Absolutely gutted!

[gemstone]

It has nothing to do with this pregnancy. But I have found of today my dd3. Could have something seriously wrong with her 😢. I'm at a lost. It could be linked to me coming into contact with chicken pox and them not giving me the jab! They said oh you have had chicken pox and shingles you will be covered, we will send some blood just in case. And I wasn't!! And showed I had chicken pox at that time yet no spots!! Took 2 weeks for those bloods to come back and at that point was to late to give the jab 😢. Then they retested me and I was immune. Still showed I had just come into contact with it while pregnant with dd3. Today at her 8month check they told me they was concerned she may have some kind of damage. They want her to see a eye specialist, hearing, and brain, paediatrician too. Heart broken. Not that it will change my love for her. I would so happily carry her under my arm forever if need be. I would be more sad for her future. So emotional right now. Please ladies don't just trust the fact that you have had chicken pox before. It doesn't mean your immune and push for those bloods & jab in 72hrs!

 

[lilmisslilly]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear this gemstone. I know it's tough but try and stay positive as you never know she might just surprise you xx

 

[gemstone]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear this gemstone. I know it's tough but try and stay positive as you never know she might just surprise you xx

I'm just hoping, she is just a little behind. I won't know yet. The health visitor didn't seem so sure. To me she is just so perfect in every way. Seems so hard to think there could be something wrong. Head will roll if they put my baby at risk for the sake of the price of a jab!! I'll lose it!! xx

 

[LilianA]

Oh hun im so sorry your going thru this!!! I know first hand how hard it is to hear something is seriously wrong with your child!!! Please keep positive they might be totally wrong. And if not then there are tons of therapies and resources out there to help her get to were she needs to be

 

[gemstone]

Oh hun im so sorry your going thru this!!! I know first hand how hard it is to hear something is seriously wrong with your child!!! Please keep positive they might be totally wrong. And if not then there are tons of therapies and resources out there to help her get to were she needs to be

Thank you for you kind words. I know there is lots out there to help. I'm just angry & upset right now. To me she will always be my gorgeous little girl and that will never change. For one minute. But if this could have been avoided.. Well I can't say what I'm really think but it's something alone the lines of some people will lose there jobs 😡😢😢. Not that will make the situation better. But I found out that's what caused it. I will be mental

 

[lilmisslilly]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear this gemstone. I know it's tough but try and stay positive as you never know she might just surprise you xx

I'm just hoping, she is just a little behind. I won't know yet. The health visitor didn't seem so sure. To me she is just so perfect in every way. Seems so hard to think there could be something wrong. Head will roll if they put my baby at risk for the sake of the price of a jab!! I'll lose it!! xx

My dad always says to me that there is no better Dr than that of a mother. Remember, no matter what the health visitor or anyone else says nobody knows your baby better than you! Trust your gut and your instinct, you know your daughter inside and out. It is good that she is having all of these tests and if nothing is wrong that is fantastic but if there is, like the pp said there are so many things that can be done to help her and she has the most amazing mummy and will no doubt have a wonderful life. It is so upsetting for you right now, nobody wants to hear there may be something wrong with their child esp when it could have been avoided in the first place. I'm not surprised you are so angry and when everything is done you should write an official complaint and make sure they take notice of what they have put you through but In the meantime hold your head high and be proud of yourself and your beautiful little girl and as I said before please stay positive because she might just surprise you xx

 

[gemstone]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear this gemstone. I know it's tough but try and stay positive as you never know she might just surprise you xx

I'm just hoping, she is just a little behind. I won't know yet. The health visitor didn't seem so sure. To me she is just so perfect in every way. Seems so hard to think there could be something wrong. Head will roll if they put my baby at risk for the sake of the price of a jab!! I'll lose it!! xx

My dad always says to me that there is no better Dr than that of a mother. Remember, no matter what the health visitor or anyone else says nobody knows your baby better than you! Trust your gut and your instinct, you know your daughter inside and out. It is good that she is having all of these tests and if nothing is wrong that is fantastic but if there is, like the pp said there are so many things that can be done to help her and she has the most amazing mummy and will no doubt have a wonderful life. It is so upsetting for you right now, nobody wants to hear there may be something wrong with their child esp when it could have been avoided in the first place. I'm not surprised you are so angry and when everything is done you should write an official complaint and make sure they take notice of what they have put you through but In the meantime hold your head high and be proud of yourself and your beautiful little girl and as I said before please stay positive because she might just surprise you xx

