naturelady
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Hi folks-
My DH & I are just scratching the surface of adoption... so, I have some questions. We are in the US, since I know that things vary from country to country.
#1 How did you find the specific agency that you chose to work with? We are not very religious, so I am somewhat wary of religious groups, because I assume that they may not like that we don't regularly attend church, etc. But we can't afford to do private.
#2 If we are not the Cleavers, do we stand a chance? We are smart & involved in our community, a loving couple, and feel like we would be great parents, but we both went through a hippie phase in college.... will they look that far into our backgrounds? Will they judge us based on the number of photos that exist of us at Phish concerts?
#3 I know that there is no one "set price" for adoptions, but does anyone know a ballpark? I am finding very conflicting info online!
#4 How long does the process take? How long have any of you had to be "on call" (I know that sometimes, if you want an infant, you're waiting a long time- and then, the birth mother can change her mind & you're bumped again- is this as common as it seems?)
THANK YOU SO MUCH for any advice you can give. Sorry I rambled- I just feel like I dove into a pool without knowing how to swim
My DH & I are just scratching the surface of adoption... so, I have some questions. We are in the US, since I know that things vary from country to country.
#1 How did you find the specific agency that you chose to work with? We are not very religious, so I am somewhat wary of religious groups, because I assume that they may not like that we don't regularly attend church, etc. But we can't afford to do private.
#2 If we are not the Cleavers, do we stand a chance? We are smart & involved in our community, a loving couple, and feel like we would be great parents, but we both went through a hippie phase in college.... will they look that far into our backgrounds? Will they judge us based on the number of photos that exist of us at Phish concerts?
#3 I know that there is no one "set price" for adoptions, but does anyone know a ballpark? I am finding very conflicting info online!
#4 How long does the process take? How long have any of you had to be "on call" (I know that sometimes, if you want an infant, you're waiting a long time- and then, the birth mother can change her mind & you're bumped again- is this as common as it seems?)
THANK YOU SO MUCH for any advice you can give. Sorry I rambled- I just feel like I dove into a pool without knowing how to swim