SAJ
cautiously pregnant
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One of the discussion points after finding out you're pregnant was likely "when do we tell people?". Well, we chose to tell my son when I was around 4-5 weeks along, and we told him we were going to wait to tell family (which we did, but only immediate family knew at the time of miscarriage). What we didn't specify is that that means he cannot tell his friends either. Well, he told them, all of them. Now, 25 days after my miscarriage, I ran into one of his friend's mom and she said "congrats are in order"....AWKWARD! I'm totally fine to talk about it but I froze and pretended I didn't hear her. How rude am I!?!
For those of you who told people, are you finding it awkward to have to go back to people and say you had a mc? Will this change what you do next time you get a BFP?
Next time we get a BFP, we're definitely clarifying the "terms and conditions" of who we tell and when we tell them. Sigh!!!!
For those of you who told people, are you finding it awkward to have to go back to people and say you had a mc? Will this change what you do next time you get a BFP?
Next time we get a BFP, we're definitely clarifying the "terms and conditions" of who we tell and when we tell them. Sigh!!!!