Am I? Am I not? I don't know.

[littlesteph]

that would be why then, about 9 is what i usaully have.
well i did a test this morning and it's still negative so i told my hubby if nothing changes by the 10th then i'll go see a doctor, and tell whats going on and i want tests done to find out why i've been feeling like this.

 

[Smiler82]

I was wondering how you got on yesterday....sorry it's another bfn

You've been trying for over a year now though haven't you? That should be reason enough for them to start giving you some tests. I agree with pinksprinkles, BBT can be really helpful maybe you could give it a go? Hope you're ok xx

 

[littlesteph]

thats ok, i kinda expected it.

yep, we've both have had tests done, but i don't think they've done enough.
my hubbys came back normal, but looking online it more the lower normal end. so he's cut down on how much he smokes.
i've had a scan done just over a year ago, which came back everything was normal, but got told i had pco, so had a blood test which came back neagtive for pco.
my lastest blood test was done in june, as i changed doctors he didn't believe i had pco so ordered a blood test which came back negative again for pco.
but there has to be something wrong i can try for this long and not fall pregnant if there wasn't some thing wrong.

i've been getting cramps like af is comming for the past 3 days, usually i only get cramps like that the day before af, so i'm starting maybe i just skipped one.

i have started tracking my bbt. today has gone up quite a bit from yesturday but that might be because it's pretty hot today.

yea i'm ok thank you.

 

[littlesteph]

another test done, still negative.
My mum-inlaw has told me to get the clear blue ones, as they are meant to be really good.
either way i am calling a doctor on monday, i need to know what is going on.

 

[CuddleBunny]

Sorry you're getting bfn's hun And good luck at the doctor

 

[Smiler82]

Ah sweetie sounds so confusing and frustrating. It has been over a year so I think you should be asking your GP to refer you to a fertility consultant. I reckon as you are having problems with your cycles they'll possibly want to put you on clomid. GPs used to be able to prescribe it but not any more, so you really do need a referral.

My DH had a semen analysis done earlier this year and it came back a bit on the low side as well. But he'd been ill and stressed so the consultant said that probably brought it down so he had to wait 3 months and do it again, and this time the result was much better. So hopefully after some time off the cigarettes your DH's result will improve too. Maybe you could get him to take a multivitamin every day as well, that's what I make mine do

Good luck for your appointment xx

 

[littlesteph]

I've called my doctor i've an appointment friday. I'm to ask about having more tests then.
it really sucks its so easy for some people and the rest of us struggle.
I think i'll have to talk to him about him taken some vitiams, hopefully he'll be up for the idea.
i got the clearblue test, i'm planing on doing that tomorrow, i've been told they are meant to be really good. although i've looked on what the lowest it detacts, which is 25.
so if i am is should come out posstive by now seeing though i'd be 8 weeks today.
it's all so confussing.
oh well i guess i'll soon find out haha .
Thank you
I hope everything works out for you too.

 

[littlesteph]

I went to my doctors friday,
i found that i have some sort of gentic thing according to my records, they want me to find out more, which is a bit hard when i can't get hold of my mum, so now that means having to be tested for it.
as for my cycle, he said it's more likly a case of i've skipped yet another one.
which it turn out i had, AF showed her face yesturday. some how i kinda knew it she would and on saturday funny enough.
So i'm out, on the plus side i can finally get my tattoo done and i can go to thorpe park without having to worry if i'm pregnant or not.
now that i have come on again, my doctor can do more tests, i have to go back next week so it can all be arranged, i will soon find out why it is taking so long to fall pregnant.

 

[pinksprinkles]

I'm sorry that about his last cycle, but I'm really gkad the docs are paying attention and testing you. Hopefully they'll have you ovulating regularly soon! Let us know how the tests go!

 

[littlesteph]

thanks
at least now they can find out whats going on