have to keep trusting that all is going well :/

 

[honeyprayer]

NTAT - so excited for you You are such an inspiration for me!

 

[Bibliophile]

No, I've never had one do this. They usually take a couple minutes to get dark, but I've never had one change color after the first 5 minutes. But I don't think my day before tests have been this dark, either. I'll just keep testing and see what happens. We did get a BD in this afternoon, but I think I'm ready for hubby to get a job with less travel! He's always gone at the wrong times. Lol.

 

[honeyprayer]

LOL don't you hate that?

My DH works long hours in his busy season, so when we were TTC he'd come home late and be 'too tired'. I was like 'oh no you're not!' Lol

 

[Nicki123]

Travelling hubby = total pain! I hope you figure that Opk out and manage to BD at the right time Biblio.

Lovely blobs Honey

So close New!!

AFM, bleeding started yesterday, so after everything this cycle is only 8 days later than if I hadn't got pg at all. In some ways it feels like it went on for longer than that. But I'm glad it happened relatively quickly, here's to a lucky August.

 

[NewToAllThis]

NTAT - so excited for you You are such an inspiration for me!

If you're feeling up to it, page 1 of my pregnancy journal has all my scan pics from the very first one at 5+5. You can see the similarities in your scans.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Travelling hubby = total pain! I hope you figure that Opk out and manage to BD at the right time Biblio.

Lovely blobs Honey

So close New!!

AFM, bleeding started yesterday, so after everything this cycle is only 8 days later than if I hadn't got pg at all. In some ways it feels like it went on for longer than that. But I'm glad it happened relatively quickly, here's to a lucky August.

The biggest of hugs coming your way. It's hard to know it's definitely now over, but at least your body is doing the right thing and you'll be all back to normal very soon.

You've still got a lot to be positive about. You have a plan in place and it WILL work. You WILL have your rainbow. I never believed it would happen for me so please try and believe that your time will come... soon!

 

[honeyprayer]

Thank you!

What a huge difference from 8+4 to 10 weeks! Beautiful scans. Thank you again for sharing

 

[Bibliophile]

Lol Honey. Unfortunately, that won't work from a few hundred miles away. I think the line is still a bit lighter than the control, so unless it drops back to nothing today, I'm still calling it negative.

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! How is everyone doing??

Honey so glad that your pregnancy is going great so far!

Brittany... sending you LOADS of dust hun!!!! Catch that eggy!!!!

NTAT, Wookie, Nicki... everyone... :wave:

 

[Bibliophile]

Today's is almost ridiculously darker than the control. Just need to get rid of the grogginess so I can do something about it.

 

[honeyprayer]

Time for !

Get at it girl!! Lol

 

[wookie130]

Biblio!!!!!!!!! Get to it!!!!!!!!!!

Ride the wild bologna pony!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeehaw!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Bibliophile]

He's too tired. I'm frustrated.

 

[Nicki123]

^^ Biblio it sucks when that happens. I have shed tears in the past over a 'can't be arsed' DH when you know the time is right. And then if you persevere it's hard to get it the mood knowing he was dragging his feet. Hopefully you'll fit in a morning

Hi Mommy - here's to being August cycle buddies

 

[NewToAllThis]

He's too tired. I'm frustrated.

How many times have I heard that from my DH on my TTC journey.

So bloody frustrating isn't it. And as Nicki said, I've shed many a tear over it. I think they feel the pressure and they can't/won't perform.
You've still got a day of two of the eggy so try and play mind games like I did and don't mention it for the rest of the day and see what happens.

Another something for you. This baby was conceived with a 'one time only' (for the entire month) and my DH has a low sperm count - so you're definitely not out of the game yet.

Good luck chick

 

[wookie130]

Oh, that SUCKS, Biblio. My DH turns 40, and I know that his sex drive isn't what it once was. There were times during TTC that I practically had to beg him, and times when he finally agreed to it, and couldn't perform, etc. I too would cry, and feel so frustrated, which does not help the sex thing at all.

Have you taken another OPK? If so, is it still a + ? I'm just wondering if he could try again after having some rest...

 

[Bibliophile]

Thanks. I'm glad I'm not the only one. Lol. There were definitely some tears last night. And then he wanted to know what was wrong. Dumbass.
I'll take another OPK this afternoon. And I'll probably try to get him again this morning. Not that there's much morning left. We were up late (for all he was sooo tired).