Advice And Help Please :( :(

[natthecat]

Hi Girls

Right, where to start.

I believe I am currently CD 26, last cycle I O'd on CD24, with symptons (egcm etc) prior to it.

I had a heavy on September 18th. O'd 11th October. I then had a VERY VERY VERY light on 23rd/24th/25th October, light and not even enough for tampax etc.

So I counted that as my cycle. I am now on CD 26 with absolutely no sign of O. I have bveen POAS for the last 10 days just to make sure O didn't come early and all have been

My point is, my last was very very light(in comparision to usual v.v.v heavy flow), no sign of O, my boobs feel really heavy and achey and my cervix is high and firm? Temps are fairly high but with some fluctuation.

Please tell me what you think guys?!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/index.php?d=2008-11-17

 

[rachelle1975]

Hey Nat

Do you normally have regular cycles?x

 

[Stardancer]

Hi, the link is just bringing up my own chart because I'm signed in as me, you need your homepage link for us to look at your chart

 

[natthecat]

I dont know how

 

[natthecat]

My cycles have been ever 35 days the last few...

 

[natthecat]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/ticker/23468e/ttc.png

 

[natthecat]

working?

 

[Stardancer]

No Go to your chart page, and along the top there's a box linked to 'Home page Setup' click that and it gives you your homepage URL

 

[natthecat]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/23468e


what about now?

 

[natthecat]

Star if i pm my log in could you please have a look ?

 

[Stardancer]

Hmm, not working. I wonder if your page isn't set up right.

I can do that if you want me to yep

 

[Stardancer]

Sorry, I signed in and sorted it out so your home page works, then went to look at your chart and the phone rang, so I haven't spent the last half hour rifling through your stuff LOL!! OK, I'll have a proper look now

 

[natthecat]

ha ha ha!

 

[Stardancer]

Argh! Phone again.

Did you try taking out the positive OPK? Just to see how it works it out then?

 

[Stardancer]

Also... how accurate would you say it was.. is it your first month charting? Do you take the temps at the same time every day, and after a normal night's sleep?

 

[Stardancer]

If you didn't need a tampax or pad at all, then it was only spotting, and not AF... so you're right to have your chart all-in-one like it is. I wouldn't take any notice of your cervix tbh, because it can vary so much that alone it doesn't tell you anything.

I don't see a 'proper' temp shift - which is why FF has dotted your coverline, it's really just going off your positive OPK and rise, even though alot of the pre-o (supposed) temps are over the coverline too. Did you start taking metformin midway? That may be messing with your cycles if you just started it... do you have PCOS?

ETA: Have you took any HPT's?

 

[Stardancer]

I just signed in again and noticed your temps are only entered to 1 point... 35.9 36.3 kinda thing, that won't be helping FF because there's so much room for inaccuracy.

My verdict is, I would take a pregnancy test. But that's not to say you are pg, just... I think you should.

ETA: LOL OK, I changed the positive OPK for a second, and it takes the coverline away altogether. Was it a definite positive?? Could the line have been not quite as dark as the control?

Sorry for the 101 questions, just trying to make sense of it for you

 

[natthecat]

No, please ask away, anyone that can help is fab!

The temps I take religiously at 7am every morning, it's on my bedside table so literally move my arm and nothing else before taking it!

Last positive OPK I believe was positive, but not had one since so can't be sure and have nothing to measure it against IYKWIM?

Did a HPT this morn which as I expected was BFN.

Also, at approx 9DPO I lost what I can only describe as a huge chunk of EWCM, and I mean big, which has been described to me as a plug?

'm just soooooo lost!

I need to record another 3 ish weeks of BBT and EC etc as I go to the FS, hopefully this will show her i am not "popping" an egg and thats when she said she would introduce clomid.

My head is done in with it!

 

[natthecat]

oh and have been consistantly on metfomin for months. just only recently looked at that tab., i will gradually work my back and add it in, for full true picture

 

[Stardancer]

Well... if I were guessing I'd say you didn't ovulate then. You may still ovulate, I would be checking your CM everyday and using OPK's as often as you can so you don't miss it. Your coverline is based purely on the OPK, so if it was wrong - and as you say, being a one-off you really don't know... I'd assume you might still ovulate.

Good Luck hun xxxx