Almost outta first fri, friable cervix and red bleeding. Scared

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Hi ladies. I'm 11 w 5 d. Last night I wiped and had a good bit of rust colored bleeding. Scared me to death. Went to ER and diagnosed w friable cervix. Dr said blood wasn't coming from uterus. We saw babe...beautiful heartbeat of 163. Measuring 2 days ahead. He said no sex ( I had had sex for the first time the while pregnant the night before, which probably caused it). I'm already getting pretty big ( second baby) and was looking forward to telling ppl after my 12 week appt this Friday. Now I feel like I shouldn't. Dr said last night miscarriage rate was less than 2% but seeing blood last night makes me feel like it's pretty fragile. What would you do? Not tell ppl and wait another month or so, or go ahead and share the news? Any of you ladies have a similar experience? I'm so gutted.
 
My cervix is very sensitive and is prone to bleeding or spotting throughout my pregnancies. This time (and with my second and third pregnancies as well), the spotting/bleeding stopped at 11-14 weeks along. With my last pregnancy (my fourth), I spotted and bled allllllllllll the way through. All of my pregnancies went perfectly, though! Labor and delivery was fine. Babies are all great! Your cervix will probably toughen up soon, and you probably won't have spotting/bleeding forever... You can go ahead and keep the secret until you feel secure with the pregnancy, but this is not an uncommon issue. :hugs:
 
Thanks soooo much!!! It makes me feel so much better to hear of someone w similar experience and a happy ending. Hugs!
 
Don't worry! Friable cervix is basically a very whiny, bitchy cervix that is very easily triggered to bleed. Happens a lot in pregnancy. I have no experience with it myself, but I do know quite a lot of people that have dealt with it. All their babies are fine :)
 
Oh my gosh, I wanna hug you! Thank you for this!!! I have been nerve wracked since Saturday
 
Blabla - perfectly put!

I had a bitchy cervix and it finally stopped giving me heat attacked at 27 weeks. I was on pelvic rest most pregnancy and bled after BMs and any other strain. As long as it's not coming from your uterus you're fine. Glad you got to see the LO doing well. I had a home doppler and would listen to her heartbeat after every spot...
 
Thanks so much! I'm considering getting a Doppler too for the same reason. It's so scary!!
 
LadyLovenox, I saw your thread in the Gestational Complications forum first, but I'll copy my answer here too:

Yep, I have had recurrent bleeding that's been driving me INSANE this pregnancy. And after 5 repeat losses, it's been a rollercoaster ride this time.

I had bleeding at 5.5w, then nothing, then bleeds from 10w onwards. Everything from pink to brown to bright red, but painless. For awhile they chalked it up to constipation (which does trigger it). For us sex wasn't a trigger since we were too afraid to DTD anyways.

Then I had a bigger bleed at around 15.5w - went to the ER, they couldn't find anything in the uterus bleeding, so it was still unexplained at that point. I continued to have occasions of bright red bleeding, painless, but tapered off fast to spotting then clears up. Sometimes triggered by things like constipation, but sometimes nothing at all. At 17w they did a transvag scan that found a low lying placenta (2cm away from the os) that they said might have been the source of the bleeding.

I continued to have episodes of self limiting bleeding off and on, usually every 1.5-2w apart, but it never lasted long. It pretty much felt and looked like a nosebleed but from down there. Everything was fine in our testing and scans, I can feel baby move and I have a doppler to reassure me. At the anatomy scan last week all was normal too. I had a consult with a high risk OB this week, and they did a speculum check and finally found the cause of the bleeds - ectropian cervix (cervical erosion). They also said that pelvic rest wasn't necessary.

So yesterday me and DH had intercourse, and BAM - triggers a big bleed. I bled off and on all day, was on the phone with L&D all day, and it seems like even though it felt like a lot of blood (red bleeding off and on for almost 14 hours) that it's all within normal for an ectropian cervix. So now I'm back to pelvic rest and much frustration with my very high libido!

Anyways, long story is, in my case it seems to be freaky as hell to experience but harmless to the baby. It's very scary though. We didn't announce our pregnancy until just this week after the anatomy scan, but that had nothing to do with the bleeding, more that after all the losses we wanted to be assured by a good anatomy scan before we told everyone.

Also - definitely get a doppler!!! I sometimes have a love/hate relationship with the thing since I overworry about the rate, but it's been a sanity saver with all my bleeding incidences. Also, now I worry about being too complacent about bleeding, but I know if there was something seriously wrong the baby's heartbeat would start to do weird things, so the doppler is really reassuring for that too.
 
Wow!!! What a wild ride you've had. I am so sorry!! That's so scary!!! Thank God all is still okay with your babe!! Thanks for sharing that ...def makes me feel better!! I have an appt in morning and I'm just so beside myself with worry. I def need a doppler. I'd sleep better at night, knowing baby was okay in there. Especially since I can't feel him or her yet.
 
I definitely recommend a doppler, the Sonoline B is the best at picking up the hb early. But it can be hit/miss finding the hb early on. I managed to find it starting at 10.5w but that's still on the early side, and it took a VERY long time to find at first. So be aware that finding the hb on the doppler before 14w can be very hit or miss.
 

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