Advice plz in regards telling my mum

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  1. Jkelmum

    Jkelmum Well-Known Member

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    Well yes I am 27 and married with 3 children so telling my my mum shouldnt be hard:rofl: But i was hospitalised for 8 wks plus in and out of hospital with my youngest child and she made me promise never again ...which at the time was easy to say as I was so ill ...But i spoke to doctor b4 conceiving and they seem to think I am a lot healthier then last time i concieved so all should be good ....I dont even know how to start the topic or anything ...I dont see much of her at the moment so I dont know wether to invite her for lunch and tell her face to face or just ring I know its prob my hormones makin me so stressy over this any advice would be great xxx​
     
  2. lesleyann

    lesleyann Mummy

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    since you have 3 children already id just say to her "so what do you think pink or blue for the nusery(sp?)" and then see what she says lol
     
  3. Zoe~Louise

    Zoe~Louise 1st Trimester

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    i told my mum via text lol!!!
     
  4. celine

    celine Well-Known Member

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    Id go with the text too hehe
     
  5. starryeye31

    starryeye31 2nd tri ~Its A Boy ~

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    I was scared to tell my mom also and im 32 ,lol I just told my dh I cant keep hiding this big belly forever and I would tell her by thanksgiving , well last week he called her and told her without me knowing , he told her she better be nice to me about it , and she has been so its not as bad as I thought , she actually seems kinda happy . I also have a bad history of preterm labor and I think it freaks her out . so my advice is have your dh tell her , lol good luck :hug:
     
  6. Janisdkh

    Janisdkh Well-Known Member

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    I was scared my parents would have freaked. I am 28 and have three little girls . 7, 4 and almost 2. When I told them they actually looked like they were happy and going to cry. My mom told a bunch of people. I really honestly thought they wouldn't be happy
     
  7. ajarvis

    ajarvis Well-Known Member

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    I told my mom through facebook lol
     
  8. babyfab

    babyfab 2nd trimester

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    i think this a good idea... call her and say it she will worry knowing your history but i am sure she'll be happy.... they always surprise us when we least expect!!!

    Good Luck!!!
     

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