Advice please ladies

[keeppositive]

Hi Ladies, I'm ntnp but if I was pregnant I would be over the moon because i'm worried about having children as I only have one ovary. But anyway, I am due my period today but no sign, I know, no big deal. Usually I am extremely crampy two/three days before it is due but I have not been. The past week and a half or so I have so unbelieveably emotional, more than I have ever been, it was just so strange for me. About a week ago I start having bad cramp like pains in my tummy and my lower back was extremely sore. I have also noticed the past week a lot more clear discharge, again something which I have not noticed before and I have such a HUGE appetite past two weeks or so, I mean HUGE. I have also noticed I am needing to pee more frequently. I have had bfn's and it always makes me so sad because myself and my partner would love if I was pregnant. Just want to see what you's think.

Thanks Ladies x

 

[ArmyJsGirl]

I would say talk to your dr and tell him/her about what has been happening and how you've been feeling and if anything give a few days and test again. Maybe it was too early to test before. I was probably no help and if not I'm sorry.

 

[keeppositive]

No you were a great help thank you so much. I haven't tested this time around, im 2/3 days late so i'm just waiting. I'm afraid to test in fear of it being a bfn . Thanks for your advice x

 

[ArmyJsGirl]

I definitely know that feeling of not wanting to test this time around out of fear for a bfn. I too should probably test but I'm way too scared because I know I'll get my hopes up and could have a possible bfn for a result. Just trying to keep my head up and stay as positive as I can.

 

[keeppositive]

Thats all we can do. I completely understand how you feel. It's so disheartening when you hope for a bfp and it's not there. Sometimes get the feeling it just not going to happen. But keep smiling and trying

 

[allforthegirl]

I can understand your anxiety over this. But everything that I have read the first day of af is supposed to be the best time to test. I couldn't stand waiting myself. I am so impatient right now and I still have 7 days to wait! Good luck and sending Stick vibes to the both of you!!

 

[keeppositive]

Hi . I just don't know now, period still not here, very bad back pain and pains in tummy and feeling completely exhausted. neg test today, yet no period hmph. Good luck with your test baby dust to you's x

 

[ArmyJsGirl]

I'm out this month. AF showed yesterday oh well guess there's always next time.

 

[allforthegirl]

I'm out this month. AF showed yesterday oh well guess there's always next time.

Sorry to hear that!! Sending some stick vibes to your next cycle!!

 

[keeppositive]

Aw no so crap when that happens, i understand how you feel, it's very upsetting . Hopefully next time you will get that much wanted bfp. Mine still hasn't come but got another bfn this morning sigh

 

[keeppositive]

think i got my period, woke up in very bad pain and when i wiped there was blood,bright in colour and not heavy. been having light bleeeding all day, i usually have a very heavy flow. But i went to the bathroom again and when i wiped there was something on the tissue, i usually get little clots but it wasn't like a clot, very small, size of half your thumbnail id say and it pink??this normal?not like a clot at all

 

[allforthegirl]

think i got my period, woke up in very bad pain and when i wiped there was blood,bright in colour and not heavy. been having light bleeeding all day, i usually have a very heavy flow. But i went to the bathroom again and when i wiped there was something on the tissue, i usually get little clots but it wasn't like a clot, very small, size of half your thumbnail id say and it pink??this normal?not like a clot at all

I am not a Doc but it could have been the embryo. IF you saved it you could take it in to a Doc and find out. If it was it obviously not a healthy one, so best to try for again!! I am very sorry.... All the best to you.

I had something similar during my first pregnancy. About 12 weeks I past a large clot, between the size of a golf or tennis ball. I didn't have much pain or bleeding so they just said to relax, and to try again next month. 4 weeks later I was still pregnant..... they said I may have passed a twin. There is always hope!!

 

[LadyMorgan]

When I was pregnant with what turned out to be twins, I had a negative pregnancy test several days after my period was due. It wasn't until almost a week after my period was due that the test turned positive.

 

[allforthegirl]

When I was pregnant with what turned out to be twins, I had a negative pregnancy test several days after my period was due. It wasn't until almost a week after my period was due that the test turned positive.

I remember that happening to me once too... I just don't remember which one it was LOL. Good luck ladies!!

 

[keeppositive]

It was almost tissue like? last night i was in agony, couldn't sleep i was in so much pain and bled a lot don't think you could be pregnant and bleed that much? girls you's are great thank you all so much for your help. I wish the very best to you all

 

[allforthegirl]

It was almost tissue like? last night i was in agony, couldn't sleep i was in so much pain and bled a lot don't think you could be pregnant and bleed that much? girls you's are great thank you all so much for your help. I wish the very best to you all

To be honest I was so scared that I didn't go into it to see if there was anything under the purple clot. The nurse said you don't normally pass anything during the pregnancy unless it was a unviable pregnancy. And the only reason I didn't continue to bleed like you was because I was still pregnant. I am sorry for your loss

 

[keeppositive]

do you's think it could have been a miscarriage? there was nothing distinctive to see in it, just pink tissue kinda thing and bled very heavy, still am the agony has gone tho

 

[allforthegirl]

do you's think it could have been a miscarriage? there was nothing distinctive to see in it, just pink tissue kinda thing and bled very heavy, still am the agony has gone tho

It could have been yes. Something must have gone wrong for it to do that. I am glad that you are feeling a bit better.

We can do this new cycle together!!

 

[keeppositive]

hope it wasn't. Yes we sure can come on babies