Almost 44 final ttc journey -- buddies needed : )

[Sunshine14]

Hey ladies how are you all doing?

Tag I read your journal hun xxx big hugs for what ur going thru xx I have to say I would probably do the same as you if I was in that situation hun but ultimately it is a very very personal decision and absolutely no one has the right to try to influence anyone else or judge. I have had NT done with all my 3 LO's and when I first read ur score I did think that you weren't likely to have chromosomal issues but I'm obviously not a doctor. My friend had a down syndrome child (without any NT done) she then had ivf and had a grade A embryo implant and she was certain it was another ds child but I kept reminding her of the really good nt score and her baby was a perfect little girl. I just wanted u to know that a good nt score is worth a lot so maybe there is hope xxx when do you get more results? Look after yourself hun xxx

Welcome to new ladies dmn and Jesse it's lovely to have some more ladies to hang out with xxx fingers crossed for you both xxx

Becks how u doing hun the doggie is sooo cute made me think of getting one!! How's life hun?

Mel ur an oldie but goodie hun and u did it at 41 & 43 so ur eggs must still be good hun xx how is the clomid and soy going for you?

Ttc how are you feeling now hun? Has ur cycle come back yet? What dpo are you?

After moving house we r settling in to our new lives it's really lovely where we are living. On ttc front I didn't even get a chance to do opks and think I only dtd once around O so I reckon this month is a wash out. Not even sure what dpi I am and my diet has been carp!! I'm like u Becks and think even if I did get pg that it would be another mc ..... maybe I do need a little doggie lol

Tag we are all here for you hun whatever u do or need xx

 

[Sunshine14]

Sorry forgot to say hi to u Mitch welcome to the group as well xx

 

[Oasis717]

Hey Carmel, just need to get the puppies mouthing under control he's hes getting too nippy! I forgot how hard work that is! But yes other than that he's adorable I'm still temping and we naturally bd more around o but other than that we aren't trying as such and same hunni I expect only mc now tbh so i I think I'm finally on the road to knowing its over its just been a long hard road! Xxx

 

[mitchnorm]

11 dpo (ish) and and IC line and bfp on FRER! !! Can't post pic as it says it's too large????

Anyway after two losses in last year...both at 9 weeks (one molar) I am nervous. I know at the age of 42 not to get too excited x x

 

[Sunshine14]

Oooh how exciting Mitch xxx have everything crossed for you xx can you check the line in 48 hours from last test and see if it's darker? hoping it's a sticky bean for you hun xxx

Becks good luck with the nipping hun I have no idea how to train a puppy xxx yes I think it would be very hard now to get a healthy bean at 44.5 .....

Hope everyone is ok xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Carmel he's sleeping longer at night at least lol so more than 4 hours sleep at last after 2 weeks! You forget how hard a puppy is! Xx
Congrats Mitch fantastic news xxx

 

[tag74]

Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey Mitch any update hun? Did you test again? Did the line get darker x

How are you holding up Tag? Hope you're ok x

Becks how's the furbaby doing? What cd are you hun?

Mel any news from u sweetie?

Hi to the new ladies x

I am waiting for the witch teeny bit of spotting so I reckon 24-48 hours. I am thinking of trying that ovaboost as it has good reviews but if coq10 doesn't work maybe I am beyond hope!

 

[Oasis717]

I'm CD 14 rise this morning so looks o on CD 13 the only day we didn't bd cause dh did a double shift lol good job we aren't actively trying! Puppy is really good thanks, hope you're ok xxx

 

[mitchnorm]

Hey Mitch any update hun? Did you test again? Did the line get darker x

How are you holding up Tag? Hope you're ok x

Becks how's the furbaby doing? What cd are you hun?

Mel any news from u sweetie?

Hi to the new ladies x

I am waiting for the witch teeny bit of spotting so I reckon 24-48 hours. I am thinking of trying that ovaboost as it has good reviews but if coq10 doesn't work maybe I am beyond hope!

