Just thought I'd update on my situation.. As you know I've not seen my ex since June. I did hear from him over Christmas time in a few emails but nothing since then. I sent him an email in the middle of February asking, for what was really the last time, if he wanted to know when the baby was born. I did say in the email that if he didn't reply I would assume he didn't want to know. I didn't hear anything back from him. Although I really didn't want to I did send an email when I got home after having my baby boy but the email came back as undelivered. So - he's moved, changed his phone number and now deactivated his email account. I guess that's it. I don't care that he broke up with me but I'm still between really upset and angry that he has walked away from his son. On a positive note though I guess it means I can really just move on from it because I know that I've done everything that I can do.