So I have two grumbles
1 I've chosen not to have my mum as my birthing partner (not with the dad his a dick head and had fucked off) so I'm having my friend, now I'm due march 23rd next year, I have a 14 yr old son that is younger than his years and is on the autism and aspergers spectrum, he lives with his dad I get wkends. Now my mum is going to be my call out to get my son and look after him so my mum phones last night and says that "Jursey boys " is on at the theatre and her and her best mate are hoping to go only the dates are 19-28 th March I said what if I go into labour she said u will have to call your sons dad (diff dad to one I'm still growing) or see if your brother can get him or take him with u to the Labour.
2nd my mum works in a charity shop and got me a Moses basket and said" it's fine it's really nice very smartly dressed ladies bought it in u won't need to get a new mattress it look fine I don't think it's even been used" so yesturdsy I have a look at said perfect Moses basket I wouldn't sleep a homeless dog in it. The mattress was stained with yellow and brown miss shapen and had sick over the bumper sheet and yellow brown stains on the sheet, when I said I'l get a new mattress and she my baby and il do what I want my mum completly lost it started screaming and shouting at me slammed two doors. So we thew the mattress out threw the soiled smelly sheets out so I was just left with the palm basket and hood. Tbh I don't want it at all now it only cost £5 I feel hurt and angry that either she thinks it was good enough she didn't look properly at the state of it. If she had bothered to look properly she would never of bought it.....then again.
What do i do .
1 I've chosen not to have my mum as my birthing partner (not with the dad his a dick head and had fucked off) so I'm having my friend, now I'm due march 23rd next year, I have a 14 yr old son that is younger than his years and is on the autism and aspergers spectrum, he lives with his dad I get wkends. Now my mum is going to be my call out to get my son and look after him so my mum phones last night and says that "Jursey boys " is on at the theatre and her and her best mate are hoping to go only the dates are 19-28 th March I said what if I go into labour she said u will have to call your sons dad (diff dad to one I'm still growing) or see if your brother can get him or take him with u to the Labour.
2nd my mum works in a charity shop and got me a Moses basket and said" it's fine it's really nice very smartly dressed ladies bought it in u won't need to get a new mattress it look fine I don't think it's even been used" so yesturdsy I have a look at said perfect Moses basket I wouldn't sleep a homeless dog in it. The mattress was stained with yellow and brown miss shapen and had sick over the bumper sheet and yellow brown stains on the sheet, when I said I'l get a new mattress and she my baby and il do what I want my mum completly lost it started screaming and shouting at me slammed two doors. So we thew the mattress out threw the soiled smelly sheets out so I was just left with the palm basket and hood. Tbh I don't want it at all now it only cost £5 I feel hurt and angry that either she thinks it was good enough she didn't look properly at the state of it. If she had bothered to look properly she would never of bought it.....then again.
What do i do .