I did another FRER the next day and definately darker.....also.bought some digitals on Monday and got 1-2 weeks..... I am a little concernEd as have achey lower back and abdominal aches....I can't remember if that's normal? Hav3 startedprogesterone pessaries which are pretty gross. Feel anxious

 

[Oasis717]

Its awful when all you want is to be excited but all you are is scared! I know exactly how you feel, all you can do is take each day at a time and tell yourself right now things are looking good, we are all here for you Mitch xxx

 

[mitchnorm]

Its awful when all you want is to be excited but all you are is scared! I know exactly how you feel, all you can do is take each day at a time and tell yourself right now things are looking good, we are all here for you Mitch xxx

Thank you oasis and thinking of you tag x x x x

Digi still says 1-2 weeks pregnant however feel nauseous today which is a good early sign for me. Tbh I am not sure exactly when I ovulated...I thought it was 2 weeks and 2-3 days ago...hence expecting a 2-3 but I may well have ovulated only 2 weeks and one day ago. Thought I'd missed the entire ovulation window when hubby was away so may was later than thought

Wishe I could stop over analysing

 

[Oasis717]

Ah if only! Its completely natural. And those week indicators aren't 100% all you need is slightly more diluted wee for a different result so try not to worry, easier said than done I know! Its difficult when you don't know for sure when you o, even with temping its not set in stone, my temps aren't 100% cause was getting up with the puppy so much, little easier now, but ff will say CD 13 the only day we didn't bd lol. Ah well. I try not to think about it too much as I have a tendency to obsess! Its hard not to analyse every little thing and worry but I always tell myself it won't affect the outcome of anything so try to just go with the flow xxx

 

[lunamoona]

Morning ladies, I've been away a few days with the virus from hell and raging temperatures, ugh. It even gave me an eye infection for the first time in my life.

Of course being a Clomid month I have had to BD, props to my DH for coping with me coughing my guts up throughout and streaming copious amounts of mucus from everywhere except where it's needed

Mitch, what fantastic news, I wish you all the best and hope you get through these nervous first few weeks as relaxed as possible

Tag, I'm still thinking of you and staying positive for you.

Sunshine, great to have you back online sorry the witch got you but at least a regular visit from her means we can still hope.

Becks, sounds like your little pup is keeping you busy and less stressed about TTC. Who knows you could be one of those ladies who just relaxed and it happened, fingers crossed as always.

I don't know if any of the other ladies are still with us but I hope you are all doing well

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks hunni you never know! I know stroking this little fella is one of the best stress reliefs there is! Sorry you've been so ill, nightmare, hope you're on the mend xx

 

[mitchnorm]

Thanks oasis and luna x x x x

Been a rough 24 hours....went to bed early last night feeling very achey and fluey...pain in hips and legs. Hot and cold sweats all night....been trying to call consultant all day today...finally spoke to another role which advised to drop the progesterone to only one dose a day....I was on a pretty high dose!!! Anyway she's seeing me next Wednesday....they will be starting me on fragmin injections 5-6 weeks...wondering if they'll scan me next week and start then as I'm flying to Dubai that evening....hence her wanting to see me before hand.

Still only 1-2 on digi this morning which is freaking me out...the pessaries cause alot of residue I do wonder if it affects the test result or if I'm not progressing or digis are just rubbish. So much worry x x x

 

[Oasis717]

Aw love sorry its such an awful time for you atm, hoping you pick up soon and get some answers too xxx

 

[TTC74]

I've been lurking and keeping an eye on you all.

I was out from go last month because I had to have neck surgery. I'm trying to stay optimistic for this month, but it is certainly hard after my 9 week mmc a few months ago.

On a more positive note,my dd got married last Friday night. It was such a moving experience. I only hope my childless dh can experience it one day.

 

[Oasis717]

Hey hunni how are you? So glad the wedding went so well, you still have plenty of time don't forget I had Brooklyn at 42 after a 12 week loss, 11 week loss and a chemical, don't loose hope sweetheart xxxx

 

[TTC74]

I'm actually feeling pretty good for being less than 3 weeks post neck surgery. I went back to work Monday. I was feeling pretty good about having a longer than usual AF until a friend said "yeah, that happens in perimenopause." Ugh!

Here's a pic from my daughter's wedding just because I have to brag.