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elsmogro

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So im looking for some advice and thought this the best place to get honest thoughts and opinions.
Right now im coming up 27 weeks pregnant, split from the FOB at about 17 weeks due to his lack of interest and compassion for me and my daughter. Honestly if he was running for most selfish twat of the century he would be in a good chance of winning lol.

Anyways.... A while before me n said a-hole got back together i was talking to a guy who was really sweet and things but of course that ended when i got back with ny ex and fell pegnant etc etc

Well ive just started talking to this guy again and we have a good laugh and he is mega sweet. He knows im pregnant and actually askes about my daughter and how im feeling. He also said he really likes me and that he thought i was beautiful etc. Basically lovely

So were gonna hang out on saturday, just as friends but we kinda like each other. The thing is, is it right to start dating someone when im 27 weeks pregnant with another guys baby even if the other guy wants nothing to do with me or the baby?

Oviously he would be in for the slowest moving relationship known to man with me not interested or confortable with having sex right now and of course the period after ive had my baby as ill be sore, tired and busy with my new girl.

The other thing is he is 19 and im 26 >_< bit of an age difference haha.

I keep feeling guilty bout even thinking about a relationship when my only thoughts should be on my baby >_< im just so confused and sont know what i should be thinking or doing etc. Ive never had any attention like his before and its such a shock to comIng at a time when i least expected it.

So what are your thoughts? Any advice will help xxx
 
Hi there!

Didn't want to read and run, but I don't know if I can advise you on this situation. I would say take it slow, and trust your instincts??

Sorry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 

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