advice and support needed - TTC is turning into a nightmare for me

[bballbaby]

Hello -

Please bear with me - I could really use some positive encouragement as I feel
like my world is crumbling and I really haven't been sharing this with anyone outside of my DH.....

I am 30 and my DH is 28. I am devastated - my DH has had 3 SA and his last one was only 2.3 million (i'm not sure if that was post wash or not)...regardless I realize that this is super low. His mobility also dropped to 28% with only 3% on his morphology. He has a varicocele...the urologist just left a message about wanting to make an appointment for surgery or drugs to correct this. He did have previous SA that were 24 million with 70% moving - however his morphology has always been low 3-5%.

In the meantime I have been getting checkout out - my tubes are open and the only thing they can find wrong with me is slightly elevated prolactin levels.

We have an appointment with the RE soon and I am trying to prepare myself emotionally with the news.
Do you think they will even recommend IUI?
I have been researching IVF - is that the route that we may have to take in order to become parents?

Again - thank you for your time and sharing your experiences.
I could really just use some hope right now. I have always wanted to become a mom...

 

[Whitbit22]

Over in long time trying to conceive forum there are lots of ladies going through male factor issues. You should check it out

https://www.babyandbump.com/problems-trying-conceive/253805-can-anyone-shed-some-light-iui-odds.html

 

[bballbaby]

thank you for the quick response have a good day!

 

[Whitbit22]

You too hun.. sorry you have to go through this, no one should have to. Hope you find some answers.

 

[Mrs-C]

Didn't want to r&r. I can't help, we have two/three more months of trying before our doc will do tests so I don't really understand anything of the sperm tests.

Just wanted to wish you luck and I hope you get your

 

[bballbaby]

thanks