LoolaBear
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i had a planned c-section with my twins back in 2009 due to them both being in completely the wrong position.
last year when i fell pregnant my midwife said i could have a home birth if i wanted, nothing else was mentioned to me.
sadly i lost my little angel at 17 weeks.
this time though, my midwife hasnt said anything to me yet but whilst i was at the hospital the midwife who saw me there and the consultant said to me because ive had a c-section if i want to attempt a VBAC i will HAVE to be bed bound due to having the be hooked up to a fetal monitor, i will HAVE to have syntocin drip to speed things up so that a long labour wont cause stress on my scar, and that i would more than likely HAVE to have an epidural.
now the thing is what i dont understand is what is so different to my last pergnancy when i was told i could have a home birth if i wanted?
i dont mind so much having to go into hospital, i would probably have planned this anyway as im a panicker and being in the hospital would calm me down, but i would like to be able to keep up on my feet and move around as much as possible instead of being bed bound. i dont want to be put on a drip unless i dont progress naturally and i want to try and cope with jsut gas and air.
do i really have to do everything that i have been told i HAVE to do? i mean if they are going to force it all and not allow me to have any say in how i labour i may as well choose another section which i dont really want to choose.
the only reason they have given me to having to do it all is just that i have had a previous section, and it was a planned one as well so its not like it was based on medical grounds (i.e an emergancy)
please ladies help me as i want to be able to have a say in my labour but it feels like that are forcing something completely unnatural on me that i dont want to do. xx
last year when i fell pregnant my midwife said i could have a home birth if i wanted, nothing else was mentioned to me.
sadly i lost my little angel at 17 weeks.
this time though, my midwife hasnt said anything to me yet but whilst i was at the hospital the midwife who saw me there and the consultant said to me because ive had a c-section if i want to attempt a VBAC i will HAVE to be bed bound due to having the be hooked up to a fetal monitor, i will HAVE to have syntocin drip to speed things up so that a long labour wont cause stress on my scar, and that i would more than likely HAVE to have an epidural.
now the thing is what i dont understand is what is so different to my last pergnancy when i was told i could have a home birth if i wanted?
i dont mind so much having to go into hospital, i would probably have planned this anyway as im a panicker and being in the hospital would calm me down, but i would like to be able to keep up on my feet and move around as much as possible instead of being bed bound. i dont want to be put on a drip unless i dont progress naturally and i want to try and cope with jsut gas and air.
do i really have to do everything that i have been told i HAVE to do? i mean if they are going to force it all and not allow me to have any say in how i labour i may as well choose another section which i dont really want to choose.
the only reason they have given me to having to do it all is just that i have had a previous section, and it was a planned one as well so its not like it was based on medical grounds (i.e an emergancy)
please ladies help me as i want to be able to have a say in my labour but it feels like that are forcing something completely unnatural on me that i dont want to do. xx