That's just it, I have been saying for months that something isn't right. They all look at me like I was nuts. She has had a tough start. She had a hernia, bad reflux, cows milk protein allergy, breathing problems and the hips were out of line. She hasn't been able to track you with her eyes, she isn't trying to grab things. Was a very late smiler & laughing. She is making no attempt to sit. Has poor body tone. Still can't properly support her head. Her head is also on the larger scale. But finally today they spotted these things without me opening my mouth. Just hoping given her rough start bless her. Being in a harness for so long & not being able to go on the floor as her vomiting was so bad she couldn't lay flat or she would drown. Just 🙏🏻🙏🏻 that's all it is. They have said it could take months to find out what's properly wrong. When if they listened to me in the first place she could of already been check and if need be then got the help she needed. What will be will be. And my little angel is just so great in every way. It will just make me hold her just that little bit tighter xz

 

[Blu10]

Im sorry this is happening gemstone, no idea what to day but sending you hugs hun xx

 

[gemstone]

Im sorry this is happening gemstone, no idea what to day but sending you hugs hun xx

Thanks blu. Feeling like I have been hit by a bus 😞. How is everything? xx

 

[IsabellaJayne]

I'm so sorry him. This is awful. She's so lucky to have such a great Mum like you supporting her through every tough struggle. I hope you get more info soon and I hope the Drs face some action against this x

 

[Blu10]

When will you know more? Im ok thanks still having bleeding its very annoying x

 

[Twag]

I am so sorry to hear this Gemstone I don't know what to say other than she sounds like she is a right little fighter to me

I would be livid also

 

[gemstone]

I'm so sorry him. This is awful. She's so lucky to have such a great Mum like you supporting her through every tough struggle. I hope you get more info soon and I hope the Drs face some action against this x

They have moved her more advanced testing to Monday!! Instead of in 4 weeks time. I'm so freaking scared 😩. Makes me worry even more than now they have moved it. That there could be something gravely wrong. Thanks Hun. I'm going to do all I can for her. It's just so frightening that they don't just give the jab. They have to send bloods off and then give the jab. But my hospital doesn't test the blood it has to be sent off which takes 2 weeks to come back. So how was I ever going to have that jab in time? Something has to change in nice guildance about this x

 

[gemstone]

I am so sorry to hear this Gemstone I don't know what to say other than she sounds like she is a right little fighter to me

I would be livid also

I am so livid! I think they know they have cooked up. That why now they are rushing around to find out. Got a call this morning they wanna test her Monday and not in 4 weeks. Heads will roll! I want answers. She is so amazing bless her. Just her strength alone gives me strength to fight for her and what's right x

 

[gemstone]

When will you know more? Im ok thanks still having bleeding its very annoying x

Still bleeding 😞. It's such a worrying thing. But baby is doing well. So that's great. Must be annoying but little one is getting what they need. I have stopped bleeding now. I know it will be back. They are testing her on Monday now instead of in 4 weeks time. Which has me worried that they are more concerned than they first let on 😩x

 

[Blu10]

I suppose at least if they identify issues on Monday though then you can access the right support and hopefully thats better than having to wait and worry for 4 weeks. I totally understand the anxiety though, id be scared too. Your little girl is so lucky to have you as her mummy hun 😙 xx

 

[gemstone]

I suppose at least if they identify issues on Monday though then you can access the right support and hopefully thats better than having to wait and worry for 4 weeks. I totally understand the anxiety though, id be scared too. Your little girl is so lucky to have you as her mummy hun 😙 xx

Thank you. Yeah that's what my hubby's says. Hope I have some better news xx

 

[TTC 84]

So sorry to hear your going through this Hun . That's great they've moved her testing forward as stressful as it is at least you will know sooner . Fingers crossed for your gorgeous baby girl. Xx

 

[gemstone]

So sorry to hear your going through this Hun . That's great they've moved her testing forward as stressful as it is at least you will know sooner . Fingers crossed for your gorgeous baby girl. Xx

Thank Hun. There is a good & bad too it. Good they are acting fast. Bad makes me worry they suspect something worse 😢😢. Feel like have been hit by a train. So lost xx

 

[bitethebullet]

So sorry you are having this worry. I'm not immune to chicken pox (never had it as a kid and requested to be tested) and I was told I wouldn't get a jab unless I had a known exposure. I wonder why they don't like giving the jab unless as a last resort?