What a bitch, seriously you must complain about her, either the practice manager or the GMC (general medical council ). How dare she suggest you killed a healthy baby, I would go MAD if I was you, how dare she verbally abuse a vulnerable woman going through a horrible time. You must complain before that dried up old prune upsets others!
You are not fat, pretty foxy actually + I must admit to being a tad jealous of your BMI Mines 32!!)
As for trying again that's entirely up to you and the specialist she clearly has no knowledge so I would bypass her-after the complaint.
I'm a nurse and some of the Dr's I work with are arrogant f***ing B*****ds!! You don't need to change practice if it's too much at the mo, just have it written on your notes that you'll only see the nice Dr.
I would defo speak to the practice manager and inform them you are going to speak to the GMC and they will s**t themselves!!
I'm so angry, poor you, you really deserve better from a bloody Dr
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