All of a sudden....

[timeforababy]

I was doing so well this month. It's halfway through my cycle and taking a break from temping, OPK etc.

Then one of the friends I went to school with gave birth to a baby boy and my cousin-in-law is pregnant.

So now I'm here thinking everyone is pregnant and I don't really want to go out tonight. A bunch of us from work are going out drinking and I was going to blow out as we're sort of having a break this month.

But I don't want to miss it, in case it is this month.

I hate feeling like this. I hate being bloody infertile when everyone just gets pregnant!!! (Ok, I know every woman is different but it feels like it's shoved in my face constantly at the moment and I could do without it)

 

[2have4kids]

Timeforababy, it's a terrible reminder of our situation with all these babies popping up. Do what you need to do to stay sane. Whatever your decision about going/not going tonight just feel happy that you are trying. Has your O happened this month yet? i don't temp anymore, just OPK to see the big O when it happens, it gets us both excited and we try and nothing happens. But it's the hope that keeps the spirit alive that something good will happen one day. Don't worry what everyone else is doing. Take care of yourself.

 

[Noline]

My hearth goes out to you. I know how you feel. Last week I got 2 bfp announcement from friends in less then 15 minutes. It makes it kinda hard to keep your head up. Then this friday we went out to a house warming party and I had 3 people ask me when we were planing on starting to have kids. All I wanted to do was scream and say it's not like we are not trying! But like 2have4kids said, it's the time of month when you know you are ovulating and you get all excited about making a baby and the tww when you think that there may be a lil bun in there that makes me keep going. At least we have our first fertility specialist apointment the 31st of october so I tell myself that I am this much closer to a baby or at least finding out why it's not working for us when it's working for everybody else. Sorry for the long post!

Lots of baby dust to you ladies!!