Am i allowed here?

[alli.s]

i ladies i recently went through what i believe was a chemical pregnancy, i got my bfp on a FRER then got bloods done they were also positive but low so they thought it was early, a few days later i was bleeding and sure enough after more bloods were done i found out my levels were at 4 meaning not pregnant. Is it okay if i come here? i know a lot of you have lost babies later than i had and i am so sorry for that, no woman should have to endure that. I was just hoping for some advice and some help, i will be trying again this month, that was my second month of trying that i got pregnant so i'm hoping for a quick but sticky bean, is there anyone who would want to buddy up with me?

 

[ChloeStar]

Yes and sorry for your loss xxx

 

[Bells n Bump]

Hi alli.s, im sorry for your loss, it doesn't matter how early it is any loss is painful, I am just starting to try again after a mmc and an ectopic and I am also hoping for a quick and sticky bean (in the right place of course) as both times I have got my bfp within the first couple of months of trying. I'm here if you need to chat about anything xxx

Sending you lots of baby dust

 

[alli.s]

thank you bells n bump, your actively TTC now?

 

[Bells n Bump]

Yeah, the plan was to start september but my maternal needs are eager to get going, however due to work and other commitments I think we have missed it this month, but next month is going to be a different story hopefully.

Fingers crossed we get lucky soon!! xxx

 

[alli.s]

yes hoping i catch the egg this month again and it decides to stay

 

[Mon_n_john]

My dear chemical pregnancies are still pregnancies and still painful, believe me, I know. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope we all get our BFPs in the coming weeks!

 

[slurpie]

Chemical or not, early or late, it hurts like mad.
BFP to all!!!

 

[sannod]

I absolutely believe that counts. I had a cycle last year where I 100% believe I was pregnant but I never got a BFP and my period even started early but it was the heaviest period I have ever had and no one will ever convince me otherwise. i was completely devastated and now that I have miscarried at 8 weeks I am even more certain that I was indeed pregnant last year as well. Any loss is still that,... a loss.
i wish you all the best

 

[GreyGirl]

Counts to me! I'm sorry for your loss

 

[silentlullaby]

Of course you can be here!

B&B is the right place to be if you need support and opinions.

I'm sorry to hear of your loss but wish you all the luck in the world


- also hoping for a sticky bean (in the right place this time)