PregnantKitty
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So, I have ptsd from childhood abuse and some things really set me off and I just do not like. One of those things is fire or lit cigarettes being near me.
So, tonight i admit to my OH that when he smokes he gets too near me with his lit cigs and what does he do? He chuckles and acts like he's gonna burn me with it!
I was/am really hurt about that. And i know it may seem silly to some, but i feel like i had confided a serious fear to him that he not only didnt take seriously, but picked on me for.
He's been rather ... inconsiderate for a while now about a lot of things, and we're supposed to be working on that and trust and i feel like he doesnt even give a shi*.
I dunno. Maybe im just being moody and stuff, but i dont know how to tell him how much it hurt my feelinfs without him gettind mad and starting another fight. I know he doesnt see it as a big deal. He even proceeded to ask me for sex afterwards.
I cant believe he cant see or doesnt care about how upset i am about this and i dont know how he could think im in the mood, right now.
Am i being irrational here or making a big deal out of nothing? I cant help that it scares me so much, but should i be so mad that he did that?
Im so confused and upset.
So, tonight i admit to my OH that when he smokes he gets too near me with his lit cigs and what does he do? He chuckles and acts like he's gonna burn me with it!
I was/am really hurt about that. And i know it may seem silly to some, but i feel like i had confided a serious fear to him that he not only didnt take seriously, but picked on me for.
He's been rather ... inconsiderate for a while now about a lot of things, and we're supposed to be working on that and trust and i feel like he doesnt even give a shi*.
I dunno. Maybe im just being moody and stuff, but i dont know how to tell him how much it hurt my feelinfs without him gettind mad and starting another fight. I know he doesnt see it as a big deal. He even proceeded to ask me for sex afterwards.
I cant believe he cant see or doesnt care about how upset i am about this and i dont know how he could think im in the mood, right now.
Am i being irrational here or making a big deal out of nothing? I cant help that it scares me so much, but should i be so mad that he did that?
Im so confused and upset.