I'm 20 with a 15 month old daughter and I've been a stay at home mom this whole time. Now my bf wants me to get a job but there are some key points I have to deal with which make it difficult to get a job. I do really want to work to bring in extra money we don't really need it but its always nice. Number one problem we don't have someone to watch my daughter and don't want to pay for babysitter or daycare. Two I have no car my bfs gone from 4 or 5 am till 5 or 6 pm so I can't use his car. I can't even drive it its stick shift I've tried so many times but I always stall it and forget what gears to put it in. Three if I were to get a job to fit his schedule he wouldn't even said he wouldn't come pick me up because he goes to bed at 7 or 8. Ive brought up these points to him and he has no answer for any of them.Now when I turn 21 Sep 5th I have an almost guaranteed job as a cocktail waitresses at a casino but he told me he doesn't want me doing that. So I don't know what the heck he wants me to do! Any tips what I should do anything would help.