cinnabonjovi
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So, I found out that I was pregnant two days before Christmas and my so & I are thrilled about it. I was beginning to think that I wouldn't be able to get pregnant without help. So we pretty much told his family the day after we found out...
My problem is my parents..
I know, I'm 24 and shouldn't be afraid of my parents. I don't live with them, and I haven't for a long time...
but... my mom is super religious and my dad is racist. (As in "waved a 9 mil around the one time he met my boyfriend" and "didn't speak more than three words to me on christmas" and "vote for trump and his wall" racist)
And my mom is super religious as in "thinks I'm a 24 year old virgin despite me having lived with a man and dated someone 12 years my senior" and "judged my cousin very harshly for having a baby out of wedlock" and "always guilt trips me for not staying home and going to church and having views different from hers" and "catholics are bad" -religious.
So here I am, expecting a baby with my catholic, hispanic boyfriend, unmarried and REALLY not wanting to tell my parents ever, but I know I can't avoid it. So has anyone else been in a similar situation or does anyone have any advice of when or how I should tell them?
My problem is my parents..
I know, I'm 24 and shouldn't be afraid of my parents. I don't live with them, and I haven't for a long time...
but... my mom is super religious and my dad is racist. (As in "waved a 9 mil around the one time he met my boyfriend" and "didn't speak more than three words to me on christmas" and "vote for trump and his wall" racist)
And my mom is super religious as in "thinks I'm a 24 year old virgin despite me having lived with a man and dated someone 12 years my senior" and "judged my cousin very harshly for having a baby out of wedlock" and "always guilt trips me for not staying home and going to church and having views different from hers" and "catholics are bad" -religious.
So here I am, expecting a baby with my catholic, hispanic boyfriend, unmarried and REALLY not wanting to tell my parents ever, but I know I can't avoid it. So has anyone else been in a similar situation or does anyone have any advice of when or how I should tell them?